 out of town someplace with good used bookstores.  The in-laws apparently find my behavior in said bookstores "cute" rather than "horrendously antisocial" or "stunningly impractical," which is a relief (even if we now have digital photographs of me hunkering on the floor with piles of books surrounding me).**  While getting married roughly doubles the number of family-attendance-required events either of us has to work into our combined schedules, getting married to someone significantly taller makes it muc