Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  E mea ana a Sir James Munby me whakamahi e ngā mātua te huarahi 'karaka me te tokotoko' ki te whakawhiu i a rātau tamariki ki te mahi i ngā mea kāore rātau e hiahia ana kia mahia. Ko te mahi a ngā mātua, ko te whakatakoto i a rātau tamariki kia mahi i ngā mea kāore rātau e hiahia ana kia mahia, i kī te kaiwhakawa matua rawa o te ture whānau o te whenua inanahi. Me whakamahi ngā whaea me ngā pāpā i te huarahi "karaka me te tokotoko" hei whakaako i ngā tamariki ki te mahi i ngā mea e kitea ana e rātau he mea mauiui, he mea uaua rānei - mai i te haere ki te tākuta niho ki te mahi i ā rātau mahi kāinga, e ai ki a Sir James Munby. I tūtohu ia ki te whakakahoretanga o ngā pūkoro me ngā pūrere hiko, ki te whakatakoto i ngā taiohi ki te whenua, me <unk> ngā whakawehi e kore e taka ki te kaha rawakore<unk> hei tikanga tika mō ngā mātua kia whiwhi i a rātou. Ko te utu o te hapa, i whakaaro te kaiwhakawa, ka taea te mamae mo te wa roa mo nga matua, tae atu ki te mate o te maatauranga o nga tamariki, o te hauora ranei, ka nekehia atu e nga kaimahi hapori ki te tipu ake i te tiaki a te kawanatanga. Ko Sir James, ko ia te Perehitini o te Rōpū Whānau, i hoatu tana tohutohu i roto i tētahi take i whakakahoretia ai e rua ngā kōtiro taiohi kia kite i tō rātau pāpā mō te neke atu i te ono tau. I kī a Sir James, e noho ana i te Kooti Āpiira me Lady Justice Black rāua ko Lord Justice Vos, kāore he toa mēnā kāore ngā kōtiro, 14 me te 16 tau te pakeke, i āta whakaaro kia whakahoutia to rātau hononga ki tō rātou pāpā. I kii a Sir James he uaua te mahi matua. Otiia i tāpiri mai ia: <unk>Koinei te tikanga o te whakatupuranga. <unk>He maha ngā mea e tika ana kia mahia e rātau, kāore pea ngā tamariki e hiahia ki te mahi, e kore rānei e pai ki te mahi: te haere ki te tākuta niho, te haere ki tētahi whanaunga kaumātua e <unk>ngā ana, te haere ki te kura, te mahi mahi kāinga, te haere ki te whakamātautau rānei, he rārangi mutunga kore. <unk>Ko te mahi a ngā mātua, mā te whakamahi i ō rātou pūkenga, ngā pūkenga me ngā rautaki mātua <unk> tērā pea ko te whakamahi i te kāpeti me te rākau, ā, i te take o te tamaiti pakeke ake, ko te whakaaro me te tautohe, ko te whakaongaonga i te tamaiti ki te mahi i tāna e kore e hiahia ki te mahi.<unk> I kii a Sir James ko te mahi tahi me nga taiohi kaha te hiahia ka taea te utu me te tono. He uaua te noho hei matua, e ai ki a Sir James - engari i tapiritia e ia: 'Koina te mea e pa ana ki te whakatipu tamariki.' (Whakaahua o te taonga) <unk> Engari ko te matua...
I kōrero a Sir James Munby i a ia e whakatau ana i tētahi tautohetohe ā-whānau. Te whakahaere i te take i kore ai ngā taiohi e kite i te papa i ngā tau e ono. Ka mea te tikanga'kāroti me te tokotoko'ka āwhina i ngā mātua ki te whakaako i a rātau tamariki ki te whanonga.