Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Me pupuri e ngā mātua te tawhiti me te whakawhirinaki ki ngā kura me ngā kaiako, kaua hei 'kōrerorero e rite ana ki te whawhai ki te tangata, ki ngā mea katoa hoki mō tō rātou tamaiti,' e ai ki tētahi kaiako matua. Ko Peter Tait, te tumuaki o Sherborne Preparatory School i Dorset, i kii kua noho nga maatua hei 'dervishes' mo te maatauranga o a raatau tamariki me noho ki muri kia taea ai e raatau te whanake maori. I a ia e tuhi ana ki te Attain, te maheni mo te Independent Association of Prep Schools, i kii a Tait ko te ahua o te urutau o tenei wa i ahu mai i nga maatua e whakaekea ana ki nga korero mo te whakatipu tamariki. Me noho tawhiti ngā mātua, me whakamahi hoki i tō rātau whakaaro ki te whakawhirinaki ki ngā kura me ngā kaiako, e ai ki tētahi kaiako matua. Kua whakamahia te pikitia. I whakatūpato a Mr Tait, ahakoa ko te hiahia o nga matua ki te mea pai rawa mo a raatau tamariki, ka taea e taua pokanoa te aukati i to raatau whanaketanga maori, e kii ana te Daily Telegraph. Ka mea ia: 'He aha te mea i meinga ai ētahi mātua ki te whakatakoto i a rātau ake tamaiti hei pokapū o te ao nui, ā, ka waiho te toenga ki te reinga?' I tāpiri atu, me whakawhirinaki ngā mātua ki te hunga e kawenga ana mō te mātauranga o a rātau tamariki, ka mea atu ia: 'Ki te mahi i tēnei e hiahiatia ana he tino tūtohutanga, he hiahia ki te whakawhirinaki ki te haere o te wā, e arotahi ana ki te mea he harikoa, he wero, he whai take a rātau tamariki, e ako ana hoki i ngā uara tika.' Ko Sherborne, i whakatūria i te tau 1550 e Edward VI i te kainga o Dorset o taua ingoa tonu, kua whakaakona e nga tohunga nui o te hahi me nga rangatira o te ope taua, tae atu ki nga tangata rongonui penei i te codebreaker Alan Turing me Downton Abbey kaiwhakaari Hugh Bonneville me Coldplay kaiwaiata Chris Martin. Kua whai hua te kura i ngā mahi mātauranga i te wā tata nei. I te rā o ngā hua A-Level i panuitia ai ko te 40 ōrau o ngā tohu katoa he A*s, he As rānei, ā, e ono ngā tama i whiwhi tono ki te ako ki Oxford, ki Cambridge rānei. Ko te ahuatanga o nga maatua e whakanoho ana i a raatau tamariki ki runga ake i era atu me te akiaki i a raatau tamariki ki nga taumata teitei o te whakatutukitanga ma roto i nga momo mahi i muri i te kura kua kiia ko Tiger Parenting. I te tau kua hipa, ko Gail...
I kii te Tumuaki a Pita Tait me whakawhirinaki nga matua ki nga kaiwhakaako o a raatau tamariki. Ka taea e te ārai nui te kino ki te whanaketanga o a rātau tamariki, e ai ki a ia. I hanga e ia ngā kōrero mō te tuhinga i roto i te maheni kura whakariterite Attain.