Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Ka whakararuraru a PersonX i te whakaaro a PersonY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: Ka whakararuraru a Carrie i te whakaaturanga a Keiona. Inaianei kei te whakama a Carrie, nā te mea kāore i te tika tana kōrero, ā, kua whakararuraru i te whakaaturanga. Ka tono whakarere ia ki a Keiona me te hunga whakarongo, ka noho ki tona nohoanga.