Don't be afraid to TRY
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You know the saying " You never know until you try." This is such a fitting statement for this book. Logan Mitchell is a lawyer. He's confident, extremely good looking, and attracted to pretty much anything on two legs. Male or female. He doesn't discriminate. Tate Morrison is a bartender. He's reserved, a little rough around the edges, and going through a nasty divorce. Logan goes in after work, and sees the hunky Tate behind the bar and knows he want's him. When Logan actively pursues Tate, convincing him to open his mind to something new, he slowly chips away at Tates armor. Tate let's Logan in, agreeing to try. What follows in their story is hot. There's lust, passion, exploration, insecurity, tension, and it all leads to a place neither one of them is sure they want to be. Ell does such a fantastic job bringing out all of their character traits. You feel like you know these two, and you don't want to let them go. What you walk away with is that gay or straight, male or female, sometimes you can't help who you love. And there's nothing wrong with that! This book is highly recommended!
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I'm always afraid of trying a new author and not liking them. This was not the case with this book. Very enjoyable read and well worth the time and money.
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Fear of rejection is one of the biggest fears most people struggle with. If you've been rejected or hurt, it's more difficult to trust. Yet, healthy relationships can't be founded on a basis of distrust. The author not only explains the reality of daring to trust again, but also outlines the benefits of trust. He also provides tools, tips and inspiration. If you need some insight into the mechanism of trust or if you've lost it and would like to learn to trust again - then this is a must read.
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The key to feeling comfortable studying this stuff is to feel secure with yourself before attempting it.  Too many people try to study game when they have some personal issues that need to be dealt with.  That being said, don't get too sucked in, have other things that you are interested in, so that people find you interesting and more so that your life hasn't become JUST about getting girls.  Implementing one or two new tactics every night and continually perfecting them will have you more than pleased with your results.  Like I said, work on your own insecurities first.  I am on chapter three so far and I enjoy the style of writing.  A memoir with examples and lessons all in one.  The Game and the Style Diaries essentially all mixed together.  Way easier to understand than the formulas found in the Mystery Method.  Pick up is supposed to be fun, not a f'ing math equation.  I do recommend this book fully.
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Author and life coach Scott Allan lives in Japan where he works as an English language educator. He also writes book write books that focus on changing old routines, behaviors and overcoming all levels of self-defeating behavior, and building self-discipline. To date he has written five books  REJECTION FREE, REJECTION RESET, EMPOWER YOUR THOUGHTS, EMPOWEER YOUR FEAR, PATHWAYS TO MASTERY, EMPOWER YOUR LIFE, and now DO IT SCARED. We all have reasons for staying scared, but this doesnt mean we have to like it. In this book, I will share strategies and case studies I have used to get over my fear of taking action. He believes successful living is a series of small actions taken consistently every day to change the way things are for the rest of our lives.

Scotts coaching begins with an introduction that challenges us to examine our manner of coping with fear: That is why you're here. To figure out what it is you want and how to get it. And to get it, you have to do something about your situation, life, and lifestyle. It is common for people to reach a stage in life when they look around and say, Wait. I don't want any of this? What am I doing this for? Trust me. You are not alone. If you are questioning the life you have been handed, this is a good thing. It is the first step to changing it. Many people don't take that first step. They don't stop long enough to question why. Consider this question: How much confidence would you need to do the one thing youve always wanted to do? In other words, how much courage would you need to live your dream and do the things that scare you and are keeping you trapped? The truth is that you don't need bravery or courage. This is the illusion of confidence. For years, I believed that before I could do anything I had to be completely skilled at it so I could perform without failing. There are a lot of things we should prepare for, but perfection and being good enough before we start holds us back from doing it in the first place. This belief that before we try it, we have to be totally perfect, full of confidence, and bursting with courage is one of the biggest lies that keeps us from doing anything, scared or not. When we are not feeling any of these things, and when we lack confidence to take action, what do we do? Something else. But the secret is so obvious that Im sure you know it already. It isn't confidence that comes first, but taking action. Confidence follows action. You do it first and then the confidence comes. We act first and then experience courage later.'

