Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Kua tuhia e tētahi tāne tētahi tuhinga whakamiharo e whakanui ana i tana wahine me ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e ia mō te whānau hei whaea noho-i-te-whare. Ka tuhia e Steven Nelms i te whakataki o te tuhinga e kore e taea e ia te noho i te kāinga ki tana wahine. 'Kare au i te whakaaro ki te whakahawea ki tetahi ki tenei pou,' ka tuhituhi ia. 'Kei te hiahia au ki te whakamārama i te tino tikanga o tērā kia kore ai te tangata e whakaaro kei te whakahawea au ki ngā Mātua Kāinga-I-Te-Rā.' I tuhia e Steven Nelms he tuhinga whakamiharo e whakanui ana i tana wahine me nga mea katoa e mahia ana e ia mo to ratau whanau hei whaea noho-i-te-whare ki ta raua tama e rua-tau te pakeke a Ezra. 'I te mea ke, ko te tikanga o taku e kore e taea e au te utu kia noho taku wahine ki te kāinga.' I korero a Nelms ki te Independent Journal Review e noho ana tana wahine, a Glorianna, ki te kāinga me te tama a te tokorua, a Ezra, e rua tau te pakeke, na te nui o nga utu tiaki tamariki. Engari i kii a Nelms ko te mahi he waahanga tonu o te koiora o Gloriana, i mahi ia mai i te 14 o ona tau ka uru atu ki nga moni a tona whanau i te 17 o ona tau. 'Ko te whiwhi i te utu he wāhanga nui o te whakaaro e whai uara ana ia, e manakohia ana hoki mo nga mahi pakeke katoa i mahia e ia hei whakarato i a ia ano me te awhina i tona whanau,' i pouri ia. Na ka whakatau a Nelms, no Plano, Texas, ki te tuhituhi i tētahi tuhinga, i whakairihia ki We Are Glory, i roto i a ia e whakarārangitia ana e ia te uara moni o nga mea katoa e mahia ana e tana wahine hei tiaki i te whānau. 'Ae, ko taku wahine te whaea o taku tama, ā, he hua tūturu o te noho hei mātua ki te aroha me te tiaki i tō tamaiti ake,' e tuhituhi ana ia. "He nui hoki te moni tāra e taea ana te whakarite ki ngā ratonga i tukuna". 'E kore ahau e ngana ki te whakaiti, ki te whakaiti, ki te whakaiti ranei i te aroha nui o te whaea ki tana tamaiti,' i tuhituhi ia. Engari me noho tūturu. He pai te āhua o te rā utu mō tētahi take. Nā te mea kei te kite koe i tō mahi pakeke e manakohia ana i roto i tētahi ara tūturu e tuku ana i a koe ki te "whakamahere i a koe anō". I roto i te tuhinga, e kii ana a Nelms 'kaore e taea e ia' te noho hei whaea noho-i-te-whare, ka pakaru i te uara moni o nga mea katoa e whakaratohia ana e ia. 'Ka hiahia ahau ki te mahi neke atu i te $ 100,000 ki te tiimata ki te utu i taku oranga...
Ka tuhia e Steven Nelms 'kaore e taea e ia' te noho hei whaea noho-i-te-whare. Ka tātaihia e ia te uara moni o ngā mea ka whakawhiwhia e ia ki te kāinga, tae atu ki te tiaki tamariki, te tunu kai, te horoi me te whakahaere pūtea. Ka whakatau a Nelms ko te utu ā-tau a tana wahine kia $73,960. Ka tuhia e ia he 'hakina' ia i te mea i whakaaro tana wahine 'kaore ia e whai mana ki a maatau moni whiwhi pera i ahau' I kii a Nelms kua mahi tana wahine mai i te 14 o ona tau, a i hiahia ia kia mohio kei te aro atu ia ki a ia.