for the hot mess millennial--and me
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Gabi and Miranda did not write this book for me, a Gen-X homeowner with kitchen proficiency and an amateur foodie wife. They wrote this book for the hot mess millennial in their first apartment with no clue how to cook.

Yet I found myself drawn into the books semi confessional, madcap empowerment essays. And just when I thought I didn't need them, I found inspiration in the very simple recipes too.

A few weeks after this book came into my life, my wife, our households chief cook and menu strategist, had a health crisis: surgery plus a month of bedrest. Suddenly, I was in charge of all meal planning and execution for the most discriminating cook I know.

I freaked out. How would I do it? Sure, I chop a mean onion and make dinner once in a while, but lets be honest: I lived on a burrito-a-week diet before I got married. I was a hot mess back then--before hot messes were a thing.
So I leafed through the recipes in this book and began to feel like everything was going to be okay. Reading Gabis approach, I remembered how awesome and easy it is to improvise in the kitchen. I started to get excited when I remembered that dinner can be as simple as a Bad Sex Baked Potato. (This recipe holds your hand through baking a potato and topping it with kale and cheddar cheese.) I realized that even the fancy notion of dessert is really just no bigger deal than making a basic Abandonment Issues Apple Pie.

The wife is healed and cooking again, but this cookbook has earned a place beside some of my favorites. A longtime fan of Joy of Cooking, I haul out the big white handbook every time I want to remember the ratio of flour to milk to start a bechamel. (Its pretty much one to one. Why cant I remember that?) And I think this book will have a similar role on my cookbook shelf. Its very-good-idea recipes reminded me what I had forgotten about the basics of cooking and provided a starting point for all kinds of culinary creativity. Ill go to the Im a Fraud French Toast recipe to remind myself the basics of French toast for years to come, Im sure.

Another thing I loved: the essays. Some of my favorite cookbooks have gorgeous essays in them, but few authors are so generous with them. Gabi and Miranda have written one for each and every recipe plus a really entertaining introduction with charming reflections and solid advice.

Its been almost twenty years since Ive been caught Pretending To Be Married in the Fish Department or Flirting in the Beer Aisle, and I know my way around my broiler. But I still had a great time reading Gabis point of view. The broiler is the G spot of the kitchen, she tells us. Hard to find, but once you do things get a lot more fun. This is my kind of food writing.

Both authors write in irresistibly girlfriendy voices: no judgment, no bullshit, no slut-shaming, and a lot of love. For instance, the essay that goes with the Bad Sex Baked Potato recipe reminds you to pee after the bad sex.

You never know when you're going to need a friend like that, somebody who can gently remind you how to take care of your beautiful self without speaking down to you. Gabi and Miranda have shown up as those kinds of friends with their wonderful book, Hot Mess Kitchen. I highly recommend it as a thoughtful gift for a hot mess--or even an ex hot mess--you love.
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I bought this book on the recommendation of someone I respected. Everyone's in a panic, he said. Millennials are backsliding. The rest of us old school Christians just aren't cool enough for them. It's an emergency. We have to be cooler. Here this book will explain it all...  So I bought the book and began reading it and found that Kinnaman attempts the difficult task of pretending to be an objective and scientifically minded observer of "Mosaics" (oh yeah and "Busters" too yeah right let's not forget those Busters) while clearly being a fairly representative member of the class himself (Mosaics obviously, not Busters).  The self-contradictory presumptions and postures he has to adopt get to be bewildering quite early, even before the first Chapter. I tried hard not to be annoyed by his poorly handled internal conflicts of interest but about halfway through the book I found it impossible not to be annoyed. I felt a strong urge to simply smile and ignore but again, people I respect take this book seriously. So I've been forcing myself to weather the barrage of poorly concealed ageism and self-importance to grasp the essential nuggets. Honestly though, the further through the book I get, the less nuggets I'm finding. Almost all of what Kinnaman details is stuff I've observed and others have observed without having to bother a couple hundred thousand people with polling questions. Frankly, all due respect to Barna, polling has so many inherent pitfalls that I highly doubt it's even possible to distill these sorts of absolutes from it. So far my number one takeaway is that "Mosaics" think they are the first generation of humans on this planet to actually know better than their elders on pretty much everything. Yeah. No other generation has ever felt that way apparently even if they said they did and even if it was just back in the 80s not that long ago.  So that's something.
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This book is a real grab bag -- some will irritate; others have the potential to revolutionize how you work. The first couple of chapters seem designed to annoy. Anyone reading a book on time management is obviously busy and don't really need to rambles about how busy we all are capped off with a vague Zen-like exhortation to `let the bits go.' And they have this tone that leaves you expecting to be asked to sign up for a time-share condo (and, in fact, the chapter on the ideal electronic to-do list is basically a pitch for the author's own software). Then a few chapters seem dated or not particularly practical.

