PLEASE tell me this mattress gets softer?? I've been sleeping on mine for about 8 days and I'm waking up with more back pain than before. Or maybe I'm just getting old... :( I do keep my house cold at night and maybe that doesn't help. It just seems really hard. My daughter's memory foam (also purchased here, different brand) just seems so much more comfy. But her's has been in use for nearly a month now. PLEASE tell me this mattress gets softer?? I've been sleeping on mine for about 8 days and I'm waking up with more back pain than before. Or maybe I'm just getting old... :( I do keep... » Read More PLEASE tell me this mattress gets softer?? I've been sleeping on mine for about 8 days and I'm waking up with more back pain than before. Or maybe I'm just getting old... :( I do keep my house cold at night and maybe that doesn't help. It just seems really hard. My daughter's memory foam (also purchased here, different brand) just seems so much more comfy. But her's has been in use for nearly a month now. « Show Less
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It definitely has that "marshmallow" feel. I am experiencing that this bed has much more give than the one that I used to own. In fact, my last one did not really leave the body impression. Like I said in my post I wish that I had seen and sprung for the $750. I am not 100% unsatisfied but from the information that I have the Deluxe would be better.
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I almost agree. It took some getting use to. Nut now after 2 months a spring mattress just don
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I've only had mine for about two months and I haven't noticed it getting any softer. I knew it was a 'medium' soft when I bought it but it is a little more firm than I had anticipated.
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the warmer the mattress is the softer it will be. So if its cold in your room it will be a little harder.
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I find it very comfortable no to hard or soft it sinks right into your shape
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We have had the bed for a month or 2 now. I haven't noticed any difference in the softness yet. We keep our house about 73 degrees. I would describe the bed as a soft yet supported feel. I have felt softer memory foam mattresses but I didn't really like sinking in that deep. So I guess it's just a matter of preference. Hope that helps.
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I am having similar problems but I find mine sags to much. I bought it for my back, also.
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Quit the opposite. The mattress is suppose to start off fairly firm and after awhile of expanding it gets softer. Especially with warmer temperatures.
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We have had the mattress for several months now and so far so good! I have another memory foam mattress (not this brand) that we have had for almost 10 years and love it. Just like the day we bought it!
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I agree with Chris. My bed is really firm and also new, and I find the topper makes it more comfortable. It's a medium amount of "squish," so if you want an ultimate pillowtop feel, maybe go with a thick all memory foam topper.
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very firm , I like plush / medium soft My wife like hard , and this was even slightly firm for her for the 1rst week , it does break in and even I can sleep on it . I use a 1, maybe 2" gel topper for more comfort/ softness (I like my ribs and hips to sink in so my spine is strait since I am a side sleeper I weigh 165 my wife 160 so if your heavier it may be just right if your lighter then 165lbs then this will be to firm unless you like a firm almost very firm mattress . It is zero gravity when just laying on your back it does give you a floating sensation and is very relaxing ... If this does not help ask fpr more details , Iam happy to help very firm , I like plush / medium soft My wife like hard , and this was even slightly firm for her for the 1rst week , it does break in and even I can sleep on it . I use a 1, maybe 2" gel topper for more comfort/ softness (I like my ribs and hips to sink in so my spine is strait since I am a side sleeper I weigh 165 my wife 160 so if your heavier it may be just right if your lighter then 165lbs then this will be to firm unless you like a firm almost very firm mattress . It is zero gravity when just laying on your back it does give you a floating sensation and is very relaxing... » Read More very firm , I like plush / medium soft My wife like hard , and this was even slightly firm for her for the 1rst week , it does break in and even I can sleep on it . I use a 1, maybe 2" gel topper for more comfort/ softness (I like my ribs and hips to sink in so my spine is strait since I am a side sleeper I weigh 165 my wife 160 so if your heavier it may be just right if your lighter then 165lbs then this will be to firm unless you like a firm almost very firm mattress . It is zero gravity when just laying on your back it does give you a floating sensation and is very relaxing ... If this does not help ask fpr more details , Iam happy to help « Show Less
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I feel like mine has become a fair bit softer in certain spots that are more laid in. The foot end is still pretty stiff but the upper end where we normally sleep sinks in deeper than I like. We've had ours for 2 years now and flipped it once. Not over though just around so the foot end becomes the head end. I actually came to the page today to see if the warranty covers this... sadly it doesn't look like it does.
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I am not a side sleeper so won't be able to give the right guidance here. I sleep on my back and this mattress is really great and perfect from compression perspective. After a month of sleeping, all I can say us that I do not have lowe back pain any more. I hope it remains like that. Also to mention that my wife sleeps on side and she has not complained either. Said that I assume that this mattress could potentailly support side sleepers also.
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Definitely don't feel any coils ever, had mine for maybe 6 months now. It's pretty firm though, it's a strange, very soft firm because of the top but its definately closer to ultra firm than firm without being hard. I figured a mattress at this low price would collapse in a few months though so I'm still waiting on the firmness to soften up and hope it will be perfect in a year instead of mush in a year like most cheap mattresses.
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I believe you would still find the bed very firm. It is on my son"s bed and he described it like this yesterday, "if I lay there long enough, it will mould to my body but if I roll over, I feel like I am on a table.". I believe we will be removing the topper this weekend. He finds the mattress softer without it. spend a little bit more money and get a better quality one
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For this particular pillow, I thought that it only came in soft. Does yours look like the one pictured? Yours should feel like a memory foam. If not, or if you just don't like it, then I'd look into returning/exchanging it. Good luck!
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It's a much different feel than memory foam. I have purchased two on Amazon, not from this particular vendor. Both of them came with covers. I absolutely love sleeping on it. Difficult to say whether the feel is softer or firmer than memory foam. Don't worry about it being too firm, not the case at all. We bought king size for our bed and it is heavy. Initially getting it unpackaged and set up is easier with two people. The second one we purchased was for my 80 year old mother, she says it feels like heaven.
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If you like a softer pillow it may not be for you. It is fairly firm, especially at first. When I first got it I only slept on it half the night for about a week until I broke it in. I would call it medium firm but not so much soft. My dad who LOVES a softer pillow hates this pillow so if you want soft this may not be the one for you. If you want firm it may not be the one for you. Like Goldie Locks found out...It was just right for me (I like medium in the middle of soft and firm)
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Mine was also very firm at first. It is much softer now but firm. So yes it does get a little softer
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Is the pillow cold? Was it sitting outside on your porch in the middle of winter? Memory foam is notorious for getting rock solid when exposed to cold temperatures. Wait for it to warm up and test again. It should be softer. If this is not the case, then you might have a faulty product.Thank you for taking the time to read my answer; I hope it was helpful to you!
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So I had an old Serta mattress. I had a 3" Lucid already on that. This new one I just piled on top. I have no back pain and sleep through the night. I have to believe it will definitely isolate as it's very solid and supportive. Funny thing is that it feels too firm, but, it's not. I'm 6'4" and 205 lbs and really sleep better now.
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I cant comment on your numbers for most others or my own pad, but I know its working for me. The mattress I replaced with the memory foam king was a plush, so Im more inclined towards soft than you. My new mattress was too soft, and this helped a lot.
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I want a memory foam that is very firm.I have bought two others but one is great as far as firmness and both are great comparing the prices compared to the "T" brand.The secocond one I bought is too soft any recomendations which I see one right before my post.Any help I and mine will greatly appreciate.Thank you,Mike