CREATE TABLE table_204_769 (id DECIMAL, "full name" TEXT, "nickname" TEXT, "gender" TEXT, "weight at birth" TEXT, "meaning" TEXT)

how many names were not given to girls ?
SELECT COUNT("full name") FROM table_204_769 WHERE "gender" <> 'girl'
SELECT COUNT("full name") FROM "table_204_769" WHERE "gender" <> 'girl'