md: call __md_stop_writes in md_stop
In the Linux kernel, the following vulnerability has been resolved:

md: call __md_stop_writes in md_stop

From the link [1], we can see raid1d was running even after the path
raid_dtr -> md_stop -> __md_stop.

Let's stop write first in destructor to align with normal md-raid to
fix the KASAN issue.

[1]. https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/CAPhsuW5gc4AakdGNdF8ubpezAuDLFOYUO_sfMZcec6hQFm8nhg@mail.gmail.com/T/#m7f12bf90481c02c6d2da68c64aeed4779b7df74a