y <a href="/2015/10/31/how-i-got-everything-wrong-about-everything%20/">reboot</a>, I‚Äôve been cultivating the habit to ask myself what it is that I need, and how I want
to be in specific situations and scenarios. How DO I want to feel around people and places and things?
And how do I NOT want to feel?</p>
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<p>An exampl