Totally my pleasure. I was lucky in my case because British Law considers the child and also facts and disregards slander and won’t favour a gender. I never counted what I spent, but at a guess under 20k. Main thing is that I won. Not only do I get every other weekend but I also get half of the school holidays, and now she has to drive to collect him whereas I was doing all the commuting before. She tried whatever she could to make me the bad guy, but the court wasn’t interested because she had to proof to back up her lies, whereas I only gave the court a small snippet of information and it won in my favour. I could very easily go on, but you get the idea. Keep the faith, talk to your boyfriend, let him read what I’ve written. He can win, but he needs to keep his focus in place. One thing I was told a long time ago is not get personal. No name calling. Just be polite regardless. Believe me, it winds them up no end because they are trying to trip you up and all they are doing is making themselves look stupid