Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Kua whakakitea e te hoa aroha hou o te papa rongonui o te 40, he pehea te kore e taea e te tokorua te pupuri i o raatau ringaringa mai i a raatau ano - a ko ia anake te wahine e hiahiatia ana e ia mo te taatai. Ko Diane Morris, 46, kua whakaipoipo ki a Mike Holpin, 56, kua whakapehapeha ki te whai tamariki ki nga wahine rereke 20. Kua whakakahoretia e Ms Morris nga whakapae e whakamahi ana tana hoa i te pae whakaipoipo Plenty of Fish ki te whakatau i etahi atu wahine mo te taatai noa, e kii ana ko te tokorua e 'riri ana ki a ratau ano' a ka whakawhirinaki ia ki a ia 'katoa'. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. E kii ana a Diane Morris (matau) ko tana oranga moepuku me Mike Holpin he 'nui' a kua whakakorea e ia nga korero kei te whakamahi tonu ia i te paetukutuku whakaipoipo Plenty of Fish ahakoa o raatau mahi. I kii ano a Ms Morris he 'hinu' te tokorua ki a raua ano, a kaore ia e awangawanga i te mea e toru nga wa i marenatia ai ia. Ka mea ia: 'He nui te oranga moepuku a Mike rāua ko au. I mua, kotahi noa te wā i te rā e huihui ai mātou, engari ināianei, he rite tonu ki ngā rā katoa. 'He mea whakamiharo ngā mea i waenganui i a mātau i roto i taua tari. E tino whakawhirinaki ana ahau ki a Mike, ā, e mōhio ana au kua mutu ōna rā wahine. 'He aha mēnā kua marenatia ia e toru ngā wā i mua, engari e mohio ana ahau i tēnei wā he mō ake tonu atu. E aroha ana mātou ki a tātou anō.' Ko Mr Hopin, he tangata haurangi o mua o Ebbw Vale, South Wales, i tino whakahētia i muri i tana whakaaetanga kaore ia i mohio ki nga ingoa o etahi o ana tamariki 40. I kī a Ms Morris kāore he tamariki anō mō te tokorua. Ka mea ia: 'Kei te hiahia a Mike ki te whai tamariki anō engari kāore e taea e au nā ngā take hauora.' He tama a Ms Morris e 28 tau tōna pakeke mai i tētahi hononga o mua, ā, i tūtaki ia ki a Mr Holpin mā Plenty Of fish i te tau 2012 - ā, kei te pae tonu ia. Ka mea ia: 'He kaha pea tana pūkete i runga i te Plenty of Fish engari e mohio ana ahau kaore a Mike e moemoea ki te tinihanga ki ahau. He maha nga tau i noho takitahi ai ahau, ā, i te tīmatanga tonu i ahuareka mai ahau ki a Mike. He kanohi kikorangi ātaahua ōna, ā, he tino ātaahua, ā, he pū.' I tāpirihia e ia 'i pupuhi ia ia' i tana whakaatu i te maha o nga tamariki i whanau ai ia, engari i 'whakawhetai ia ki tana pono'. I tutaki ia ki te kaimahi o mua o te marae, ko tana rerenga kōrero tino pai...
Ko Diane Morris, 46, kua whakaipoipo ki a Mike Holpin - he matua ki te 40 tamariki. Kua whakakahoretia e ia ngā whakapae kei te whakamahi tonu ia i tētahi pae tukutuku whakaipoipo hei tiki wahine. I'miharo'a Ms Morris i tana whakapuaki i tana whā tekau tamariki. E kī ana a ia he'ora ātaahua tā rāua' ā, kua mutu ōna rā wahine.