something that another person has created (without
any input from oneself). It‚Äôs not a win-win proposition.</p>

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  <li>
    <p><strong>If you measure up</strong>, then you will not be satisfied, since this criteria is set by someone else,
and there‚Äôs no inherent value to you for fitting this mold. Unless you find value in the criteria,
they become meaningless vanity metrics once you‚Äôve achieved them.</p>
  </li>
  <li>
    <p><strong>If you don‚Äôt measure up</strong>, then you wo