what to say to parent whose child died?
174681
['Offer sincere condolence. "I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example.', 'Offer open-ended support. "If there is anything I can do, please let me know. ... ', 'Offer silence. ... ', 'When the time is right, express what the deceased child meant to you.']
566151
["I don't know what to say, but I care about you.", 'Do you just need to vent? ... ', 'I really admire how you are handling this. ... ', "I'm bringing dinner Thursday. ... ", 'Can I get your kids for a play date? ... ', "I can't sit still. ... ", "I saw these flowers and thought they'd cheer you today."]
971399
['"Wow, you must be so busy." ... ', '"I\'m sorry." ... ', '"You\'re lucky you have a normal kid too." ... ', '"He\'ll catch up." ... ', '"You should take care of yourself so you can take care of him." ... ', '"We\'re only given what we can handle." ... ', '7. "']
1221275
['Losing a parent is an emotional time. ... ', 'Get a medical certificate. ... ', "Register the death, using the medical certificate, within 5 days of the death (unless it's been referred to a coroner). ... ", 'Organise multiple copies of the death certificate. ... ', 'Arrange the funeral. ... ', 'Notify the benefits agency. ... ', 'Managing assets in the short term.']
66646
["This is such a tragedy. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I'm so sorry you're going through this.", "I can't believe Sam is gone. You must be devastated. I just wanted to say that I'm here for you.", "I'm thinking of you. This is so unexpected and so sad."]
215324
Make sure your child understands that he or she is not to blame for the death and that the person who died is not coming back. Provide lots of affection and reassure your child often that he or she will continue to be loved and cared for. Encourage your child to talk about his or her emotions.
1107504
"I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example. Offer open-ended support. "If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I'm willing to help in any way."
1329179
I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
17968
['My heartfelt condolences. ... ', 'Your father always bragged about how wonderful you were. ... ', 'Your father was one of the nicest people I know and I know that he was a great dad too. ... ', 'I am truly sorry for your loss. ... ', "No matter wherever he is, he'll always be watching over you. ... ", "I was so sorry to hear about your father's passing."]
852689
['Let them grieve in their own way. ... ', 'Let them express a wide range of emotions. ... ', 'Give them some slack. ... ', 'Encourage them to have healthy outlets to help relieve the pain they feel. ... ', 'Let them remember and celebrate with others. ... ', 'Let them get help.']
644426
I am sorry on the sad demise of your grandmother. My deepest condolences on the death of your grandmother. In this sorrowful time, may the love of family and friends comfort you. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult loss.
865333
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. You're in my thoughts, and I hope you feel comforted in the days ahead. I wanted to let you know that you're on my mind and I'm here for you if you need anything. I'm so sorry about your father's death.
1203112
['“ My deepest sympathies go out to you, my friend. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. ... ', '“I heard the news, my friend. ... ', "“I was deeply saddened to hear about your brother's passing. ... ", "“I'm sorry for your loss. ... ", "“I'm so sorry to hear this sad news."]
128986
['I am so sorry. Your uncle was loved by many.', 'He was a wonderful man and a talented musician.', 'Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.', 'I have such fond memories of your aunt. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.', "When you're ready to talk, please feel free to call me."]
1421406
Say SOMETHING Acknowledge your friend's grief. Mention their loved one's name, and let your friend know that you're thinking of both of them. It could be as simple as a text that says, “Hey, I know today is one year since [name] died.
153670
["“I'm so sorry. ... ", "“Thank you so much for the way you're handling this.” ... ", '“Take as much time as you need.” ... ', '“Your grandmother was always so proud of you.” ... ', '“She always had so many nice things to say about you.”']
169893
["Even though I feel sorry for your loss today, I also remember your birthday is today. I pray your pain eases as you appreciate God's loving gift of life today. ... ", 'So sorry for your pain and grief. ... ', 'Sometimes people we love go ahead to heaven to prepare a nice apartment for us there.']