Is this book useful for partners of AS women?
585373
I've heard good things about this author, yet don't really need yet another book where the AS partner is male.

Does the author give equal time and attention to couples where the AS partner is female? Most authors seem to address the challenges of these couples only in passing, if they do at all. :(
4433888
It is a collection of short stories about how to lose your woman. They give an insight to the thinking of a man from Santo Domingo and from someone who deserves to lose each and every woman. I read the short stories to study his style. It should be useful.
3702871
It Seems to be aimed more at the under 50 crowd. It has some helpful & valid information/exercises even for the over 50 woman....I recommended some of the things to a 40's woman, she decided to get divorced anyway, she, "didn't Want to 'Light His Fire', she Wanted to Light HIM on Fire"...- that's a quote from the book, too. It Really IS a Good read, with Very Helpful Exercises. I'd recommend it to another woman struggling to Keep her  heterosexual/primary relationship "Alive".
3539055
I think this is a great tool to help any marriage.  I don't totally agree with all that's being brought forward in this book, but feel that it can help any woman understand the true meaning of Submission.
4929142
It's not a life saver but it's good.  At least read it once.  It can help one sided clueless females.  ...hey, it happens to us.  Men don't deserve ALL of our drama.  :)
1646444
I would say 10% of tricks is not possible to use, 80% nothing special and 10% are golden rules which I wrote down to remember. It is written by a woman and (hopefully this won't sound sexist) I think that this book has more value for women.
2979399
married for 6 years, but we are together for 15, and I've been hit by jealousy issues quite often throughout those years. so while I dint think I should seek counseling, I enjoy reading self-help books on this subject. id say this compact guide would be of good help for those who just started battling their jealousy , I know it's tough guys, but it hurts relations, so you have to battle past jealousy woes with the help of suc books like this one!
2282503
There is no information available anywhere that is able to pinpoint the core issues in ones life.  In other sources you might get temporary relief, but here you can get real change.  Also, recommend ANGRY MEN AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM, by same author. [...].
4037539
Some things could be practical; read it if you have access to it. Better get "50 Secrets To Pickng Up Girls". That book is SO MUCH MORE practical; and I reccommend it because it is effective. Above all, to the  point.
3580878
This book is unisex. A man can use this book to pleasure his woman partner and give her the orgasm she sorely wanted while for a woman, this can be used to tell her man partner on how she wants to be pleasured. Let's face it, we all have some insecurities when it comes to pleasuring a woman. This book tells us that we have to be courageous. I find this informative, not in a sense of commanding, but understanding and advising. Read this after&nbsp;<a data-hook="product-link-linked" class="a-link-normal" href="/Sexy-Truth-Or-Dare-A-Guide-Book-To-Rekindle-Fires-And-Hook-Up-With-The-Hot-Ones/dp/B0095JRPF0/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_rvw_txt?ie=UTF8">Sexy Truth Or Dare: A Guide Book To Rekindle Fires And Hook Up With The Hot Ones</a>, and felt more intense to satisfy my partner. To sum it up, it is a good book, but have some slight reservations, you just have to find it within you if you take this as being helpful or not.
1202476
Find how to enjoy being a sexy woman for man without being a crab about it. If you read this book you will find her a bit sarcastic, just get over it and do what she says. I did not agree on her stance on  divorce though. Kids are more important that your happiness , and you need to try and work it out. Women are so powerful and they throw it out the window to work and look like a man to get respect like a man. She has some great ideas and it has helped me. I did finish the book and implementing the concepts she taught in the book. It is working.
4837044
The book is about women falling in love. I wish I could sell it. It don't help a male like myself whose trying to have a love life. If you're a woman get the book. Men don't get it, a total waste.
4677849
I got this as a anniversary gift for my husband. I have read throw some of it. It's not just a book with sex positions it mentions every aspect of your love life. How to take advantage of simple things in life to help your relationship with your partner regardless what sex they my be. How to make the most of your sex life with your partner and keeping an open mind.
253857
What it does do is give tips on how to approach & interact with women in ways that will make her (hopefully) find you more attractive.  This is a bad thing?

It's ironic that the 'feminists' who one starred this book will go on slut walks & encourage promiscuity, but they take offense to a boom that helps men become more successful with women.
1461209
Well, being a man I was recommended this book by my wife and having read it, I can see why women would love it. The message basically can be boiled down to 'love your woman with all your heart and soul no matter what she does'. The fact is that in order to improve your relationship the man should do all the 'bending', make 100% of the effort to change in order to affect that change in his woman. Whie he has some valid points which all men can adhere to I believe a relationship should be worked at equally, the woman should put her 50% in also and not expect the man to do all the work. Marriage guidance counsellors do not have sessions with only one side of the relationship present, both must participate for it to work. In fact I would go so far as to say that if your woman reads this book and recommends it to you - you are in serious trouble because this is what she will now expect, as is the case with me. There should be a book called the 'way of the superior woman' to guide a woman to improve herself also, when David Deida's wife releases this book then I'll be happy. While I agree with a lot of what he says I do not think it is correct that the woman is allowed to continue in exactly the same way with the man making all the effort within the relationship - which in essence is what this book states. A woman reading this book will not understand man at all, it gives no insight to how a man is - but what she will understand is how great it would be to change her man to act like the persona described within the book. For a relationship to work, both sides need to work on it. A lot of the things he states are simply impossible unless you are a buddhist monk without temper, opinion or passion. If a woman is ranting and raving but is completely wrong the man has to 'open himself, listen to it, be amused by it and then just hold or kiss, tickle, wrestle with his woman to make her calm down and end the argument' - Seriously? How many men can make that work? I would love to see a successful man in action doing that. I've tried that and it sure doesn't work. Point is, the man might show love in this way but you also diminish yourself and stress yourself to the max while taking all this grief from your partner. It is a heavy burden to be argued at, but not be able to respond only to give 'love'. This book has some helpful things for man but women will enjoy it more as 'wishful thinking' on how their man should do everything to make her happy, no matter what. Like I said - if there is a book the way of the superior man, there should also be the 'way of the superior woman' so that both can work on their relationship. No relationship will ever succeed when only one party does all the work. Also some of his writing is so flowery i wonder what he was smoking at the time because I do not even have a clue what he is talking about sometimes even after re-reading it. He also many times tells you how to act but if you really want to help man to change you have to give more practical advice - not just to 'love your woman' - give some more examples, that would be good. You can't build a rocket ship without instructions or a manual - just saying 'go and build it' won't get you a rocket ship.
All in all I await the 'Way of the superior woman' to level the playing field.<a data-hook="product-link-linked" class="a-link-normal" href="/The-Way-of-the-Superior-Man-A-Spiritual-Guide-to-Mastering-the-Challenges-of-Women-Work-and-Sexual-Desire/dp/1591792576/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_rvw_txt?ie=UTF8">The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire</a>
1304789
Ok. I am a man and I bought this book to give me an insight into the other sex and how women play the 'mating game'

This book is very affirming of women. My take on the message of this book is that a woman just has to be herself and enhance the gifts and assets that she already has. it is quite empowering for a woman to hear these things.

The section on the color 'red' was quite informative.

A good introduction to Seduction that you could follow up with further reading.
863557
I would highly recommend it for a modern and educated look at women's bodies and women's wisdom. Please also have a look at her other works like ''The Wisdom of Menopause'' and ''The Secret Pleasures of Menopause''