What causes the feeling to hug and needy as a baby at the age of 23?
Patient: Hi, may I answer your health queries right now ? Dear Doctors, I m a 23 year old female,and I ve a serious problem since I was very young though I m trying to cope with a and forget about the whole matter but it still comes back and increase at certain times,My problem is some females that I met for e.g if at school a teacher,if at club then a certain coach if at family visits,one attracts me not from first time but after many visits and long stays I feel with her that I wanna be a baby,I pretend to fall asleep to feel my mouth over her chest as I wish to breastfeed I imagine this,and this idea doesn t come to me to anyone but certain people,I try to hug her to feel that she is giving me that what a child needs,in our society many made comments what is this?why do you love this.... like this?but I swear I only feel relief when I do this,I feel relaxed but when I see people s look or afraid of anyone s words so I stop but this desire increases,all what I want is to feel like a baby breastfeeding from her mother and sleeping and she relaxes me. my mum when I was very young she used to hit me and always shout me,studying always and my school was stressful,my brother when young I saw how mum deals with him and looks how he attaches to her chest but then she shouts to go and usually stay at my room trying to immitate with a pillow Also my parents had fights and infront of people they act perfect,my mum was betraying my dad and I heard this and carried it inside my heart,this was from long time,I don t want a love from mum,though I don t love her but never hate her,This makes me so bit confused,please I need your help. Thanks type your query here.. Doctor: DearWe understand your concernsI went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I don't see any mental disorder with the given description. It could just be a sort of obsessive thinking. Not OCD. You are creating opportunities to think obsessively. Best method to overcome the situation is ignorance. Ignore those thoughts and be busy with your life.  You should practice psychotherapy techniques to streamline your life style and meditation and yoga techniques to calm your mind, body, streamline your metabolism and thinking style. I shall provide you with the required counseling and psychotherapy techniques to overcome these problems. Please describe the whole problem in detail and post a direct question to me.Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.Good luck.