The chapters I recommended to my boss were:

Chapter 4: Email: this is probably the most important chapter. You can probably figure out the handful of rules by reading the reviews (e.g., have the inbox down to zero at least once a day). The strength of the chapter, however, is how it anticipates your objections to this approach and preempts them. Except for his advice to not use the `sent folder', which doesn't quite work with gmail, I have been following this system for a month. I'd say I actually probably spend slightly more time on email but feel vastly more in control of it and am better at responding in a timely fashion. One of the surprises to this approach to realize that on most days I get less email than I thought.

Chapter 5: to-do lists: as previously mentioned, this is largely an ad for the author's software. I've been trying the free version for several weeks. It has two annoying features. First, it has its own calendar, meaning that it runs in parallel to the Google calendar system we use in the office. Second, unlike Workflowy, it doesn't really allow you to organize data for projects. Instead, it seems ideal for someone who is constantly responding to unconnected little chores (more like a manager whose job it is to run around putting out little fires). Also, and I guess this is a third point: it's hard to step back and see the big picture of your workload.

Chapter 8: basically how to write short and sweet email. On my post-it to my boss recommending specific chapters, I said that she already did this. On her post-it back, she said that she wished more people would read this chapter.

Chapter 12: random goodies: this chapter deals with changes you can make to your computer or software you can use to accelerate yourself. The most challenging is to use the Dvorak keyboard instead of the standard QWERTY one. Most changes, however, are along the lines of suggesting you reprogram your caps lock key to something you actually use.

If these four chapters sound appealing, then this book is probably for you. It doesn't take that long to read the other chapters, but the benefits of doing so wouldn't warrant actually buying the book.
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This book is clearly written by someone who gets it. Millennials like myself aren't interested in lengthy discussions about financial theory and history and blah blah blah... Tell me what Im doing wrong, how to fix it, and how to move to the next stage of my financial life. This book does just that.

The Money 20 is perfect for quickly hitting on the points that Millennials care about without wasting pages on things that frankly don't matter to most 20-somethings.  I love the question and answer format and the real world examples. I also appreciate that, unlike most money books, this incorporates current apps and tools that my generation is already familiar with.

Most finance books spend pages and pages running through outdated nonsense like how to balance a check book and fill out a deposit sliplike, have the authors ever heard of mobile banking? I can pay my rent online, I haven't needed a checkbook sinceever.

This author gives me a strategy and shows me how to use apps like MINT to implement it. FINALLY, thank you. Its obvious the author actually spent time thinking about the end consumer and it really shows in the quality of the work shes created.

Other random thoughts: the resource list at the back of the book is a huge plus. Its organized by category to make it easier to flip back to and reference in the future. I also appreciate the list of financial terms that are defined using the authors own words which make them MUCH easier to understand. The author obviously spends time going through the what of financial questions but she also gives you the right amount of why to make points crystal clear. I also appreciate that the book hits on things like whether to get life insurance or contribute to a 401k. Its definitely set up to help you move from point A to point B and continue progressing with your finances.

Id 100% recommend this book to anyone looking to take more control of their financial lives. Quick, easy read with incredibly useful information.
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Boomers are probably the leading readers of the Mag. We want info. pertaining to us. Also, reprint old jokes, we won't remember them~! lol
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Dear Matt,

First of all, let me just get this off my chest. You are the most infuriating/immature twat/adorable @sshole that Ive ever met. Half the things that came out of your mouth are cr@p. D@mn if I don't love you for it.

When I started on your story, Im not a fan of your charming personalities. As I am new to your world and I never meet Sawyer or Ryder before, maybe Im judging you too harshly without getting to know you. But anyway, you are basically a prepubescent boy in a mans body. You are nearing 30 and you still need your mum to pick up after your shlt. Shame on you. Or maybe Mrs. Carter is to blame for all your immaturity.

