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"&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Fantasy sex is a preoccupying obsession with sexual fantasy, rather than the reality of genuine sexual feelings, sexual behavior, and sexual relationships. It can prevent you from developing genuine loving feelings based on accepting others the way they really are.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Seductive sex focuses on charming, persuading or manipulating others into sexual contact. You treat your prospective partner as a &amp;amp;#34;conquest&amp;amp;#34; or a challenge to make yourself feel more powerful.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Anonymous sex is having sex with strangers, including one night stands you find on Tinder. Anonymous sex helps the addict avoid developing genuine loving feelings.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Paying for sex also inhibits genuine connection, because of the implied business arrangement. The person you pay is looking for financial gain, not a loving relationship.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;The other side of the paying-for-sex transaction is receiving money or goods for sex or using sex as a business. Sex becomes a commodity, rather than a personal experience, and the emotional connection diminishes.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Voyeuristic sex focuses on watching others engage in sexual activity. You get sexually aroused by looking at pornography\u00A0from:&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;ul&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;books and magazines&amp;lt;/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;the computer and films&amp;lt;/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;peep-shows&amp;lt;/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;secretly observing other people, like a peeping Tom&amp;lt;/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;li&amp;gt;going to sex clubs to watch in person&amp;lt;/li&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/ul&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Excessive &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;https://www.verywell.com/masturbation-myths-2610212&amp;quot; data-component=&amp;quot;link&amp;quot; data-source=&amp;quot;inlineLink&amp;quot; data-type=&amp;quot;internalLink&amp;quot; data-ordinal=&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;&amp;gt;masturbation&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;, even to the point of injury, is common for voyeurs. They engage in solitary activities, rather than connecting with another person, ensuring intimacy and love are not an option.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Exhibitionist\u00A0sex includes flashing &amp;amp;#34;forbidden&amp;amp;#34; body parts in public, sometimes while wearing clothes designed to expose. Other forms of exhibitionist sex include\u00A0posing for pornographic pictures and\u00A0having sex where others can see.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Exhibitionism can override genuine loving connections because the excitement comes from the reaction, not from the sexual contact with your partner.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Intrusive sex involves touching others without permission. It may involve abusing your position of power or authority, such as the role of priest, supervisor or teacher, to sexually exploit others.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Intrusive sex is inherently exploitative, making it impossible to form the basis for trust or love. Victims may experience feelings of loyalty towards the perpetrator.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;The giving or receiving of pain, also known as sadomasochism or S&amp;amp;amp;M, is a type of sexually &amp;lt;a data-inlink=&amp;quot;t5fQLbodCnRM97XC_qE0Mg&amp;amp;#61;&amp;amp;#61;&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;https://www.verywell.com/what-are-behavioral-addictions-22248&amp;quot; data-component=&amp;quot;link&amp;quot; data-source=&amp;quot;inlineLink&amp;quot; data-type=&amp;quot;internalLink&amp;quot; data-ordinal=&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;&amp;gt;addictive behavior&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt; in which the consenting participants associate pain with sexual pleasure.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;As with intrusive sex, victims may perceive their feelings towards their torturer as loving.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Rape and pedophilia\u00A0are types of exploitative sex. Because one person violates the human rights of the other, there is no possibility for genuine love or intimacy.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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