what to say to a parent who lost child?
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['Offer sincere condolence. "I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example.', 'Offer open-ended support. "If there is anything I can do, please let me know. ... ', 'Offer silence. ... ', 'When the time is right, express what the deceased child meant to you.']
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['When talking about death, use simple, clear words. ... ', 'Listen and comfort. ... ', 'Put emotions into words. ... ', 'Tell your child what to expect. ... ', 'Talk about funerals and rituals. ... ', 'Give your child a role. ... ', 'Help your child remember the person.']
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Loss Of A Coworker Sympathy Card Messages “I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you.” “May (name) rest in peace. Know that I'm here for you during this time of grieving.”
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['Thinking of you during your difficult time. ... ', "I am so sorry you're going through this. ... ", 'Sending all of our love and support your way.']
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If you can't think of something to say, just offer eye contact, a squeeze of the hand, or a reassuring hug. Offer your support. Ask what you can do for the grieving person. Offer to help with a specific task, such as helping with funeral arrangements, or just be there to hang out with or as a shoulder to cry on.
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I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
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"You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers." "I am so sorry for your loss." "My favorite memory of your loved one is..." And sometimes it's just best to be with the child and not say anything.
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Be patient. Whatever the loss, whatever the expression of pain or grief (unless extreme and dangerous), be patient, be present, and be respectful. All things pass… but then they come around again, maybe next time straight at you.
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['Knowing what to say when someone passes away can be difficult. ... ', 'Love knows no boundaries. ... ', "Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. ... ", 'I hope and pray that you will have strength during this time of loss. ... ', 'You have my deepest sympathy. ... ', 'We are here for you if you need anything. ... ', 'Those who love us never go away.']
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['“I miss you, too!”', '“I was just thinking of you; then you called. ... ', '“And why may I ask do you miss me?” (said in a joking but loving way).']
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When talking about death, use simple, clear words. To break the news that someone has died, approach your child in a caring way. Use words that are simple and direct. For example, "I have some sad news to tell you. Grandma died today." Pause to give your child a moment to take in your words.
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Ask the parents what happened: The parents may need to talk about the details. If they don't want to talk about it, don't pressure them. Acknowledge the child's life and refer to him or her by name. If the child was an infant, ask if the baby was named so that you can refer to him or her by name.
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['"I am at a loss for words. ... ', '"Love knows no boundaries. ... ', '"Please know that you\'re in my thoughts and prayers. ... ', '"I was so saddened to hear about _________ passing. ... ', '"My deepest condolences to you during this time. ... ', '"You have my deepest, sincerest sympathy."', '"I am praying for you during your time of loss.']
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Simply say… 'I'm sorry' It can be hard to find the right words to comfort someone who is experiencing this type of grief, but many people say that just having their loss acknowledged is helpful. You might want to say: “I'm very sorry that you have lost your baby.” “This must be really difficult for you.”
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['My heartfelt condolences. ... ', 'Your father always bragged about how wonderful you were. ... ', 'Your father was one of the nicest people I know and I know that he was a great dad too. ... ', 'I am truly sorry for your loss. ... ', "No matter wherever he is, he'll always be watching over you. ... ", "I was so sorry to hear about your father's passing."]
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["“I'm Glad You're Okay”", "“I'm Here For You if You Need Anything”", '“How Are You Feeling?”', '“What Can I Do for You?”', "“Don't Be So Upset. Cheer Up!”", '“You Should [Insert Advice]”']
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['Sample 1. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. If you feel like talking to someone, know that I am a good listener.', 'Sample 2. My heart aches over the loss of your dad. ... ', "Sample 3. I'm sorry about your father's passing."]