Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E manukanuka ana te TangataX ki ngā whakaaro o te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E manukanuka ana a Matheo ki ngā whakaaro o Marta. E mōhio ana ia he nui ngā mea i pā mai ki a Marta, ā, kāore ia i te hiahia kia whara ia. Ka whakatau a Matheo ki te korero ki a Marta mo ana awangawanga.