what to say to friend losing hair from chemo?
608531
Really try to get over any awkwardness you might feel about such jokes, and laugh along with them, even if it's shocked laughter. If you feel really awkward, just say, "ohhhh... you went there!" Don't leave them hanging.
764192
['You can say to a friend, "Sarah, you\'ve been my best friend since we were five years old. We\'ve been through so much together. ... ', "It's unlikely, but if you are asked this question by someone that you don't like or don't know well, try to be nice to them about it. Answer as sincerely as you can."]
1329179
I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
885626
Try hair regrowth treatment Some drugs encourage hair regrowth after chemotherapy, but results vary. Most hair regrowth drugs aim to treat other causes of hair loss rather than chemotherapy. Some research has suggested that minoxidil (Rogaine) might speed up hair regrowth or reduce hair loss during chemotherapy.
635027
['"It\'s so nice to see you again. Give your family my regards."', '"Hi! I haven\'t seen you in a while. ... ', '"Good morning! I wish I had more time to chat, but I have an appointment in fifteen minutes."', '"It\'s great seeing you. I hope you\'re doing well."', '"I\'m doing well! ... ', '"Wow!']
1114284
Be honest. Talk openly with your friend, and let them know that you're there for them. Focus on other aspects. Remind your friend that you love them for who they are beyond their physical appearance: how funny they are, how brave or smart they are, etc.
1285489
Give the person space to explain what they are going through. Let them tell you how they feel. Avoid rejecting the person's experiences and feelings. Try not to lessen how they feel.
580529
You may lose some of your hair when you first start treatment. With time, this usually corrects itself. If you are going to have surgery, tell your doctor or health care professional that you are taking this medicine.
912326
['Start by simply asking how he/she is.', "Explore what it's like for him/her to have a sick family member.", 'Ask the person what would be helpful to him/her.', 'Follow up; more than one conversation is likely not enough.', 'Say simple yet supportive things.', "The number one rule is don't try to fix it."]
519368
Someone (or a relative) is sick or terminally ill. Do say: "I'm very sorry to hear this. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers". Be sure to show sympathy by helping the person with their job.
151787
You'll be fine! Instead say: I'm so sorry to hear that. What a shock for you. I know that there have been a lot of improvements in breast cancer treatments. (Try to stay away from the word 'progress' because it is used in such a confusing way in cancer services – disease 'progressing,' for example.)
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["“Thank you for all the days you've made brighter just by being you. ... ", "“Thinking of the good life you've lived, the great times we've shared, and feeling so grateful for you.”", "“You've been such an important part of my life, and for that, I'll always be grateful.”"]
1373565
Keep it simple - "I'm so sorry for your loss." or "If there's anything you need like dinner/a ride/an errand done, please let me know." Stay away from stuff like "he's in a better place now" or "at least he's not in pain anymore" - those are little comfort to someone who is grieving.
1089745
['Do not burst into tears. Every woman told she has breast cancer believes it will kill her. ... ', 'Do not avoid talking about the subject. ... ', 'Do not invade. ... ', 'Do not send YOUR thoughts by post. ... ', 'Do not offer prayers. ... ', "Do not say 'Let me know what I can do' ... ", 'Do not stop sending out invites. ... ', 'Do not try to kid us how well we look.']
148707
['“Hope you get to feeling better soon!”', "“Looking forward to seeing you back at practice when you're ready.”", '“Wishing you well.”', '“Take extra good care!”', "“Here's to you—steadier, stronger and better every day.”", "“We hope you're taking it slow and easy right now.”", '“Take your sweet time getting well!”']
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['What can I do to help?', 'What do you need from me?', 'You are strong. I believe in you.', 'Do you want to meet up?', 'Would you like to talk about it?', 'I understand how you must be feeling. ... ', "I'm so sorry. ... ", 'How are you feeling?']
323186
You'll be fine! This is well meaning but prevents patients from being able to express their fears. Instead say: I'm so sorry to hear that. What a shock for you. I know that there have been a lot of improvements in breast cancer treatments.