Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Kabul, Afghanistan (CNN) He hua whakamataku rawa. Kia tūkinotia koe e te tāne o tō whanaunga; kia herea mō te moepuku i te mea kua marenatia tō kaiwhawhai; kia mamae i te whakamā o te ngangau o te ao mō tō herehere me te whakaeke, engari kia murua e te ture peresideni; kātahi kia mau ki te whakama me te whakakahoretanga mai i tētahi hapori pūmau i whakahe i a koe. Ko te otinga i roto i tēnei hapori? E marena ki tō kaiwhai. Koina te mea i pa ki a Gulnaz, e 16 noa iho ona tau i te wā i tūkinotia ai ia. Kei te hapu ia i te tamaiti tuatoru o tana kaiwhaiwhai, a Asadullah, i whiua, i herea - ahakoa i whakaitihia i muri mai. Ko te raru o Gulnaz - penei i te nuinga o nga mea i Afghanistan e whakapaea ana - i ngaro mai i te tirohanga o te ao i te wa i murua ai ia, i tukuna mai i runga i te atawhai a te perehitini. Hei utu mo te timatanga hou, ko te mea i whai ake mo Gulnaz he rongoā puku, he otinga Afghan mo te "raru" - he tohu e whakaatu ana i te waahi o nga tika o nga wahine i Afghanistan ahakoa nga piriona kua ringihia ki tenei whenua mai i te kawanatanga o Amerika me ona hoa o NATO i roto i te tekau tau o te pakanga. I kitea e mātou a Gulnaz i te kāinga o tōna whānau. Ko Smile, te ingoa o te tamahine i whanau mai i te raupatu, he kotiro marama inaianei, e peke haere ana i te whare e noho tahi ana tona whaea me te wahine tuatahi a Asadullah - he whanaunga ano hoki a Gulnaz. I whakaae a Asadullah kia kōrero mātou ki a ia rāua ko Gulnaz nā te mea, i te āhua nei, e hiahia ana ia ki te whakaatu mai ki a mātou kua whakaritea ngā mea, i raro i te putanga o Afghanistan o te tikanga pāpori i tika tana mahi. I whakaorangia e ia a Gulnaz i te whakama. "Mehemea kaore au i marena ki a ia, (engari) e ai ki o maatau tikanga, kaore i taea e ia te ora i roto i te hapori", e kii ana ia ki a maatau. "Kāore ōna tuakana i whakaae kia hoki mai ia. 2011: E hia mano ngā tāngata i haina i tētahi petihana mō te tuku i a Gulaz. I noho humarie a Gulnaz puta noa i to mātou hui, ā, kāore anō kia titiro atu ki tōna tāne. "Kāore au i te hiahia ki te whakangaro i te oranga o taku tamahine, ki te waiho rānei i a au ki te kore āwhina, nō reira i whakaae ahau kia marenatia ia", e ai ki a ia. "He iwi tuku iho mātou. Ina whiwhi tatou i tētahi kino...
I mauheretia a Gulnaz i muri i te whakaekenga i te mea kua marenatia tana kaipahua. I aro nui te ao ki tana take; i whakaoho i te murunga hara a te perehitini. I akina ia ki te marena ki tana kaiwhaiwhai, ki te kore e whakahawea.