How to overcome the feeling of jealousy?
Patient: Hi, I introduced my fiance (girl) to my friend and made her feel confident and my friends too. In the other way, she doesn't have much friends but the only two she is hanging out with are boys who are interested in her. She told me that she loves me and it is just a meeting with friends but I cannot stop feeling bad about it. We spoke about it, she said that she understand my point of view and would not like if it was the contrary but she is still doing it. I am torn because I want her to have some her time but it with boy who are interested in more with her. I trust her but I know that a man is a man... if he has a chance he would take it! Am I wrong to feel that way? Doctor: DearWe understand your concernsI went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I can see your possessiveness towards her. Possessiveness is normal with everyone in the case of girl and boy friends. But nothing to worry in that aspect. In due course, you will learn how not to be jealous about these happenings. You are a versatile person. God made us like that. We know how to adjust with every situation. Therefore, be confident, you will change., If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.Good luck.