I’m pretty sure she’d treat Rory like she treated Jess and soon as Rory stops being good and prioritizing school.

We saw that on the pilot when Rory almost quit going to Chilton because of a boy, Lorelai was very firm and controlling (understandably so) on “you’re not gonna put a boy first”.

We also saw that when Rory took a break from Yale, same thing.

Lorelai is only cool mom as long as Rory puts school first.