what to say when your friend loses a baby?
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If you want to talk about the baby, I am here to listen. If you have experienced a loss, you can say, “I remember having some of those same feelings you are feeling when I lost my baby. I know nothing I do or say can take away your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
201511
['Talk to them.', "Say the pet's name.", 'Provide small gestures of comfort, support, and care.', 'Send them a sympathy card.', 'Give them a pet sympathy gift.']
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["“I'm so sorry that you are going through this. ... ", '“Despite all the troubles in the world, I hope you are doing well.” ... ', '“My heart is breaking for you. ... ', '“You are important to me. ... ', '“I recently heard about your loss. ... ', '"Are you okay?”']
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I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
139311
['Encourage writing and drawing stories.', 'Talk about the person.', 'Acknowledge the person and the loss.', 'Role play.', 'Ask questions and listen.', 'Tell stories about the day, the moments, the person.', 'Be aware of what “might” be happening in her mind and with her peers.']
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['Let them be sad. ... ', "Remind them it isn't personal. ... ", 'Tell them how proud you are of their hard work. ... ', 'Distract them. ... ', 'Get them excited about other options. ... ', 'Remind them that pain will pass.']
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['With heartfelt condolences.', 'We are so sorry for your loss.', 'I hope you feel surrounded by much love. ... ', 'Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. ... ', 'With deepest sympathy as you remember Ashley.', 'Holding you close in our thoughts and hoping you are doing OK.']
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But what are the things that will actually offer comfort and let the person know you're there for them? At the end of the day, something as simple as “I'm so sorry for your loss” or “I'm so sad for you and your family, please accept my deepest condolences” is always appropriate.
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Loss Of A Coworker Sympathy Card Messages “I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you.” “May (name) rest in peace. Know that I'm here for you during this time of grieving.”
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["I'm sorry for your loss.", 'He will be missed by everyone that knew him.', 'She was a lovely woman and will be greatly missed.', 'You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.', "When you're ready, I'm here for you."]
109674
What you can say instead: “You have my deepest sympathy,” “I'm so saddened to hear about your loss,” “My deepest condolences,” or “My thoughts and prayers are with you.” Just let them know that you care about them and their grief instead of offering empty placations about losing the man they loved.
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Offer your sympathy, hug the person if it is appropriate, and then back away. Then let someone else have a chance to offer condolences. If the person wants to talk, listen. Sometimes it's best to not say anything but simply be there to show your support.
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["Don't say, “It's going to be OK” ... ", 'But do say something. ... ', "Do make clear that you'll be there for them. ... ", "Do be careful about saying, “I'll pray for you” ... ", 'Do try to create a semblance of normalcy. ... ', "Do ask how they're doing — today. ... ", 'Do be a good listener. ... ', "Don't get squirmy at the end."]
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['Let them grieve in their own way. ... ', 'Let them express a wide range of emotions. ... ', 'Give them some slack. ... ', 'Encourage them to have healthy outlets to help relieve the pain they feel. ... ', 'Let them remember and celebrate with others. ... ', 'Let them get help.']
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Loss Of A Coworker Sympathy Card Messages “I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you.” “May (name) rest in peace. ... “Thinking of you, wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain.”
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['"I am at a loss for words. ... ', '"Love knows no boundaries. ... ', '"Please know that you\'re in my thoughts and prayers. ... ', '"I was so saddened to hear about _________ passing. ... ', '"My deepest condolences to you during this time. ... ', '"You have my deepest, sincerest sympathy."', '"I am praying for you during your time of loss.']
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['“I\'m so sorry for your loss. I\'m here for you."', '2. “ Remember you are not alone. ... ', '3. “ I\'m thinking of you."', '4. “ I love you so much and I imagine you feel [awful] right now, but I just had to remind you of how wonderful I think you are."', '5. “']