ays ask myself ‚Äî who and how do I want to be. If I could be seen, and wasn‚Äôt hiding, what light
would I shine from within? What light would I want others to see me in. And then I shine that light,
and stop thinking about the molds that other people might want me to fit in, and what would please them.
And everything stops being about pleasing others and instead becomes about finding win-win scenarios
quickly!</p>

<p>In doing so, something amazing happened. By cultivating the habit to show up in 