how do you know when you need to change your life?
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['You find your mind drifting off into better ways of being.', 'You romanticize the past to escape the present.', "Your actions don't align with your words.", "You sense you're settling.", 'You feel disenchanted with life.', 'Your relationships feel superficial.', 'You start to lie to yourself and others to avoid the truth.', 'You feel numb.']
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Change is a necessary part of life. Without change there would be no life at all. Our lives are actually fueled by change, though most of us want a certain amount of stability.
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['Write down exactly what you want for your life… your life vision… ... ', 'The first key is to get quiet. ... ', 'CLAIM that life today. ... ', "I'm here to tell you that you deserve better. ... ", 'You can decide to conform. ... ', 'LIVE BIG. ... ', 'First and foremost: Knowing who you are. ... ', "What I've learned is that's a great metaphor for life."]
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If there's one thing that's inevitable in life, it's change. Sometimes those changes are small, but every once in awhile they're major — think marriage, divorce, loss of a loved one, a new job, having children, going back to school, or buying a house.
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['Starting work. Starting work for the first time is one of the most exciting things in life...', 'Changing jobs. ... ', 'Changing address. ... ', 'Marriage and civil partnership. ... ', 'Getting separated or divorced. ... ', 'Arrival of children. ... ', 'Onset of serious illness or disability. ... ', 'Death of a pension scheme member.']
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There really is no time indication here. Deeply ingrained patterns can take months or years or sometimes an entire lifetime to change. On the other hand a 'life changing experience' (almost death experience or losing a loved one) can change your behaviour from one day to the next.
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[" You're gaining or losing weight. ... ", " You're apathetic. ... ", " You're jealous of other people. ... ", " You're experiencing unusual physical pain. ... ", " You're asking yourself deep, probing questions. ... ", " You're making rash decisions. ... ", " You feel like you're slowly losing your mind."]
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['You Are Alive And You Can. There is only one certainty in life and that is death. ... ', 'You Believe In Your Dreams. ... ', 'You Have Everything You Need. ... ', "You Don't Want To Regret This. ... ", 'You Need To Prove It To Yourself. ... ', 'Success Feels Great. ... ', 'It Could Change For The Better. ... ', 'This Is Meant To Happen.']
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It Takes About Eighteen Months to Adjust to a New Normal. Over the years I've noticed it takes me about eighteen months to adjust to a life change. Whether the change was positive or negative things still feel pretty new, or even raw, for the first year.
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['How will you know if it is the right decision if you never make it?', 'Your brain has too many tabs open.', 'Over thinking kills your happiness.', 'Stop over thinking. ... ', 'Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think about what could go right.']
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['Difficulty speaking up and prioritizing your own needs, wants, and feelings. ... ', "Saying “I'm sorry” and/or feeling guilty for everyday actions. ... ", 'Not "rocking the boat" ... ', 'Not feeling deserving of, or capable of, having “more” ... ', 'Difficulty making your own choices.']
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['Am I using my time wisely? ... ', 'Am I taking anything for granted? ... ', 'Am I employing a healthy perspective? ... ', 'Am I living true to myself? ... ', 'Am I waking up in the morning ready to take on the day? ... ', 'Am I thinking negative thoughts before I fall asleep?']
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['You pause, waffle, or deflect when asked, "What do you do?" ... ', 'You\'ve become a "yes" person. ... ', "You've lost interest in activities and hobbies outside of work. ... ", "You're not learning anymore."]
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['The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward. ... ', 'Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you. ... ', 'If you want to fly in the sky, you need to leave the earth.']
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['You are looking for better career prospects, professional growth and work opportunities.', 'You want a change in career direction.', 'You are looking for new challenges at work.', 'You were made redundant or the company closed down.', 'Your company was restructuring.']
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['Spend time outside. [00:37]', 'Perform some sort of exercise. [01:02]', 'A gallon of H2O hydration. [01:28]', 'Spend quality time with your pet. [02:32]', 'Take care of your skin. [04:50]', 'Eat healthy will change your life. [05:02]', 'Be appreciative of the good stuff in your life. [05:32]', 'Call someone that you love every day and let them you know that you love & appreciate them. [05:55]']
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['Live every day on a fresh new start. ... ', 'Be true to who you are. ... ', 'Quit complaining. ... ', 'Be proactive. ... ', "Rather than think “what if,” think “next time.” Don't think about the things you can't change. ... ", 'Focus on WHAT vs. ... ', 'Create your own opportunities. ... ', 'Live consciously each day.']