Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Kua whakaae te whaea o ngā tamariki tokorua e hiahia ana ia ki tana tama taitamariki, ā, e kī ana ko te hononga motuhake e pā ana ki tōna 'hau motuhake' - ā, e hūhū ana ia i ngā wā katoa. I whakaae a Amie Cox, 33, o Wikitoria i te hononga hinengaro i a ia mo tana tama a Alex, 5, i runga i tana tama matua a William, 7, i a ia e puta ana i runga i te kaupapa SBS Insight mo te whakataetae tuakana. Mai i te putanga mai o ana whakapuakitanga ki te paetukutuku Insight, i kii a Ms Cox ki a Daily Mail Ahitereiria kua whakaekehia ia, kua kiia hoki ia he 'whare', engari he 'Mama aroha noa' ia. I kii ia ko te hononga ki te kakara o Alex i tiimata mai i te wa tuatahi i mau ia ia i muri i te whanautanga, a, mo nga marama tuatahi e ono ki te 12 o tona oranga kaore ia i hiahia kia pa atu tetahi atu ki a ia, ki te 'whakapiri ranei i to ratou kakara ki a ia' na te mea ka raru i tana kakara motuhake me te motuhake. PANUI PANUI PANUI PANUI PANUI PANUI PANUI Ko Amie Cox, 33, o Wikitoria, me ana tama tokorua, ko Alex e rima-tau te pakeke (maui) e kii ana ia he 'hononga kakara motuhake' kei te hongi ia ia 'i nga wa katoa' me William, 7, e kii ana ia he ngawari ake, he whanaungatanga noa me tana teina iti, a he rite tonu tana aroha ki nga tama tokorua. Mai i nga whakakitenga mo te ahua o tana hiahia ki te haunga o tana tama nohinohi a Alex, e kii ana a Amie Cox kua whakaekehia ia i runga i te paetukutuku SBS Insight, engari e kii ana ko ia he 'Mama aroha noa' e atawhai ana i ana tama me te tama matua a William e whakaaro ana ko tana tuakana a Alex he 'haunga motuhake' Amie Cox i kii ia i piri ia ki tana tama nohinohi a Alex (whakaahua, matau, me tana tuakana a William, 7) i muri i tona whanautanga kaore ia i pai ki te tangata ki te tarai i a ia ma te pa ki a ia 'ka haere tonu i nga marama tuatahi e ono ki te 12, ahakoa kua whakamahia ia inaianei. I puta mai nga whakakitenga a Ms Cox i te wa o te tuhi o te hōtaka i te wa i uiuia ai te hunga whakarongo ki te whare wānanga mehemea he tino pai ki a ratau tetahi tamaiti i tetahi atu. Kāore a Ms Cox i whakaroa ki te whakautu 'Alex'. I te wā i whakangahau ai te hunga whakarongo me ngā kaiwhakatairanga o SBS ki tana whakautu tere, ka mea a Ms Cox 'Kua oti i te tangata... e kore e taea e koe te mea,' ka mea ia...
E whakaae ana tētahi whaea e rua he tamaiti tino pai tana nā te kakara o tana tamaiti. E ai ki a Amie Cox, he kakara tā te tama a Alex'mai i tōna whānautanga' E mea ana a ia'he momo hononga kakara' kei a ia. E aroha ana ia ki a ia me tana tuakana engari ko Alex te mea motuhake. E mea ana a Amie kāore i taea e ia te whiriwhiri i tētahi i runga i tētahi kia ora, kia mate rānei engari e manakohia ana e Alex. E kii ana te wahine 33-tau-tau kei te whakaekehia ia, ka kiia hoki he 'whare' engari ko ia 'he whaea aroha noa' Ka pātai te hōtaka SBS Insight mēnā ka arahina e te whakataetae tuākana ki te ako me ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro, ā, mēnā ka kino ake tēnei i te manakohanga ā-whānau.