Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Kāore te TangataX e hiahia ana ki te whara i te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: Kaore a Lucia i te hiahia ki a Nelly i runga i te aroha, me te hiahia noa kia noho hoa. Kāore ia e hiahia ana ki te whara i ōna whakaaro mā te whakapuaki tika i tēnei ki a ia, nō reira kua āta whakarere ia i a ia, ā, e tūmanako ana ka mārama ia.