As with all of Scotts superb books the only sure way to benefit form his advice is to read and re-read his words. For brevitys the subjects he addresses are Aim High for Your Vision of Impossibility, The Ostrich Effect and Embracing Reality, Taking the First Leap From Ground Zero, Partnering With the Right People, At the Risk of Looking Stupid, Disguising Fear with Distraction, Putting Your Self-Doubt on the Ropes, Breaking Bad Habits That Keep You Scared, Failing at What You Love To Do Best, Practice Limitless Thinking, Rejecting the Life You Dont Want, What Would My Life Be Like If?, Tackling Your Most Difficult Tasks First, and Building Confidence With the Brick-by-Brick Strategy  all followed by Weighing the Risks of Staying Scared.

At the end of this richly textured book Scott states, Confronting your fears takes courage. Taking action when every emotion is telling you not to takes bravery and super confidence. People who persevere, stick to their plans, and take small steps to reach their goals, are winners. Anyone or anything that tries to hold you back will fail.

Sage advice from a fine coach and caring teacher. We come away feeling that conquering our fears is not only possible: it is mandatory for dealing with the new challenges ahead. Highly recommended. Grady Harp, January 17
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Sometimes we can feel lost, like we are so far from where we are meant to be.

In SEARCHING FOR OZ we are able to take a journey with Dottie, a woman who has been through things that we probably couldn't imagine, but has found a way to not just confront her past but move forward to a place of happiness. Like Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz she has to find her courage and realize that she can trust her heart and that things can be better.

What is so great about this book is that for some of us who have found ourselves in challenging situations the path "home" to a place of happiness might seem long, but we are not traveling it along. As Dottie realizes there are others who have experienced trauma and pain that she has been able to talk with, and those who just want to see her find peace and realize that she is worthy of love.

No matter what you have experienced or where you find yourself, this is not the end for you. There is more life waiting for you to live.
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This is a great little book. The message of encouragement to never give up on your dreams fits for everyone regardless of age, race, or situation in life. It also packs the message that kindness will succeed you just sometimes need patience. It will be shared with my grandchildren.
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Sometimes it is just nice to have a story where the characters actually realize that striving to be a better person and walking their faith are not easy but worth the effort. Life is hard, decisions have consequences, and following theological teachings is uncomfortable to read about and live. Ellen was able to deliver a message of hope when bad things happen in life but people give it their best shot... Patrick K Dawson, Novelist - Lessons in the Journey
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Maybe teaches me to look for possibilities rather than faults and failures. Maybe is a positive attitude rather than being susceptible to a negative attitude.
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Inspirational example of how anyone can turn their life around from rock bottom to the top and beyond.  Great lesson in not being afraid to take risks or try something new or unconventional rather than playing it safe.
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There isn't much a truly committed human being can't accomplish if he sets his mind to something.

Joseph writes about negative conditions we all have to face, like:

The boss you can't face
The spouse who refuses to help repair a deteriorating relationship
A sudden illness
A failed business
Economic limitations or failed debt.

He talks in the form of GOLIATH, that's:

Giant
Obstacles
Literal or
Imaginary
Accumulating
Thoughts that
Hinder
Success.

His writing is encouraging and I can see that if you apply his principles to your life you can be assured of success.
Working with and coaching people, Joseph obviously knows his stuff and talks alot throughout this e-book from personal experience and the experience of others.

I loved the quote, "I trust that everything happens for a reason, even when we're not wise enough to see it".

Joseph helps us to identify the "Goliath" in our lives  and go into the "feeling" and see it only has as much power as we give it/them. People, who grew up in an abusive enviroment, have addictions, are in debt, in dead end jobs or suffer from lack of self-esteem will benefit the most from reading this as Joseph takes you deep into your issues and offers exercises that give you the courage to see them for what they are and pull yourself out of their burdens or should I say, courageously overcoming them.
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Imagine having the courage to overcome your doubts and fears. Imagine having the determination to see things through to the end, despite the obstacles life puts in you way. Imagine being able to reach your goals, no matter what they may be. Well now you can.

The Journey to Achievement can help you develop the courage and confidence to overcome fear and self-doubt so you can realize your full potential and a reach your goals.

Most often the reason people are unable to achieve their goals is because they are afraid to fail. They are afraid to leave their comfort zone and take risks. As a result, some people give up too soon, while others don't even try at all.

