Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  John Mayer, Russell Brand - he momo tāne kei te mōhio ngā wāhine he pānuitanga kino engari ka hinga tonu, ā, ko ngā wāhine mārama pēnei i a Katy Perry me Jennifer Aniston kāore i te ārai. Engari ahakoa kāore he tangata tino tika, ā, ko ētahi wairua raruraru e tika ana kia whakaorangia, ko ētahi he raruraru noa iho. Ko ngā āhuatanga katoa o te whanonga i raro nei he tohu mōrearea, e ono ngā tohu nui hei tohu i ngā tāngata hauā e tino tūpono ana ki te whati i tō ngakau. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. E whakarato ana a Tracey Cox i ngā tohutohu mēnā e aroha ana ia ki a koe, ka whati rānei i tō ngakau. Ko te 1. Kia pehea te 'i roto i te whakapā' ki a ratou ano ratou? E mōhio ana rānei rātau ki a rātau āhuatanga me ngā hapa o te tangata? E mōhio ana rānei rātau ki ō rātau kaha? Kāore e hiahiatia kia noho rātau i te tekau tau kua hipa ki runga i te moenga o te kaihautū hinengaro kia whai whakaaro ai rātau ki a rātau anō. Kua oti i a rātau te whakariterite i te kawenga ā-hinengaro mai i te tamarikitanga me ngā whanaungatanga o mua, kei te mau rānei ki muri i a rātau? Kia mōhio: Pātai atu. He aha te āhua o tō whānau? He tata koe ki a rātau? He hoa koe ki ōu hoa tawhito? He aha i wehe ai korua? I mamae rānei? Me pēhea te noho pai? 2. He atawhai, he kaha ki te whakapuaki i ō rātau whakaaro? Ae, ae, e mohio ana tatou katoa e hiahia ana nga tangata ki te ngaro i roto i o ratou ana. Engari ko te tangata e mōhio ana ki āna whakaaro, e whakapuaki ana hoki i āna whakaaro ki a koe, ka māmā ake te noho tahi ki te wharepaku, i te tangata e mau ana ki roto. Kia mōhio: Pātai atu ki a rātou i ngā mea katoa kia kite ai mēnā ka kōrero mai rātau. He ahua tawhiti koe i tenei po, kei te raru koe i tetahi mea? 3. E āhei ana koe ki te whakapakari i te tangata, ki te whakapakari i te tangata, ki te whakapakari i te tangata, ki te whakapakari i te tangata, ki te whakapakari i te tangata, ki te whakapakari i te tangata? He pono rānei rātau? He tangata 'pai' rānei rātau? Ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki ki a rātau ki te mahi i te mea tika ki a koe me ētahi atu? He pai ta rātau mahi ki a rātau hoa me te whānau? Te mahi i te mea tika i roto i te pakihi? Ahakoa he aha te mahi a tō hoa ki ētahi atu tāngata, he nui ake te kaha o rātau ki te mahi ki a koe. Rapua mai: He tokomaha o rātau hoa, he nui rānei o rātau whakapā ki tō rātau whānau? He rongonui noa iho rātau, he kore ranei te whakawhirinaki o te iwi ki a rātau, he tu atu rānei? Ko...
E ai ki a Tracey he mea e whakaatu ana i te ngakau-whakamate. Ka whakarārangitia e ia ngā āhuatanga whanonga e ono e whakaatu ana i a ia. E mea ana a Tracey ko te pono me te pakeke ngā tohu o te kaitiaki.