got engaged, and the amazing social superpowers of Planning A Wedding (bore your friends!  distract your colleagues!  excuse yourself from anything!) do not quite compensate for the hours of research I have had to put into things which never floated my boat in the first place.  I would infinitely rather study animal sacrifices than men's formal wear, and this despite the fact that I would be the one bringing two Tofurkeys to the altar in the unlikely event of a Third Temple.</p>

<p>Oh well.  We are getting