).formwizard({ 
				 	formPluginEnabled: true,
				 	validationEnabled: true,
				 	focusFirstInput : true,
				 	formOptions :{
						success: function(data){
							hideOrToggleSexSpecificStuff(); // hide the man and woman specific stuff
							$("#status").fadeTo(500,1,function(){ 
								$(this).html("You are now registered!").fadeTo(5000, 0); 
							
						})},
						beforeSubmit: function(data){$("#data").html("data sent to the server: " + $.param(data));},
						dataType: 'json',
						resetForm: t