Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Mai i te kore o te moe ki te whāngai i te u, ehara i te mea iti te noho hei whaea mo te wā tuatahi. I whakatau tētahi whaea hou ki te tīmata i tētahi rangitaki ko Upfront Mama e whakamārama ana i ngā whakamātautau me ngā whakapawera o te whakatipu i tana kōtiro, a Poppy, 14 marama, ko wai, e ai ki a ia, ko te mea pai rawa atu, ko te mea tino huri ora i pa ki a ia. Ka rite ki te maha o nga whaea hou, ko Nicola Bonn, 34, mai i Rānana e ako ana i runga i te mahi, a, i kitea e ia te wheako katoa 'he mea whakaongaonga, engari he tino whakamataku.' Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. I tīmata a Nicola Bonn, 34, nō Rānana, i tētahi rangitaki mārama e kīia ana ko Upfront Mama e whakamārama ana i ngā whakamātautau me ngā whakapawera o te whakatipu i tana tamahine iti, a Poppy, 14 marama, ā, he maha ōna pou i horapa atu ki te ipurangi. I hiahia ia ki te whakapuaki i nga mea katoa i akohia e ia kia kore ai etahi atu whaea e 'kore' penei i a ia. Ko tētahi o ana pou rangitaki, He aha Mā Tatou e Kati ai te Whakamāramatanga i a Mātau, i horapa ki te ipurangi - kāore e kore he mihi ki a ia mo tana kōrero pono mo te whakatipu i tētahi pēpi mō te wā tuatahi. Anei, ka tohaina e ia ki a FEMAIL... 'Mai i te wā i riro ai ahau hei whaea, he nui rawa te wā i pau i ahau ki te whakamārama i ahau, ā, tata tonu ki te tono hara mō aku whakataunga, ā, kua whakatau ahau me mutu. 'Ko te raruraru ko te wa e whai koe i te tamaiti, he katoa he whakaaro, a ratou e kore e wehi ki te hau i te reira e taea e tino nui mo te whaea hou e he iti wheako atu i te 'kaitohutohu hoatu' me te tino pea ki tonu i te taumata tiketike o te feaa whaiaro. I hiahia a Nicola, 34, ki te whakapuaki i ngā mea katoa i akona e ia kia kore ai ētahi atu māmā e whakaaro 'kaore he whakaaro' pēnei i a ia, ā, e whakaae ana ia mai i te wā i riro ai ia hei māmā, he nui rawa te wā i pau i a ia e whakamārama ana i a ia anō, ā, tata tonu ki te tono hara mō ana whakataunga - ā, kua whakatau ia me mutu. E whakapono ana ia ko tētahi o ngā ārai matua ko te whai whakaaro a te katoa, ā, kāore rātau i te mataku ki te whakaputa i te whakaaro, e ai ki a ia, he tino nui rawa mō te whaea hou kāore i te tino mōhio. I roto i te tau kua hipa, he maha nga tangata i patai i nga whakataunga i mahia e au. Ka mahia tonutia e rātau i roto i tēnei āhua harakore engari tino...
Ko Nicola Bonn, he kairipoata, he kaiwhakapāho hoki, e whakaatu ana i tana kōrero pono. E kī ana kua kitea e ia te noho hei whaea hou 'he mea whakaongaonga, engari he tino whakamataku' Kei te ngenge ia i ētahi atu whaea e whakawa ana i a ia, e tohutohu ana hoki ki a ia.