helps some women definetly not all
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The book helps women who come from a place of emotional and
romantic situations,but not those tempted by pornography and
pure sexual conquest. If a woman is more passive and tends to
follow what is deemed as sterotypical behavior the book can help
since it addresses some issues about emotional attachment and
romance novels. Typically these women are receptive rather than
agressive and the writer shows how one can put on the armour
of Christ so no man "take advantage of her" But the whole thing
comes from the premise that women are the objects of desire rather than full whole human beings who have sexual desires.
There are misconceptions about women who view porn. Instead of
acknowledging how women as well as men view the person in the
photo as an object of desire,the writer basically tells us that
women want only to be the object of desire but not desire a man.
I can't see how women are helped by these sterotypes. How can a
woman be helped if there are so many preconceived notions about
the writers narrow version of female sexuality. Sexuality is
individual,a man can be passive and romantic and a woman can be
aggressive and sexual.
My guess is after reading the book that Christians somehow are
threatened by a woman being truly sexual,therefore all sexuality
in a woman is seen by them as either romantic or emotional.
Also the premise that women cheat for only emotional fullfillment is wrong. Women do the same as men,but how many women will admitt to such a thing for fear of being rejected by
her follow Christians.
There is a narrow view of female characteristics - the typical
being passive,receptive,romantic,emotional and vuneralable.
Until real world needs and desires of women are addressed,women
will be lost in the church and the church will continue to not
acknowledge women as sexual beings,and only see them as
emotion driven empty vessels waiting for a white knight to take
care of them.
Many women come to sex through sex,not emotion first. This is another sterotype which must go. If women seem to be less sexual
it's because society and especially the born again Christian
church has rejected,shamed and scorned them.
Women cannot be helped with sexual temptation unless they are
seen as individuals with many aspects to their sexuality.
Women too want someone to desire. Men are not the only gender with
eyes in their heads. Infact it's quite a mistake to associate
women with romance and men with sex. No one can be helped without
leaving the sterotypes behind.
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This is a great book about issues that most, if not all women face. It really encourages the reader to look at their own beauty habits and maybe even re-evaluate those habits.
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I found the book to be somewhat helpful. Since Sasha is doing research into sleep, it would be helpful for her to add information about menopause and insomnia. There are cases when menopausal women do need sleeping and or anxiety medication in order to compensate for their hormonal fluctuations. Trying to be medication free during this transitional time period could actually aggravate one's sleep problems.
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I liked this book because it runs true in some cases. An older, overweight woman who is in her 30's and is a virgin doesn't think she is pretty. The book shows that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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We all have a role to play in helping change the universal consciousness. Telling an honest story, these women improved their lives.  This helps all who believe in the power of working together.  Thank you for your inspiration.
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This book is designed for women who want to debug their dates with men, and some of the book is specific to that goal. But a majority of the book is gender independent, and a fair amount of it describes how misunderstandings can arise in a wide range of interactions between people who don't know each other well.
The book isn't very profound, but it is based on fairly careful research that ought to be done more often than it has been. I was surprised at how much I enjoyed reading it and how quickly I finished it.
 I'm not convinced I learned a lot from it. The problems that appear to best describe my interactions with people are the ones that I find relatively hard to change.
 I suspect she overestimates her ability to get accurate reasons from the men, but I don't have much reason to think the men who are misleading her are men who her clients could have better connected with.
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They help make the bra fit better and more comfortable.  It's hard to find a perfect fit in a bra
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There are indeed differences between men and women. We are equal in humanity and different in how we feel, see reality, react to it and set priorities. This book empowers women to see men for who they are, not the way women want them to be. It also shows how women can discern a man's intentions while keeping her options open. This is not a cynical, bitter book. It will free you from misconceptions about relationships and hopefully help you see men as people, with flaws and virtues and to see yourself as a person too. As a woman, it will bring perspective on how to guard your heart from being excessively attached to a man.
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i don't keep many books but this one sits on my shelf.  They not only present problems in how women are treated in various countries but lays out what seems to work an not work as solutions to improve things
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I bought several copies to give to all the girls and young women, and some moms, that I know. It is really important for females to understand their bodies, and this book helps.
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Someone bought this for me, but this isn't for the introverted types. The get over your ex or stop being a control freak only applies to certain women. She reminds me too much of dr Laura or dr Phil. Being a trauma therapist and a woman of color, I wouldnt recommend this book for women. Maybe this book works for women similar to the author.
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Very Good Book.
Have read it several times
Helps to understand women a little... lol
Don't know they can ever be fully understood... only loved.
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Yes many women are manipulative but generalizations should not be made. Yet the message that care should always be practised should not be missed by any of both parties.
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I shared this book withThe Women Fellowship Group at my church.  Many shared the same problems, thinking they were the ONLY

ones and it is a start in  making a difference in their lives.  Thank you for sharing.
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Brings out the sometimes ridiculous double standards between genders. While women on average are not physically as strong as men, their wit and intelligence should not be overlooked. Things are not so one-sided for a determined (and desperate) young woman.
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It's not so much small as it is tight in places that women with children would rather not be reminded we have.
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Find how to enjoy being a sexy woman for man without being a crab about it. If you read this book you will find her a bit sarcastic, just get over it and do what she says. I did not agree on her stance on  divorce though. Kids are more important that your happiness , and you need to try and work it out. Women are so powerful and they throw it out the window to work and look like a man to get respect like a man. She has some great ideas and it has helped me. I did finish the book and implementing the concepts she taught in the book. It is working.