how do i know if someone is just using me?
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['The conversation is always about them. ... ', 'They always let you pick up the check. ... ', 'You always have to come to their rescue. ... ', 'They never say thank you. ... ', "They're always asking for favors. ... ", 'You start to resent them. ... ', 'Your emotional needs are never considered, let alone met.']
646627
A man who is using you won't go out of his way to see you if it's not incredibly convenient for him. Here are some examples: He ghosts your texts and often doesn't reply for hours or even days. When he does respond, it's at very odd hours or at late times, and usually involves desiring intimacy from you.
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['They check up on you 24/7. ... ', "There's always an issue if you want to do something without them. ... ", "They've begun to question every friendship you have. ... ", 'They stalk your social media. ... ', "There's an issue if you even mention someone else. ... ", 'They accuse you of cheating all the time — even if they say they\'re "joking."']
1039676
Just find out the username of the accounts, no need to check everything then and there. Once you have the username, now you create a secret account yourself and send requests and connect to his account if he happened to have it. Now you can just see if there is something happening on those secret accounts.
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['When you ask them a question or accuse them of being shady, they try to turn the attention back on you. ... ', 'They add loads of uneccessary details to their stories. ... ', 'They suddenly become VERY shifty around their phone/laptop. ... ', 'They get touchy when you ask questions.']
1036319
['The relationship is long over, but he still talks to her. ... ', "He hasn't removed her pictures from Social Media. ... ", 'He brings up her name in conversations. ... ', "You've caught him stalking her online. ... ", 'He sometimes calls you by her name. ... ', "You don't feel like you are in a new relationship. ... ", 'He still has her stuff.']
633903
["They Don't Seem As Interested In Your Life Anymore. ... ", "They Aren't Inviting You Out. ... ", "They're No Longer Opening Up To You. ... ", 'They Keep Making Excuses When You Ask To Hang Out. ... ', "They're Constantly Arguing & Complaining. ... ", '6.They Seem Quiet Whenever You Hang Out.']
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['She seems emotional but refuses to see you.', 'She agrees to hang out with you (or better yet, she suggests it herself)', 'She tells you (or someone you know) that she wishes things had turned out better between you.', "She messages you or calls you FIRST to see how you're doing."]
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["Signal One: He's Using Her to Forget You. ... ", 'Signal Two: Your Ex Decided to Date Someone Who Is the Total Opposite of You. ... ', 'Signal Three: Suddenly You Can Give Her What She Wants. ... ', 'Signal Four: Zero Percent Success Rate. ... ', 'Signal Five: If He Is Making Common Attraction and Relationship Blunders. ... ', "Signal Six: Suddenly, He's Insecure."]
893736
['How to get over a guy who used you.', "#1 Don't be the victim. It's really easy to start thinking, why me? ... ", '#2 You had what they wanted. ... ', "#3 Kindness isn't a weakness. ... ", '#4 What you experienced is true. ... ', "#5 Remind yourself you're lovable. ... ", '#6 Make distance. ... ', '#7 Delete his social media.']
476477
You can tell if he really loves you and misses you. When talking to him over the FaceTime, you can see his face and reactions, listen to his voice and tone carefully, how much he pays attention to you when talking. If he seldom calls you, only you call him all the time, that means he is no longer interested in you.
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['There not interested in your stuff.', "They don't reply texts as they were doing before.", 'They give excuses.', 'They avoid your company.', 'They lie.']
366365
['ONE THEY USE LESS TEXTING EMOJIS WITH YOU. [00:19]', 'Two THEY MINIMISE PHYSICAL CONTACT WITH YOU. [00:50]', 'THREE THEY AVOID MAKING & CANCEL PLANS WITH YOU. [01:16]', 'FOUR you find YOUR SELF Doing more WORK THAN USUAL TO KEEP THE TWO OF YOU FLOATING. [01:46]']
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['He starts inviting you to hang more than usual. ... ', "He's making long-term plans with you. ... ", "He's started touching you more when you're together. ... ", 'You feel sexual tension every time you touch.']
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["You're the only one making an effort. ... ", 'She ignores you. ... ', 'She has time for others but not you. ... ', "She's always coming up with excuses. ... ", 'She always makes plans without asking you. ... ', 'She only talks to you when she needs something. ... ', 'Conversations are kept short.']
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['He makes a point to check in with you before making plans. ... ', "He gets upset if he doesn't hear from you all day. ... ", "He assumes you're his de-facto plus one. ... ", 'He makes a point to take you to his favorite places. ... ', "He sits through Scandal because he knows it's your favorite. ... ", 'He packs an overnight bag. ... ', 'His friends Facebook you.']
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You can't. Tinder doesn't have read receipts or even show when a person was last active on the app. The only advice I can offer, if you want to determine if they're ignoring your message, is to check their distance.