Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Kua kōrero tētahi wahine i kīia ki a ia, kāore ia e whai hua i muri i tana maimoatanga mate pukupuku, i tōna koa i te whanautanga o tētahi tamaiti tāne. I kii nga taote ki a Cara Newton, 32, no Fleet, Hampshire, he kore pea te tupono ki te hapu maori i muri i tana kitenga i te mate pukupuku wheua i te tau 2009. Ahakoa i marie a Mrs. Newton rāua ko tana tāne, ko Chris, 34, i te mea kua whai hua te chemotherapy, i tino pouri rāua i te kitenga e kore rāua e whai whānau ake. Ko ētahi rongoā matū ka mutu tonu te whakaputa o ngā hua manu i roto i ngā whekau. Ko te tikanga o tēnei, kāore e taea e te wahine te hapū, ā, ka pā pea ki a ia ngā tohu o te wā o te kōhurutanga, pērā ki a Mrs Newton. I korerotia ki a Cara Newton, 32 (me tana tahu a Chris), he kore ōrau te tūponotanga o te hapū māori i muri i tana kitenga i te mate pukupuku wheua i te tau 2009. Ki tana tino miharo, i whanau mai a ia ki te tamaiti a Sebastian i runga i te tikanga. I kitea a Mrs. Newton i te sarcoma o Ewing - he momo mate pukupuku wheua onge - i te Paenga-whāwhā 2009. He maha nga rauna o te chemotherapy i tukuna e nga taakuta ka whakangaro i tana whai hua. I muri i te koretake o te IVF, ka mataku te tokorua e kore e taea e rātau te whai tamariki. Engari tekau marama i muri mai ka miharo rātau i te kitenga o Mrs Newton kua hapū i te tamaiti a Sebastian, i whānau i te marama o Paenga-whāwhā kua hipa. I whakamātauria e te tokorua te IVF mā te whakamahi i tētahi hua ārai mate, engari i te kore e taea, ka mataku rātau i te kino rawa. Kātahi, 10 marama i muri mai, ki to rātau tino miharo, ka hapū a Mrs Newton i te pēpi o Sebastian, i whānau i te marama o Paenga-whāwhā o te tau kua hipa. Ka mea ia: 'I pouri ahau i te wā i kī mai ai ngā tākuta ki a au, kāore he tūponotanga kia riro au hei whaea. 'Kua tangohia e te chemotherapy oku makawe, kua mate ahau, a, kua heke iho ahau i te tinana ki te menopause wawe. 'I hiahia tonu ahau ki te whai tamariki, engari ko aku tūmanako ki te whai whānau ake, kua ngaro i te pō kotahi.' I tāpiri atu a ia: 'I whakatau maua ko Chris ki te whakamatau i te IVF mā te whakamahi i tētahi hua manu. Ahakoa ehara te tamaiti i te mea noaku, ahakoa ka hapū au, ka riro mātau hei mātua.' 'I te wa i taka ai, i pouri ahau, engari i etahi marama i muri mai ka hapu ahau ma te taiao, he moemoea ka tutuki. Me pupuri e mātou...
I korerotia ki a Cara Newton, 32, kua kore ia e whai hua i muri i tana mahi chemotherapy. I kitea he mate pukupuku wheua onge te mate pukupuku Ewing i te tau 2009. Ko ētahi rongoā matū e whakamutu tonu ana i te whakaputa o ngā huawhenua i ngā hua manu. I muri i te kore o te IVF, i tino koa ia ki te whakapakoko i te tamaiti a Sebastian ma te taiao.