what do you say when someone lost a child?
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['Offer sincere condolence. "I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example.', 'Offer open-ended support. "If there is anything I can do, please let me know. ... ', 'Offer silence. ... ', 'When the time is right, express what the deceased child meant to you.']
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“I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. If there's anything I can do to help you here at the office, don't hesitate to let me know.” “I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this difficult time.” “I lost my dad a few years ago.
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['Be empathetic. ... ', 'Be positive. ... ', 'Let them know that they are loved.', 'Reach out to them and offer your support.']
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For example, you could say something as simple as: “I heard that your father died.” By using the word “died” you'll show that you're more open to talk about how the grieving person really feels. Express your concern. For example: “I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you.”
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['#1: That stinks! I am so sorry that you have to go through this. ... ', "#2: I'm here for you. ... ", "#3: It's not your fault. ... ", '#4: Things will never be same, but the pain and sadness will eventually lessen. ... ', '#5: God still loves you and your family.']
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Ask the parents what happened: The parents may need to talk about the details. If they don't want to talk about it, don't pressure them. Acknowledge the child's life and refer to him or her by name. If the child was an infant, ask if the baby was named so that you can refer to him or her by name.
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["Show you care by sending a gift or making a charitable donation in the lost child's name.", 'Be there when the parents need you to be, but give space when they need to be alone with their grief.', "SAY THEIR CHILD'S NAME! ... ", 'Tell stories about their child.']
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["Even though I feel sorry for your loss today, I also remember your birthday is today. I pray your pain eases as you appreciate God's loving gift of life today. ... ", 'So sorry for your pain and grief. ... ', 'Sometimes people we love go ahead to heaven to prepare a nice apartment for us there.']
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Bible Verses About Grieving The Loss Of A Child There will be no more death' or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” ... But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”
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What you can say instead: “You have my deepest sympathy,” “I'm so saddened to hear about your loss,” “My deepest condolences,” or “My thoughts and prayers are with you.” Just let them know that you care about them and their grief instead of offering empty placations about losing the man they loved.
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['K bye.', 'Oh, you were still alive?', "Sorry, you've got the wrong person.", "Yes, I miss you. No, it doesn't mean I want you back.", "You'll know when I see you!", "I don't know. I haven't thought about it.", 'I missed you about as much as you missed me.', 'You give meaning to my life, so yeah.']
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["Thinking about you and [pet's name]. ... ", 'We can never keep them long enough! ... ', 'Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time.', 'I am so sorry for your loss. ... ', "[Pet's name] was such a great [dog/cat/etc.]. ... ", 'Losing such an important part of the family is never easy.']
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['“Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.”', '“Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”', '“I wish you healing and peace.”', '“I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”', '“We are so sorry for your loss.”', '“We are thinking of you during these difficult times.”']
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Even when a loved one is gone, there is a peace for the child of God. Paul said in Philippians 4:7 (KJV), “And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
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When talking about death, use simple, clear words. To break the news that someone has died, approach your child in a caring way. Use words that are simple and direct. For example, "I have some sad news to tell you. Grandma died today." Pause to give your child a moment to take in your words.
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If you want to talk about the baby, I am here to listen. If you have experienced a loss, you can say, “I remember having some of those same feelings you are feeling when I lost my baby. I know nothing I do or say can take away your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
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Method 1 Respond to in-person condolences with a genuine “thank you.” People understand that you'll be emotional or in pain. When they say “I'm sorry for your loss,” they just want you to know that they support you, and won't be expecting a longer conversation. A simple “thank you” works.