Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E ako ana te tangata X, kaua e haere ki te pōwhiri rā whānau
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: Kei te ako a Ramir mō tētahi whakamātautau kei te heke mai, kaua ki te haere ki te pōti rā whānau o tētahi hoa. Ki te whakaaro a Ramir, he mea nui ake te whakarite mo te whakamātautau i te haere ki te pāti.