validate.js"></script>
    <script type="text/javascript" src="../js/bbq.js"></script>
    <script type="text/javascript" src="../js/jquery-ui-1.8.5.custom.min.js"></script>
    <script type="text/javascript" src="../js/jquery.form.wizard.js"></script>
    
    <script type="text/javascript">
			// add a function that we can call to hide or toggle the sex specific stuff
			function hideOrToggleSexSpecificStuff(sex){
				$("#man,#woman").hide().find(":input").addClass("wizard-ignore").attr("disabled", "disab