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"    This weekend the papers were awash with the news that the golden girl Cat Deeley and Patrick Kielty (old friends from their stint on Fame Academy together) had wed in a low-key ceremony with just a smattering of family and friends present to share their special day. And the best bit? We had no idea it was happening. Zilch. They&amp;#039;d kept it totally under the radar (practically impossible in celebs-ville). Now, I don&amp;#039;t know about anyone else, but the fact that it was a secret wedding made me swoon harder than anything else. Screw the doves that they (possibly) released when they uttered &amp;#039;I do&amp;#039; and who cares about the fact that they&amp;#039;re (possibly) holidaying in the swankiest, most ridiculously-romantic private island ever? The bit that had me sighing wistfully into my morning cappuccino was definitely the fact that these lovebirds are so incredibly loved-up and content that they don&amp;#039;t feel the need to fill everybody in about it. Nope, they just nipped off, did the deed and are going about their business just like before. In complete and utter happiness. SEXY UNDERWEAR YOU&amp;#039;LL WANT TO WEAR Is it just me or are over-the-top weddings, soppy PDAs and public declarations of &amp;quot;OMG we are like TOTALLY and UTTERLY IN LOVE GUYS, look at us being SOOO happy!&amp;quot; just a little bit pass\u00E9 nowadays? I mean c&amp;#039;mon, when was the last time a televised wedding or oh-so-public couple actually went the distance? Call me a cynic but aren&amp;#039;t PDA&amp;#039;s sometimes just a band-aid for a broken relationship? Who needs to profess their love that much? And it&amp;#039;s not just PatCat who feel this way. This weekend, A-lister Anne Hathaway married jewellery designer Adam Shulman in a hush-hush ceremony, hot on the heels of Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively who did the same thing last month. Even Carey Mulligan and Marcus Mumford got involved with a little low-key wedding action too. Call me crazy, but I genuinely think a PDA is the ultimate warning sign that all ain&amp;#039;t well in paradise. Think of some long-term, successful, happy super-cool couples. How about Beyonce and Jay-Z? Or Gwyneth and Chris? Both adorably loved-up and head-over-heels but notoriously private and definitely not fans of a PDA. SEE MORE CELEB SPLITS Now think of some toe-curling OTT pairings, like, say, Tom Cruise when he jumped on Oprah&amp;#039;s sofa to declare his love for now ex-wife Katie Holmes. We know how that ended... Or how about Heidi Klum and Seal publicly throwing a party to renew their wedding vows just about every year, including the one where they then broke up? Personally I think there&amp;#039;s something quite smug about that moment when you and a guy both realise how happy you are without rubbing it in other people&amp;#039;s face with a tongue sandwich. From a squeeze of your arm when you meet his mates for the first time to sending you a text that says thanks for being amazing last night, a bit of SDA action (Secret Display of Affection) is way more effective \u2013 and romantic. Let&amp;#039;s start the movement now, ladies.THE SEXY GOSLING GALLERY "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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