Look, I'm not a fan of Holidays or Birthdays either. I know it's a fresh relationship which is why I reminded him last week and the week of. I find it weird to mention it's my b'day the day of. I'm not the type to make everything about myself. The only reason I posted here was because I wanted to see if it was just my friend's being overdramatic or if I was blind to love. I've been his number 1 protector which is why I've ignored the "red flags". I always give people multiple chances. So I'd say I'm pretty grown and I'm always open to growing more