This fear of failure is a result of negative messages you've received throughout your life. Maybe your parents had high expectations. Maybe you've been teased or harassed. Maybe you feel pressured to be perfect. It's these negative messages -- and the negative way of thinking they engender-- that are unconsciously holding you back.

By listening to this hypnosis session a few times a week you'll develop the courage to leave your comfort zone and take risks. Build your determination to succeed, even in the face of setbacks and obstacles. And gain the confidence and self-belief you need to achieve your goals.

To help you get the most from this hypnosis session, we'll include "Introduction to Hypnosis: Myths and Facts" absolutely FREE. This informative track breaks through the hype and misinformation about hypnosis to help you gain a better understanding of this relaxing, enjoyable, and highly effective way to make positive changes in yourself and your life.

If you are serious about realizing your true potential and reaching your goals, then download this hypnosis session today and begin your journey to achievement.

Look for these other hypnosis downloads in the Personal Growth Series available on Amazon:

Change Without Fear
Maximum Motivation
Confidence Booster
Persistence, Confidence and Success
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I guess I'm a Haw, lol! It's never too late to try again. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. This book is truly amazing. It's old, but it's now.
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I read this book because I heard it was incredible, and because I'm at a place in my life where I'm ready to take on some new/scary endeavors, and wanted to know how to power through the fear. I learned that fear stops us from becoming greater versions of ourselves, and the importance of not necessarily becoming fearless, but to change your mindset and telling yourself it's okay to be afraid, be compassionate with yourself, and replace the negative inner voice with a positive one. I felt like some of the advice provided was general, which is great, but also felt like some of it was "it must be this way or that". She also talks about doing things WITHOUT fear when the premise of the book is about pushing  you to be your greatest, most successful self in SPITE of fear. I encourage the reader to take from it what fits them, which is what I did.
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In the beginning I was skeptical. I thought there was no way I could learn to swim from a book. But reading all of the reviews and testimonials gave me hope. Now I'm convinced. Follow the steps in this book and you will learn to be free in the water (shallow or deep). However, you really do have to say, "Enough is enough!" and make the commitment to learn. It ain't easy getting up each morning having to face your fears. But trust me, if I can do it, ANYONE can do it.

There's really nothing profound to be said. Follow the steps. Trust the author. There were some steps where I thought I knew better. I was wrong. As soon as I gave in and started doing things the way the author said to, I began making progress again.

I averaged about 45 minutes per pool session. Maybe I'm a bit of a slow learner, but it took me 32 sessions before I really felt like I was free in the water (again, shallow or deep). Here was my road to success:

1. Say, "Enough is enough!". Make the commitment to learn to swim.
2. Follow the steps in the book. Trust what it says. Read it over and over throughout your learning process.
3. Eat, sleep, and breathe swimming. Go to YouTube and watch people succeed with this method. Watch them learn to swim. Go to the website and read all the testimonials. Read all the positive reviews here on Amazon. ...
4. Don't get discouraged. See step 3 above.
5. Be gentle, kind, and patient with yourself. Take baby steps and YOU WILL GET THERE.

I can't express enough the gratitude that I have for people like Melon Dash (the author). This has been a dream (literally) of mine for decades. I still can't believe it. Not only was it a huge risk for me to not know how to swim but I missed out on so much fun. But that's all in the past now. Make the commitment to learn--with Melon's help. You will not regret it.
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In 1982, a single mother of 8 decided to flee to America with all 8 of her children, 2 suitcases, no money and a whole lot of faith. Many people thought she was crazy and many doubted that she would make it.

However, because she trusted God Shelia Johnson- Peters is not only a newlywed and college graduate but she is also an author at 68 years old.

This book reminded me that it doesnt matter how old you are, never give up on your dreams. It is never too late to get yourself back up and try again. You will not fail if you don't give up. Refuse to quit!
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This book tells it like it is, life is not easy, and not everyone wins. You can't get upset at anyone because you didn't come in first. You can change your path from that point forward. Life is full of hard times, we either grow from them or we fail. Just because you don't complete the task or win the event does not mean you failed. The only way to fail is to give up trying to do better..
Joe De Sena not only is a motivational leader for OCR but should be the Ambassador for the sport.  He is really pushing to have obstacle course racing  become an Olympic Sport. And  the way it seems to be growing it just might be!