Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Ko te whakapehapeha o ngā mātua e whakapehapeha ana ki nga nekehanga katoa a tō rātau tamaiti iti i runga i a Facebook, he mea whakawehi noa iho ki te tokomaha o te hunga e whakamahi ana i te whatunga pāpori. Engari he nui te mamae o tētahi wahine o Ahitereiria i ngā whakahōunga a tōna hoa mō tana kōtiro pēpi, nā reira i tuhituhi ai ia ki a ia he reta whakahīhī e tono ana kia mutu te whaea - e kī ana kei te 'piki ia i te tini o te iwi.' Ko Jade Ruthven, 33, i tino riri ki te tuhipoka 'peni paitini' i whakahoki ai ia i a ia ano ma te tuku atu ki te kaikanikani a Em Rusciano - nana nei i tohatoha ki ona mano tini o nga kaiwhaiwhai i runga i nga papaaho pāpori. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. He maha rawa ngā pou: E kī ana te reta ko Jade Ruthven, 33, e whakaahuahia ana ki a Addison, kua tohatohahia e ia ngā whakaahua me ngā tūnga mutunga kore mō tana tamahine pēpi i runga i a Facebook. I tukuna te reta 'poison pen' ki tētahi whaea 'baby spamming' i muri i te mauiui o te kaituhi ki te nui o ngā pikitia me ngā tūnga i tuhia e ia ki runga i a Facebook mō tana tamaiti - ā, kua tohaina i tēnei wā puta noa i te ao. Ko te reta whakaponohia i tā, he nui ngā kupu whakarihariha me ngā tohu karanga, ka tīmata ki te kaituhi kore ingoa e kī ana kua hui tahi rātou me 'ngā kōtiro' ki te kī e 'KUA WHAKATOKANGA' ana rātou i te kōrero o te oranga o Ms Ruthven me tana tamahine pēpi, a Addison. Ka tapiritia e ia: 'Nana, kei a tatou katoa nga tamariki e arohaina ana e tatou - whakaaro mai - e whakaaro ana nga matua katoa ko ta ratou tamaiti te mea pai rawa atu. Engari kaua e whakawhiwhia ki te kaki o te katoa!!! 'Kei te mau ia i tētahi kākahu hou - he pai te tango i tētahi whakaahua me te tuku tūmataiti ki te tangata i hoatu ki a ia - ehara ki te katoa!!! 'Kei te rere atu ia i te kākahu - KAORE mātou e aro!!!!! E ono marama tōna pakeke - He WHAKAMAHI!!! 'Kia tū me te whakaaro - ki te whakairihia e ia māmā te katoa o taua c**p e pā ana ki to ratou tamaiti - e ahau tino e kia whiwhi koe i runga i te reira tino tere,. 'Kāore mātou e tatari kia hoki mai koe ki te mahi - kāore pea koe e whai wā ki te noho i runga i a Facebook.' Ko te reta e kii ana ki te whakaatu i nga 'whakaaro a te iwi' mo nga whakahoutanga a Facebook a te whaea Jade, me te kii: 'Kaore e taea e matou te tatari kia hoki mai koe ki te mahi - kaore pea koe e whai wa ki te noho i runga i a Facebook.' E mea ana a Jade ko te ngana ki te whakama...
I whiwhi a Jade Ruthven, 33, nō Perth, i tētahi reta mōrearea. Ko te reta piripiri pounamu i hangaia e 'he tokoiti o nga kotiro' E tono ana kia mutu tana tuku pikitia me ngā whakahoutanga e pā ana ki tana pēpi. 'I whakaaro katoa mātou ka mutu pea i muri i te marama tuatahi, engari kāore' Ko Ms. Ruthven, he whaea-tuatahi i kii ko te reta he rite ki te papaki i te mata.