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      ' like this:
      '   .RowTextStartColumn = .ColumnIndex("from")
      ' If you do this you need to track the ColumnOrderChanged event to
      ' ensure you are at the right column if the user moves this column
      ' to the end of the grid.  If you don't specify this setting, the
      ' grid will automatically start drawing rowtext at the position
      ' of the first column included in the select (bIncludeInSelect
      ' parameter of AddColumn)
         
      
      ' Once we have add