I have been married 31 years (to the same woman) ...
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I have been married 31 years (to the same woman). There is so much truth here about the struggles we all go through, that it's uncanny. Read this book to learn and realize that it take real work to stay married, and it's so worth it!
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Ai Takekawa has been dating a married American man for over two years. He has four lovely little kids all under 5, the baby is only 7 month old. The husband attempts to get back to his family. Please tell her stop calling, or sending message to the wife and the husband. I hope she will listen any of these voices. A
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I am married to a wonderful girl, we chose each other for marriage.  We entered a life-long commitment to each other which will last long after our parents until our own death (if we aren't uploaded into robots, first ;) ) and we are a successful partnership.  I am the stronger personality, so I suppose I lead somewhat more, but why would I want to be in a relationship that required me to lead it all the time?

Women are not so fragile of mind, in fact, it is my wife's mind that I find most appealing about her when I think of the long years ahead with her.  After 12 years of marriage, I have no regrets and can see no way our relationship could have been improved by the methods described in this bigoted book.

A parent's advice on marriage should be taken seriously, but the list of qualities a good husband should possess look different than outlined in this book, I think.
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This woman is in her late 70's! And still working all the time - fan for 37 years now!!! Just why I think I heard it all - she still surprises me!
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I married late in life, and I'm glad I did.  But my reason for staying single for so long was simply that I am a person who has a lot of things I like to do -- I enjoy music, reading, writing and I am a teacher -- all of which kept me very busy.  And I noticed two positive things:

1.  I refused to get into a snit about being single.  I simply wasn't worried about it.  Single life was good to me and I had a great time (minus the offensive questions I would be asked).  I dated occasionally, some times a lot and sometimes seldom.

2.  I didn't wrap up my identity in a man.  Although I got a lot of verbal garbage from other people, I knew I was OK even if I wasn't married.

I have now been married for seven years.  By John Molloy's standards, I had a snowball's chance in Uno Where of getting married, but it happened.  And believe me, it was not done through John Molloy advice!  If what John Molloy says is true (and perhaps there is some truth to it) then the relationship is of no value to me.  If a man my age or older wants a 20-year old, then no matter how much I respect myself, the dude isn't going to marry me.  And I'll be better off.  If most men really do value beauty and fertility more than anything else, then I don't want most men.  The calendar and Mother Nature will age me (as it will the man).  Some things are worse than being single, and one of them is trying to fit into this silly game.

Fortunately, I don't think all men are like this.  There are plenty of rational guys out there, and my advice to women is this:  look for them.  They exist.

Not all women are contented to be single, I realize.  Although I am quite a worry wart by nature, oddly enough, staying single was one thing I did not worry about.  To be honest, I don't know if my husband is Alpha, Beta, Kappa or Omicron.  But I do know this -- our relatioinship is of great value to both of us.
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I have ready two chapters. I have been married 30 years. The book is truly anointed. You may think your marriage is fine but it can always get better. I find the book extremely challenging. She gives us real things to work on.
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I purchased this for my wife right after we got married 31 years ago. She fell in love with the aroma. Now when ever I get a chance to buy it, I find it. I got a great deal from Amazon, price was out of this world.
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I love the way she talks to you. Not like my wife. Lol.
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Jeffry Life is a hero of mine  .  Not the least of which is the fact that I have reached the 70 year mark myself .  Since retiring  I have begun transforming my own physical situation, 35lbs.  less in 5 months, never felt better in my life.  Now if I can only find a wife as lovely as his.
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I have been hearing a lot of good things about this book from my friends who are also married just like me. I am in my late 30s and I have been noticing that the fire that my wife used to have is somehow slowly fading. This problem is really causing me a lot of headache; especially since our kids are already grownups. I really thought that everything is lost until this book tells me the opposite. This book contains everything that I need to know on how to rekindle the flame of our marriage. This Kama Sutra book is perfect for me.
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My wife was delighted with this for our 42 anniversary of meeting...:)!
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My wife likes all the romance books etc. For all of you ladies take my advice and don't forget your real world. Spend more 1 on 1 time with your husband, kid's, also don't forget the special moments that brought you together! Go relive those special moments and leave all electronics.
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Having celebrated our 4th anniversary, with my 5th wife, I can honestly say, I am definitely not one for being married, but I always find myself in one.  This book has helped me tremendously to deal with my own issues and make me willing to make this marriage work.  In fact, the other day I asked my wife, "Am I doing better?"  She agreed I was.  I have much work to do, inwardly and outwardly, but this book has been the catalyst in guiding me in the direction I should take.  I look forward to ensuring there will be no 6th!
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Excellent...I have been married 52 years and I wish I had read this material back when Jewell and I got married 9/30/60.
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It was a pleasure to read!  It is just perfect as my husband and I are approaching our 25th wedding anniversary.
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I love it and have loved it for 57 yrs that I am married. Lost my copy (a wedding gift) during our last move. Thought I could do without it but could not. I opted for the original hardback with original book covers so as try and forget my loss with all the notes written during my marriage
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Yep, even us old married farts can still be in love and play.  Wife is  (& always will be) the most BEAUTIFUL woman in the world, in any costume, on naked... OH MYYYY, blush, blush!!!