n‚Äôt be satisfied with yourself, since this will get you
down on yourself for not reaching this arbitrary and meaningless criteria set by someone else. To
add insult to injury, you will probably stop trying and stop self expressing if this how you chose
to live your life.</p>
  </li>
</ul>

<p>Either ways, you lose. This had been my life until about 3 years ago. After experiencing great loss
I realized that I am not the sum total of the things that I do. I am the sum total of who I am when
I show up in