From 2005 to 2009 Valance dated Australian actor Alex O'Loughlin. In 2009 she had a brief relationship with English musician Frankmusik, after appearing in his music video "Confusion Girl". In 2010 she started dating billionaire British property developer Nick Candy, whom she married on 29 September 2012 in Beverly Hills, California. In November 2013, Valance gave birth in London to their first child, a daughter. In September 2017, they had a second daughter.
