How do you fluff this pillow? I have one and hate it. Too firm and uncomfortable
458097
I totally agree with you, I wasted my money, that pillow gives me a headache.
458098
I usually punch mine back in shape. Because it is firmer than I like it is my support pillow for a smaller Down pillow
458099
I knead mine back into shape every morning when I make my bed. It takes about 15 seconds.
458100
Some hate it, like you. Others love it, like me. It's not for everyone. I like mine firm.
458101
It really does not fluff. It is made to be firm and that is the reason I bought it.It is as firm today as the day I got it. I don't like to sink into the pillow. If you don't likefirm, return it, it wont unfirm.
2084917
I have not been able to get comfortable on this pillow. I am a side sleeper but did not sleep much. I tried for a week but am not using it anymore.
2095747
I needed a pillow to support my neck when sleeping. It was too firm for me.
417525
I'm a bit confused. Are you saying the pillow went flat and /or your husband is flat as in not a heavy man but thin? I don't understand fully but if you are a large person the pillow of course will flatten a lot , especially if it is sat on for more than a few hours at a time. Sweetie, there are a lot of things people sell that are in your words "no good" hehehee. Like alcohol for instance. After it flattens all you have to do is jiggle it around and fluff it a bit and it should go back to normal. Mine does. Anyway, i'm sad it doesn't work for you but millions of others love it.
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I don't think you can. I would recommend passing on this one. After a short period of time it will lose its ability to stay firm. I wake up and the pillow is totally flat. I had to stop using it.
1160358
Down pillows need to be "plumped ". Hold the pillow by the corners and shake it so the feathers fluff, then turn the pillowand repeat action. Then plump the long sides. Do this every morning. I have a pair of these pillows and love them.
109021
NOOO!!!!!! Mine is slowly losing it's shape and going flat. I would never buy another one again. When I lay in bed and read my nook I have to use another pillow on top of this darn $70.00 thing I bought. Good luck!
155902
For this particular pillow, I thought that it only came in soft. Does yours look like the one pictured? Yours should feel like a memory foam. If not, or if you just don't like it, then I'd look into returning/exchanging it. Good luck!
2076720
I disliked the pillow. It is hard as a rock. I sleep on my back & it did not work for me. Costco has a pillow that is firm, but it can still fit under the neck & gives good support. I do not recommend My Pillow at all.
949945
No, I am a side sleeper and had to cut some of the foam from the pillow because it started to hurt my neck. You might want to look into a more flatter pillow.
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I didn't try that as I only bought it for a plane neck pillow. However, after giving up on it as a neck pillow (because it was too stiff and too high), I tried to use it more like a regular pillow on the plane and that didn't work either. It was still too stiff and really took head pressure to make it conform and get comfy, so I rate it an F for both a neck pillow and regular pillow on a plane.
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The bottom of the pillow is flat, the top of the pillow has two supportive humps, one side is smaller than the other and firmer than the other. I have to use the smaller side, the bigger side gives me a headache. I got my first pillow like this, this brand, through a chiropractor and now it's the only one I can sleep on. For me, they will last for about 3 years before I replace them, but that's me. It's not a memory foam where is sinks down, it's a foam, but it's a very supportive foam. I highly recommend this pillow, but keep in mind, different things work for different people. Good luck and if I can answer anything else, just ask and I will do my best!! The bottom of the pillow is flat, the top of the pillow has two supportive humps, one side is smaller than the other and firmer than the other. I have to use the smaller side, the bigger side gives me a headache. I got my first pillow like this, this brand, through a chiropractor and now it's the only one I can sleep on. For me, they will last for about 3 years before I replace them, but that's me. It's not a memory foam where is sinks down, it's a foam, but it's a very supportive foam. I highly recommend this pillow, but keep in mind, different things work for different people. Good luck... » Read More The bottom of the pillow is flat, the top of the pillow has two supportive humps, one side is smaller than the other and firmer than the other. I have to use the smaller side, the bigger side gives me a headache. I got my first pillow like this, this brand, through a chiropractor and now it's the only one I can sleep on. For me, they will last for about 3 years before I replace them, but that's me. It's not a memory foam where is sinks down, it's a foam, but it's a very supportive foam. I highly recommend this pillow, but keep in mind, different things work for different people. Good luck and if I can answer anything else, just ask and I will do my best!! « Show Less
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I don't recommend sleeping this way with this sort of pillow. I used to sleep like that until I started sleeping with buckwheat pillows. Once you get used to them they support you enough that you don't need to sleep like that.
1962097
Yes, so firm my husband could not sleep on it at all. I was not comfortable on it either. It was supposed to be soft, But very firm!
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The pillow's firmness is determined by the amount of water you decide upon. If you choose to pour enough water into it, it will become very resistant to the depression you're concerned with. With too much water in it, I've found it to be too resistant. I hope that's helpful.
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I actually find it a bit uncomfortable for my neck with a normal pillow; I need a much softer pillow with the wedge I use (which is 7 inches not 12). The pillow is really designed more to alleviate reflux, which it does for me, and maybe reduce snoring if you have sleep apnea.
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C & L, This pillow is hard. I found it uncomfortable as I am a side sleeper. It just didn't give enough and I felt like I was sleeping on a board.If you like a very firm pillow this might work for you. My cat uses it to sleep on so I guess it's not a total waste.