Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  I te wā i rongo ai te matua o ngā tamariki tokotoru, a Sean McCabe, i te rongo kino, e rua marama noa iho tōna roa e ora ana, ka tīmata ia ki te whakarite i te tangihanga - te whiriwhiri i te puoro, tae atu ki te whakarite i te whare karakia. Engari i roto i tētahi hurihanga tino nui ka mutu tana mate pukupuku, ā, kua hurihia e ia tana tono mo tana marena ki tana wahine rangatira a Lisa Williams. Ko Mr McCabe, 30, o Tonyrefail, tonga Wales, i tuhi i tētahi reta poroporoaki ki ana tamariki kia pānuihia e tana hoa ki a rātou i tana matenga i muri i te mea i korerotia ki a ia he mate Hodgkin Lymphoma ia. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. I whakamahere a Sean McCabe i tana ake tangihanga i muri i tana korero ki a ia e rua marama noa iho te roa o tona oranga, engari i muri i tana whakaoranga i korerotia ki a ia kei te murunga hara ia, kua tukuna ano e ia te whare karakia mo tana marena ki a Lisa Williams (maui) 'I te mea i kii nga taakuta he iti noa aku tupono mo te ora, ko te mea anake i taea e au te whakaaro ko Lisa me nga tamariki. Kāore au i te mōhio me pēhea e ora ai rātau ki waho i a au,' te kī a Mr McCabe, he kaitiaki haumaru. 'Ko te whakamahere i taku tangihanga he huarahi ki te whakaiti i te taumaha ki a rātau, i te mea ka iti ake te mamae ki a rātau.' I kitea te papa o te tokotoru ki te mate pukupuku i te Pipiri 2013, i te 28 o ona tau, a ka timata i runga i te akoranga chemotherapy kaha. I whakawhiwhia ki a ia te katoa i te marama o Hepetema engari e rua marama noa iho ka korerotia mai kua hoki mai te mate pukupuku i roto i te ahua kino ake. E waru wiki te roa o tana oranga. I korerotia ki a Mr McCabe kua hoki mai te mate pukupuku, ā, i whakaahuahia i muri i te chemotherapy i te tau 2014. I a ia e mahi ana i nga mea katoa ka taea e ia ki te whakatutuki i tana taatai, ka tono a Mr McCabe i te Hahi o St David mo tana tangihanga, i te mutunga o Hanuere 2014. I whakahaua e ia a Miss Williams kia whakatangihia tana waiata tino pai, 'Who You Are' na Jessie J, ā, i whakahaua e ia kia kaua te hunga tangihanga e mau kakahu pango. I a ia e whakarite ana, ka whiriwhiria e ia te wahi hei whakamararatia ai e tona hapu ona pungarehu, a ka tuhia e ia he reta whakamiharo hei panui ki ana tamariki i muri i tona matenga, e mea ana ki a ratou: 'Kare ahau e hiahia ki te whakarere i a koe, i a mammy ranei, engari kaore au i whai whiringa.' Engari i taea e ia te whakaora nui, ā, i kīia ki a ia, kei te...
I kitea a Sean McCabe he mate lymphoma a Hodgkin, ā, e rua marama te roa o tōna ora, nō reira ka tīmata ia ki te whakarite i tōna matenga. I tonoa e ia te hahi mō tana tangihanga, ā, i kōwhiria e ia ngā waiata hei whakatangi. I tuhia hoki e te matua o ngā tamariki tokotoru tētahi reta poroporoaki hei pānui ki ngā tamariki tokotoru. Kua ora a Mr McCabe, ā, kua mutu te mate pukupuku, nō reira kua whakaritea e ia te whare karakia hei marena i tana hoa noho roa a Lisa Williams i tēnei tau.