Before you throw your tantrum and accuse me of not appreciating your sense of humor, I have to say you did grow on me, like a mold. Im itching just thinking about it.

Moving on to your sex life. Oppss sorry, I mean your love life. Omg! I cant believe you make the first move to Alex, who is basically your best buddy. I usually thought the straight guy won't be the one to make the first move, guess Im wrong and kudos to you. Im sure gayitis is contagious!

Although all your experiments failed big time, I had a good laugh at your expense. Im a chick and I do get off on watching gay p0rn. What does that say about me? By the way, I can recommend you some good m/m read that is way more tasteful than the super cheesy one that you got.

Back to the love of your life Alex, the huge fre@king bomb that was dropped by him  woah! Honestly, I was stunned for a minute there because there are a few possibilities that came across my mind but never THAT. So I forgive you for fre@king the f@ck out. Although it was a huge gigantic deal for you guys, Im glad you both work the shlt out and able to deal with it like adults. I had some tears in my eyes while reading about it.

And Matt, I feel as if throughout this book I see you actually might just grow up and be a man. A man capable of love, commitment and responsibility. Although you cant cook for shlt, is the thought that count right? I will eat your P&J anytime. Oh, and please remove the pasta stain from the ceiling. I think I pee my pant hearing the about your attempt at cooking pasta. TMI? Oh, I think you love my blunt honesty since I endured hearing you complaint about your putrid armpits.

Anyway, Im so proud of you until.. you whip out a tape and measure your own c@ck. Seriously! I guess, tiger cant change its stripes and Matt cant not be a twat.

Thats all for now, Matt. Thanks for making my heart smile throughout your story. I wish you happy years ahead with Alex filled with amazing sex, infinite blowj@bs and @rgasms.

Your new fan,
Amanda xx

p/s: Im heading over to read Sawyers book, but don't worry you will always be my favorite.

Quotes:
Matts philosophy of life
I hit any shlt life throws my way with a high five.

What Matt felt about Alex,
Never before had I found a man so d@mn beautiful I couldn't look at him without wanting to eat his f@cking face.

What Alex felt about Matt,
Youre my j3rk, Matthew Carter, and you always will be.
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For Millennials  looking for practical advice on how to get ahead in today's economy,  "Millennials into Leadership" is the perfect book. But it also provides a great guide for any manager seeking to mentor and encourage America's newest twenty something workers. Chock full of her usual insights and wit, this book will make a great gift for anyone experiencing life in our new Millenial Era.&nbsp;<a data-hook="product-link-linked" class="a-link-normal" href="/Millennial-Makeover-MySpace-YouTube-and-the-Future-of-American-Politics/dp/0813545048/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_rvw_txt?ie=UTF8">Millennial Makeover: MySpace, YouTube, and the Future of American Politics</a>
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I checked this book out from my library when I saw the title.  As one of the oldest millennials (born in 1982), I ran into a lot of the problems discussed in this book when I started working full-time.

I like how it provides advice to all of the generations on how to improve communication and make the work experience better for everyone.  What it says to millennials is definitely applicable!

I'm not through with the book yet, so I don't want to give a detailed review, but suffice it to say that I'm recommending it to all of my younger cousins and siblings to read before they get out in the "real world." I don't want them to make some of the same mistakes that I did!
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The Freelancer guide is the guide I've been looking for. As a college graduate from a liberal school (which didn't really teach me, much to be honest). After graduation, I was filling out endlesss job applications when I should have just been free freelancing. This will give you the millennial, a way to find your ideal job and still have free time.to sleep in while all your buddies are at their 9-5s.

Pros:Fast Read, pratical, well written

Cons: none

This book is well written and I have been able to utlilze some of the tips and tricks.
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I've got a microwave that also tells me the weather. I've got a blender that takes my temperature. My mattress has it's own alarm clock. If you're anything like me you can't be bothered in the morning fumbling around for the correct settings on your electric toothbrush that also makes toast. That sort of thing is reserved for AFTER I've had my cup of coffee. The world is not enough in focus to deal with it's complications. What type of Rube Goldbergian future do we now inhabit anyway? Heh, modern conveniences amirite folks?! I'll tell you what's convenient, being able to plug something in and divine it's basic operating functions without studying an owner's manual all day. I wanted coffee. 10 minutes later I had coffee.

