Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  I mataku a Gemma Redhead i muri i te waea atu a tana hoa o mua ki a ia i muri i tana tukunga mai i te whare herehere, whai muri i tana whakapae mo tana raupatu i a ia. I tūkinotia rawakore i te taha o te maripi, ā, i mahue i te wehi mō tōna oranga, i whakapono a Gemma Redhead kua mutu tōna whakamamaetanga i muri i te mauheretanga o tana kaitukino. Engari i a ia e ngana ana ki te hanga anō i tōna oranga, he whakamaharatanga whakamataku ta te whaea taitamariki i te whakaeke <unk> mai i te tangata nana i mahi. I muri i tana tukunga mai i te whare herehere, i te hawhe noa iho o tana whiu, ka whakahe ia ki te whakahau kia kaua e haere atu ki te waea atu ki a ia. I kii a Miss Redhead ko te waea 46 hēkona "i whakaara ake i te wehi katoa me te whakamataku o te whakaeke", kaore i taea e ia te moe, te kai ranei. "I taku rongonga i tōna reo, ka mōhio au ko wai ia, ā, ka whakararuraru i tētahi mea i roto i ahau", i kī ia. Ko Miss Redhead, 33, kua whakarerea e ia tana tika ki te kore ingoa, i mahue ki te raruraru raruraru i muri i te raruraru i muri i te kaha o tana hoa o mua, a Philip Kirby. E waru tau a ia e whakamanawanui ana i te tūkino i te ringa o Kirby, ā, ka tino kino ōna whakaeke, i noho wehi ia ia rā, i te whakaaro ka whakamatea ia e ia. I te marama o Akuhata 2010, i whakatau te whaea o nga tamariki tokowha, he tamaiti tana ki a Kirby, ki te wehe atu i a ia. I muri i to raua wehenga, kaore a Kirby, 32, i whakaae ki te mutunga o to raua hononga, a ka inoi ki a Miss Redhead kia hoki mai ia. I haere tonu ia ki te whakawhiu i a ia, a, i te mutunga, ka tomo ia ki roto ki tona whare i mua i tana whakawhiu i a ia ki te whiu kino. I muri i te whakaeke whakamataku tuatahi, ka inoi a Miss Redhead ki a ia kia haere, engari ka mea ia ki a ia: "Ka haere ahau ki te whare herehere mo te wa roa na he aha te rereketanga?" i mua i te whakaeke ia ia ano. I whakakahore a Kirby, nō Newcastle, i te tīmatanga i te tūkino. Engari i te rā tuatahi o tana whakawakanga ka huri i a ia tana whakaaetanga, ka whakaae ki te wha o nga whakapae mo te raupatu. I te Paenga-whāwhā 2011, i herea ia mo te waru tau me te rima tau te roa o te raihana raihana. I whakawhiwhia hoki ki a ia he ture aukati e aukati ana i te whakapiri atu ki a Miss Redhead mo te toenga o tona oranga. I taua wā ka tīmata ia ki te tohutohu, tae atu ki te rongoā hinengaro, me te rongoā hei āwhina i a ia...
I mauheretia a Philip Kirby mō te waru tau i te tau 2011 mō te tūkino i a Gemma Redhead. I tūkinotia e te tangata 32 tau te pakeke i tana hoa o mua me te whaea o tana tamaiti i runga i te wero i te maripi, ā, i herea ia, ā, i rāhuitia te whakapā atu ki a ia mō te oranga katoa. I tukuna ia mai i te whare herehere i muri i nga tau e toru, a ka waea atu ki a Ms Redhead, i mahue i te wehi me te whakaaro kua mau ia i te waea mai i tana hoa o mua. Kua whakahokia a Kirby ki te whare herehere, ā, e kore ia e tukuna kia tae noa ki te tau 2023.