In a world filled with physically attractive women, every man has a “type” that he likes most. Some will say they like the blonde hair, blue eyes, and tan skin of California girls. Others will tell you they like exotic beauties with dark skin, dark hair, and dark eyes. And some may say there is nothing better than a redhead from Scotland. Ask men why they prefer one look over another and you find out that most can’t answer because they’ve never put any thought into it. In some cases, there may have been a blonde girl who broke his heart in grade school, so ever since he’s only dated brunettes. Or maybe, strangely enough, he tends to date girls who have the same physical attributes as his mother. Or it could be that he has spent his life looking for girls who remind him of the neighbor girl from his childhood. As for the “type” of woman I find physically attractive, I’ve spent a lot of time figuring out what that look is, and searching for the scientific reasons that fuel my desires. This is the story of lust, evolutionary psychology, and natural selection. And it just may be that, through my story, you can learn something about why you like the type of girl you do.
I like skinny, pale-skinned girls who have blue/green eyes, and soft, straight, black hair. While some of the people reading this, who know I’m German, have already dismissed these preferences as simple racism, their close-minded views are actually wrong. The real answer, the scientific one, is much more strange and amusing than that.
Let’s start with my preference for pale skin. Consider for a moment a girl’s reproduction value. A healthy girl is much more desirable as a mate because natural selection has programed me to seek out those girls that I’ll have the healthiest children with, thus insuring the survival of my bloodline. Because of this, any physical trait that makes it easier for me to judge her health becomes desirable. So am I saying that the lighter a girl’s skin is the healthier she is? Nope. But the lighter her skin is, the more noticeable things like bruising are. The darker her skin is, the easier it is to hide that type of damage. A health issue like anemia shows up like a red flag on light-skinned girls. So, the lighter her skin, the easier it is to figure out if she’s healthy. It’s also worth mentioning that light skin was an indication of wealth up until a few generations ago. In previous generations, the peasants worked outside, while it was only the rich and powerful that sat inside all day, out of the sun. What’s interesting now is that this has been completely reversed in modern American culture. Now, most people sit inside all day in their cubicles while only the rich have the time to spend outside during the day. If tanning booths had been invented 200 years sooner, no one back then would have used them.
Next I’ll explain my preference for blue/green eyes. The first question you may have is why I wrote “blue/green”. I’m oversimplifying this a bit, but basically you have a gene called HERC2 that decides if your eyes will be dark (brown) or light (blue/green). If you get the light version of HERC2, then another gene called OCA2 will determine if you have blue or green eyes. If you read my second book, Power Communication: Secrets of the Alpha Male Book 2, you already know that the darker a girl’s eyes are, the easier time she will have deceiving you. This is because the darker her eyes are, the easier it is for her to hide her emotions (or lack thereof) from you. When a woman feels a deep emotional connection with you, her pupils dilate. Even if you weren’t aware of this, subconsciously you’ve known this and been responding to it your entire life. When a person has dark eyes, it’s more difficult to judge pupil dilation. The lighter the area surrounding the pupil, the easier it is to see pupil dilation. Now consider the following situation. Two girls are saying the following to you, one with dark, brown eyes, and one with light, blue eyes, and they are both lying: “Baby, you know you’re the only man I’ve ever loved.” It will be much easier to tell that the girl with the light eyes has undilated pupils. This is why people with light eyes are often told they have “honest eyes”, while people with dark eyes are seen as “mysterious” because they are more difficult to read.
Now to explain my preference for soft, straight, black hair. It’s as simple as hiding gray hair. As blond girls with wavy hair age, gray hair becomes camouflaged as it appears. But when a girl with soft, raven-black hair gets her first wiry gray hair, it sticks out like a neon sign. Even with a good hairstylist, which one would have a more difficult time lying about her age?
Finally I’ll address the fourth item on my list: skinny. There are only two possibilities if a girl isn’t skinny, and that’s either fat or muscular. I find a fat girl undesirable because her outward appearance is a direct reflection of inner problems. Either she has an underlying health issue, like a slow thyroid that she has chosen not to deal with, or she lacks the intelligence to balance her caloric intake, and the self-discipline to exercise properly. I find a muscular girl undesirable because no matter how much she exercises, the only way for a girl to gain muscle bulk is if her hormones are completely out of whack and she has too much testosterone.
Here is how the numbers stack up: Normal testosterone levels in men are 200-1200 ng/dL while 15-70 ng/dL are normal in women. The average for a man is around 700 while the average for a woman is around 42.5. So an average guy has 16.47 times more testosterone than the average woman. To visualize what this means, imagine a guy with a testosterone level of 100, which is more than double what an average woman has. Consider that this is only half of what would already be considered low testosterone for a man. If you put this man in the gym, how much muscle mass do you think he’s going to have compared to other men? Almost none.
Now you understand the necessary chemistry required for a woman to have muscle bulk. The fact is that women become more toned and shapely as they work out (unless they have insanely elevated testosterone levels allowing for muscle bulk). So why do I care so much about a woman’s testosterone level? I’m an alpha male. For me to be every part “man” in the relationship, the girl I’m with must be every part “girl”. Call me sexist, but know that the higher a girl’s testosterone level is, the greater chance she’ll be chasing her man around the bedroom with a strap-on dildo. A woman can be spunky and have fire in her soul, but if her testosterone is too high she’ll behave like a miniature man. The lower her testosterone level is, the more feminine she’ll behave. As for me, I’m happiest when I have 100 times the testosterone of the girl in my arms, and she weighs half what I do.
I’ll conclude my thoughts with one last point. I’m German, so that means that my ancestors were exposed to more diverse women, physically speaking. Some German women have light eyes, some dark. Some are blonde, some brunette. Some thicker, some thinner. For my preferences, that have evolved through natural selection, the choices had to be present in my ancestry. If you’re an Asian dude, the programing of natural selection for these preferences wouldn’t be present because your bloodline throughout the generations didn’t have these options. In the end, our preferences are made up of a combination of nature and nurture (our genes from natural selection and our experiences since birth).
Personally, I’m just amused at any amount of science that can help explain why the actress Charlize Theron, as she appeared in the move Aeon Flux, gave me a rock-solid erection that lasted for days. And if you’re a girl who happens to look anything similar to the above picture, please use the contact form on my website or call (888) 788-4042 to get in touch with my staff. They have a plane ticket to Las Vegas waiting for you so we can meet up and have an adventure.
Hey Drawk, have you noticed that high testosterone women are the easiest to game. Its symptom isn’t necessarily muscle bulk but infact a jutting chin,small eyes,longer ring finger than index finger and small tits(though their asses might retain a bit of juice) and sometimes dark forearm hair. I see that these kind of women tend to be the best in bed. But they don’t need to feel any emotional connection. I mostly seem to attract these kind of women.
These women require their guys to be even more alpha than feminine women. So the best way to go is the hard negging way because one display of your ‘wussiness’ and you’re gone. Though feminine women sometimes do get turned off by display of alphaness.
Would you agree that tallness in women is an indicator of above average testosterone? I mean this mostly tends to be the case in my experience. Charlize Theron is 5’10” which is pretty tall for a girl.
I hadn’t realized that Charlize Theron is 5′ 10″ until you mentioned it. As for your question about a link between height and testosterone levels in women, I did a quick search and couldn’t find any scientific medical data to support this. My guess would be that the link is between height and HGH (human growth hormone) levels in women.