Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Kua tūtaki mai tētahi kukupa ki tōna rangatira i muri i te tata ki te kotahi tau e rere ana, ā, kua kitea he kāinga hou - i te 109 o ōna tau. Ko te rangatira o te whare, a Wendy Stokes, 74 ona tau, kua kore ia e tumanako kia kite anō ia i a Toby i muri i tana rerenga mai i tana kari i te 11 marama ki muri. Engari kua hoki mai ia ki te kāinga ināianei, ā, i muri i te whakatakoto i ōna haerenga i te tau kua hipa, kua mārama kua whai wāhi nui ia. Ka hui anō: E hari ana a Wendy Stokes, 74, ki te hoki mai o Toby, 109-tau te pakeke, i muri i tana rerenga i te 11 marama ki muri. I haereere ia i roto i tētahi tatau i roto i tōna kari, ā, i ahu atu ki te huarahi tuwhera, i reira i hopukina ai ia e tētahi taraiwa e haere ana, e āwangawanga ana mō tōna haumaru, ā, i kawea ki tētahi pokapū whakaora kararehe e tata ana. E ono marama ki muri, i tukuna ia ki tētahi tokorua e noho ana ki Margate, Kent, e 22 maero te tawhiti mai i te pāmu a Wendy i West Hougham. Engari ko te tokorua, e taea ana e ratou te wehewehe i te kupu 'Stokes' i tuhia ki te peita ma i runga i tona angaanga, i whakaaro ratou me rapu e ratou ko wai a Tony. Kaore he mea atu hei haere, ka whakatau rātau ki te waea atu ki nga Stokes katoa i Kent i tuhia ki te pukapuka waea. I te mutunga, ka tutaki a Wendy, he tangata harikoa, nana nei i whakarite kia tangohia ia. I whanau a Toby i nga tau 1980 i te wā i hoatu ai ia ki a ia e tana tupuna tupuna. I hoki mai ia ki te kāinga i te Rātapu whakamutunga, kotahi tekau mā tahi marama i muri i tana haerenga whakamiharo, ahakoa he mea puhoi. Kua noho a Wendy ki a Toby mai i te tekau tau atu i 1980, ā, kua tuhia tōna ingoa whānau, ko Stokes, ki tōna tuara ki te peita mā. Ka mea a Wendy, he kaimahi ahuwhenua kua reti: 'I peitaina e au taku ingoa me taku nama ki te taha o tana kopare engari kua ngaro i a ia i ngaro ai kia kore ai e taea te panui. 'Ko te hunga i kitea ia i taea te pānui i Stokes engari kihai i taea e ratou te hanga i roto i te maha. 'Kua puta ia no te mea i mahue i ahau toku kuwaha tuwhera. I te nuinga o te wā ka katia, nā te mea he hipi ō mātou i roto i te wharekai, engari i roto i tētahi mara kē. 'I haere noa atu a Toby ki waho, ka rere atu ki te huarahi i reira ka hopukina ia e tētahi, ka kawea ki tētahi pokapū whakaoranga. 'E mōhio ana te katoa kei a au he kōtiro, ā, ka mau tonu mātou ki a ia ki te hakari o te kāinga, nō reira he tangata rongonui ia. 'I tino pouri ahau i a ia e haere ana...
I mawhiti atu a Toby i te kuwaha o muri mai i tana kari a Wendy Stokes i Kent. I hopukina ia e tētahi taraiwa i tētahi rori tata, ā, i kawea ki tētahi pokapū whakaoranga. E ono marama i muri mai ka noho ia ki tētahi tokorua i Margate - 22 maero te tawhiti atu. I tuhia e Toby te ingoa'Stokes'ki runga i tana kopare, no reira i whakamatau te tokorua ki te waea atu ki nga Stokes katoa i Kent i mua i tana whakakotahitanga ki a Wendy 11 marama i muri i tana rerenga.