Now onto the machine itself. It has 2 settings; ON and OFF. Use ON for when you want coffee. I suggest keeping it in OFF mode for when you do not want coffee. It's small, out of the way, reliable.

It's like the tiny kid that's full of heart in those feel-good middle school sports movies. You're coach Ed O'Neill. You say, "You've got one job to do. You know what it is. Don't worry about anything else. Don't look at your mom in the stands. Just. Make. Me. Coffee." And by God does it deliver.
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Without revealing myself too badly, let's just say it has been a fair few years since I was the age of the Millennial. However, I can honestly say I found this book just as enlightening and just as helpful as I know I would have all those moons ago. David deftly taps into the mindset of the current twenty-something and openly discusses the challenges, obstacles, and advantages facing their generation in today's business arena. Understanding the Millenial helps us "Post-Millennials" communicate across the generational gap more efficiently and with more appreciation for the unique attributes their generation enjoys. This book is a terrific companion to "Networking in the 21st Century", no matter what age you are, and an informative, fascinating read all on its own.
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Ah yes, the latest salvo from Dr. Florida in his crusade to describe the DWELL magazination of America, and why you should be grateful  for these John Galts wielding  good design, live music, childless households, and a mastabatory fixation on their salutary attributes of creativity.

Responsible for emboldening, through shameless pandering, a whole generation of fundamentally mediocre college graduates and professionals that only the most edgy zip codes (never gentrified) where you can walk for blocks without fear of seeing a TGIFriday's are acceptable.  Propped up with the disposable incomes (earned predominantly in the soulless windblown, tract-housing, strip mall hell of America) from their parents they are free to marvel at Portland's light rail system, "funky" boutiques, and mediate on their own amazing potential to create and experience life the way it was meant to be lived.

Now, our national security is at risk because nations are investing heavily in "a creative society with ecological sustainability and social inclusion" (Never you mind that these global hipster enclaves are in countries getting a free ride on our defense budgets and standing armies and not burdened with the pesky job of previously defeating communism or radical Islam a la Paul Berman.)  That, and because Peter Jackson and Jack Black are filming `King Kong' in New Zealand, we face the greatest threat of our generation.

Sadly, I herald from a Pittsburgh- one of those towns hopefully you are "fortunate enough to migrate from"- heck Mr. Florida did. Apparently, our grey, little lives don't count until we liberate ourselves and fully embrace tasteful, sustainable, prefab housing.

This is the `Atkins Diet' of social science.  Not completely without value, but ultimately, counting `carbs' or creatives just gets to bee too annoying and unfulfilling.
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With Chelsea's beautiful writing style that I followed for years on Thought Catalog and Lauren's eye-catching artwork, this book has an easy-to-digest format for peers in their 20s seeking the ultimate millennial goal--some %$@ing financial stability. (I'd like to think I gained this eloquence from the book.) It'll make you laugh and it'll make you think. It'll also make you change for the better.
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I have a real concern for the marriages of today. As a former High School youth leader (21 years - Yikes!) I stay connected to many folks who are a generation younger. They share with me openly & honestly - their concerns, trials, & temptations. They share & I recommend Making Love Last.
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This book sucks on a level only a millennial could reach.

-a millennial
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Excellent.

A great story for any of the failures in your life.

Maybe this will motivate them to get off their bottoms and try for pete's sake. You're not going to get anywhere by sitting up in your room looking at naughty videos and eating hamburgers. It's time to make something of yourself and try. Work hard. Don't stop. You've only got 8 or so decades on this big blue marble and you shouldn't want to spend it anonymously yelling at people about their moms while you play video games.

What is up with that, Mark? When are you going to act like a human being instead of mom funding your loser life. And how the hell do you have money for all those tattoos but can't pay me back the $275 you borrowed from me ... THREE years ago?

I don't know, man. I used to look up to you. I thought you were going to own your auto shop but one girl breaks your heart and you go into cocoon mode, leeching off of others and being a general D. Get a life, Mark.
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My family so closely resembles this same type of craziness except we are all crusty bitches!  People don't understand our dialogue. Guess they don't need to. My grandmothers, house is grand central station. Each generation tries to rise above the one before.  Funny, interesting, page turner, left me wanting to know more. Thanks