Lifestyle
Bridging the Gap with Gifts of Hope
By Barbara Forster
Tue Nov 27, 2007, 12:28 PM EST
Going to the Salvation Army wasn’t the first choice for two area teenagers this summer. And attending Bridging the Gap, a program designed to help youngsters in trouble, didn’t sound like a good idea, either.
“I didn’t want to do it, but the judge said it was probation or this,” said 17-year-old Hector Martinez of Everett.
Brittany Baugh, 17, of Somerville, was in a similar situation. “My probation officer thought it would be good for me,” she said.
Bridging the Gap is a 12-week, life skills-based curriculum for court-referred and first-time offenders between the ages of 12 and 17. Kids from any geographic location within Middlesex County are eligible.
The initial goal is to prevent future criminal activity, but Bridging the Gap also wants kids to improve attendance and performance at school; develop a sense of responsibility and morality; improve self-esteem; form healthly decision-making skills; and strengthen communication and relationships with their families.
However, said Program Director Matt Dyer, how the goals are achieved depends on the students. “Our greatest strength is our ability to meet the needs of the individual students,” he said.
For example, counselors have helped kids get back into school (for some crimes, schools do not have to readmit) or gone to court as advocates.
The program covers practical aspects of daily life most of us assume everybody else knows. Everything from how to apply for jobs and then manage money once employed — getting a checkbook and how to use it — plus how to get along with family and friends. Brittany, who admitted she learned self-respect and how to respect others, too, described it as “getting streetwise.”
Discussions on various topics, including drug/alcohol issues, are also part of the curriculum. The kids “work up” to offering their own thoughts. “We start with straightforward questions and then work into opinions,” said Darlene Meehan, director of Youth Services. “By starting with group opinions, kids don’t feel singled out.”
After completing the program, offenses are dismissed. Although juvenile records are sealed, background checks for employment, for example, will show that a sealed record exists — information that could cause potential employers to think twice or not at all about a candidate. With Bridging the Gap, no charges exist to be sealed. “It’s a good opportunity for them, but at their age, they don’t always realize how good it is,” said Meehan.
But kids do more than sit and talk. Dyer arranges for field trips to various places such as ITT Tech and a local radio station for discussions about job opportunities, and tosses in a couple of fun things such as the Boston Duck Tour. “We’re not just picking up trash,” said Brittany.
Results, Results
“I’d never seen him so enthusiastic about a program before,” said Karen Martinez, Hector’s mother. “So many programs focus on the negatives, but this program builds up the strength of the child.”
“I wasn’t sure about it at first because the Salvation Army [building] looked weird, but when I started getting to know people, I felt better,” said Hector.
“It’s not like they pick on you,” added Brittany, who was on the verge of floundering. “I didn’t want to drop out [of school], but I didn’t want to go, either.”
Six months later, the teen, who is now on the Honor Roll, is more focused. “I feel good about myself and I want to go to college,” she said. “And if I can’t do that, then it will be technical school for auto mechanics.”
Hector is thinking about UMass and a major in marine biology.
The bottom line is to help teens, explained Dyer. “We try to catch them before they get into something that’s really big,” he said, adding that the program is capable of handling even more kids.
The capacity is 20, but so far only 10 are enrolled. “Our biggest problem is developing a steady flow of referrals,” said Dyer.
The tenure of court-appointed liaisons, child advocates and other referral sources is fluid. Dyer spends a lot of time developing and redeveloping relationships. So far, the program is treading water financially, but can always use assistance.
With the exception of money from the city of Cambridge for one teacher, private funding fuels the program. The Salvation Army provides lunch and/or dinner plus transportation for site visits, but students need to get to the Mass. Ave. facility on their own.
Demonstrable long-term effects of any program take time, but the message is getting through.
Both Brittany and Hector, who often stop in to visit, stress that the program works. For Hector, Bridging the Gap was a second chance to get back on track. “When you do something wrong, it doesn’t just mess you up; it’s other people, too, like your family, and that’s not right,” said Hector. “I learned that doing the wrong things might seem to get you what you want at first, but it doesn’t in the end.”
“It helps keep you out of trouble,” said Brittany. “I feel like a different person.”
Bridging the Gap Wish List
- Science Museum, Aquarium, Charles River Boat, Duck Tour passes
- Socks
- Back-to-school packs (binder, notebook, pens/pencils, calculator, markers)
- Discman
You can help. Please make checks payable to "The Salvation Army," with "Gifts of Hope" in the memo line. Any amount is accepted. Checks may be sent to The Salvation Army, c/o Gifts of Hope, P.O. Box 390647, Cambridge, MA 02139.
Cambridge: Carol Andrus, Joseph Shealy, Nancy Savioli in memory of Walter Milne, Jean Brisbane, Gloria Ringland, Paul Marshall, Myrna Jones, Karen Liu, and Gail Seidman.
Somerville: C. M. Niemira, Anonymous, and Carol Ann Alexander.
Total as of Nov. 23: $1,025