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A tornado went threw my house.
[ "Bob: A tornado went threw my house!\nJen: That must of been scary.\nBob: It took everything from my family.\nJen: Where are you staying right now?\n" ]
devastated
A tree branch broke off the tree in our backyard yesterday during the storm. It hit our roof and I am just lost for words.
[ "Bob: Yesterday during the storm, a tree branch fell on our roof and I am lost for words.\nJen: Oh no! I'm so sorry!\nBob: Yeah, it didn't look so bad to be honest but I think we have to reshingle our roof.\nJen: That is not fun. Hopefully it will not be too hard.\n" ]
devastated
A tree fell in my neighbors yard due to the all the rain recently. It's a massive tree and it disrupted a lot of things on their property. The removal service company came and got it out of there very quickly!
[ "Bob: We've had so much rain lately. The ground got saturated and knocked some trees over. They took out a lot of my neighbors yard\nJen: How scary! I hope your neighbors are ok.\nBob: Yeah they are fine, thank you. What's amazing is the tree removal service were on it immediately and got much of the debris up.\nJen: That is great, at least there was something positive!\n" ]
impressed
A truck almost ran me off the road the other day.
[ "Bob: A truck almost ran me off the road the other day, thank god the median was there. I never understood the expression life flashing before my eyes, but after that, I did.\nJen: Oh wow. I would have freaked out\nBob: Call me a baby because I started crying when I thought about how I could have been seriously hurt.\nJen: Well at least you are okay now.\n" ]
terrified
A truck cut me off from my exit on the highway.
[ "Bob: Ugh some guy in a truck cut me off twice on the interstate yesterday.\nJen: Really! That must have bee so frustrating for you.\nBob: Yea and I am so jealous that he drives around in it so recklessly!\nJen: jealous? Not sure why your jealous of somebody being inconsiderate.\n" ]
annoyed
A turtle that came to my friend's yard 2 days ago is now missing.
[ "Bob: A turtle that came to my friend's yard 2 days ago is now missing.\nJen: Oh, cool! What kind of turtle was it?\nBob: No idea but it looks pretty fat.\nJen: It sounds like it may have been a box turtle. They are good as pets!\n" ]
hopeful
A van has been parked out front of my house all night. There's a man in the front seat who keeps on looking towards my house. I have no idea what he's doing, but I'm pretty scared right about now.
[ "Bob: There a guy parked right in front of my house the past few hours. He keeps looking towards my house, I'm getting kind of freaked out.\nJen: That's creepy, do you think you're in trouble for something or is it someone random?\nBob: It seems like someone random. I have a bad feeling about it. I think i'm going to call the police.\nJen: I would do so just as a precaution, can never be too careful!\n" ]
terrified
A wasp was in my room this morning.
[ "Bob: A wasp was in my room when I woke up this moring.\nJen: Oh no! Did it attack you?\nBob: No. But I'm scared of them. I ran out my room and slammed the door shut. I may never sleep in there again.\nJen: You can always call an exterminator. They should be able to take care of it.\nBob: For one wasp?\n" ]
afraid
A while ago one of my friends died from an overdose. I knew that she was fun and adventurous, but I had no idea that she was into stuff that could cause her harm.
[ "Bob: A couple years ago, my friend died from an overdose. We were not super close but it was fun hanging out and I felt very shocked when I heard the news.\nJen: That is really sad. Many people I grew up with have passed from overdose. It's tragic.\nBob: I agree, I thought the war on drugs was meant to combat or maybe even make ground against this. I don't think it is working.\nJen: I don't believe it is either. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.\n" ]
sad
A while ago, I was riding in the car with my uncle at night to get some food. He had a few drinks earlier and we ended up getting pulled over.
[ "Bob: A while ago, I was riding in the car with my uncle at night to get some food. We ended up getting pulled over.\nJen: What happened? Did you uncle drove over the speed limit?\nBob: I think he was slightly over the limit but he had a few drinks earlier, so I felt a bit uncomfortable.\nJen: That is horrible. He could have even crashed the car by being drunk. How could you let him drive\n" ]
afraid
A while back, my friend was fating this horrible guy, so I started sending fake texts to him from a throwaway number hoping she would see them. I felt really bad about it in the long run.
[ "Bob: In order try to get a friend to break up with her jerk boyfriend, I sent him fake texts that looked like they were from another woman.\nJen: Oh wow! Did it work?\nBob: No, and it made her feel horrible because she thought that she wasn't enough for him. In the end, it wasn't worth it.\nJen: I bet you felt really bad. Did you end up telling her the truth?\nBob: No, I just stopped and let the whole thing fade away.\n" ]
guilty
A woman approached me and wanted to get together, but I told her I was married
[ "Bob: A situation happened to me earlier this week where my faith was tested.\nJen: What happened?\nBob: A woman approached me on the street and wanted to sleep with me, but I had to tell her I was married. I stayed true to my loving wife.\nJen: But did you even hesitate and think about it?\nBob: Not at all.\n" ]
faithful
A woman passed gas right in front of me at the mall. I was really grossed out.
[ "Bob: A woman passed gas right in front of me at the mall.\nJen: Jeez. Was it audible? Smellable?\nBob: It was loud and stank. I was really grossed out.\nJen: Whew, I would be too. God knows if she messed herself.\n" ]
disgusted
A woman that I work with just got promoted and also won a trip for two to New York that was an office contest. Some people get it all.
[ "Bob: A woman that I work with just got promoted and also won a trip for two to New York that was an office contest. Some people get it all.\nJen: Did you want to go to New York?\nBob: I really did! It is an all expense paid trip for 6 days. I haven't had a vacation in about 6 years. I don't usually win contests though.\nJen: Maybe you will win something else!\n" ]
jealous
A worker was supposed to come to look at my ac. I changed all my plans to wait for him. He didn't show up and didn't call!
[ "Bob: A worker was supposed to come to the house to fix my air conditioning. I changed my plans for him and just sat there. Then he never showed up and didn't even bother to call.\nJen: That's annoying, did you call him after he didn't turn up?\nBob: We didn't bother. At that point, we didn't want to use him anymore.\nJen: That's understandable. What a frustrating experience for you.\n" ]
furious
AT my sweet swixteen birthday party there was a boy I liked. He asked one of the other girls to be his girlfriend. I felt terrible.
[ "Bob: When I was at my sweet sixteen birthday party, my crush asked another girl out. I felt terrible.\nJen: Did you have a back up plan?\nBob: Well, we still had the party. I didn't like another guy. I just felt bad.\nJen: Well, now you that such is life, it makes plans for you.\n" ]
jealous
About 15 years ago, I was a passenger on a flight which had to make an emergency landing. It was the most frightening experience of my life
[ "Bob: It's certainly not something I would want to live through again. I try to fly as little as possible these days\nJen: Why? Did something bad happen to you?\nBob: Well yes, to the whole plane actually. There was trouble with one engine but fortunately we managed to land safely\nJen: Well, I'm glad no one was hurt at least. :)\nBob: Yeah, there was a lot of relief going round I can tell you!\n" ]
terrified
About 6 years ago a really bad storm rolled through my city and a tornado almost hit us. I was really scared
[ "Bob: About 6 years ago a really bad storm rolled through my city and a tornado almost hit us. I was really scared\nJen: how did it turn out\nBob: Everything panned out, there was some flooding later\nJen: thats cool that you made it through\nBob: Yeah, it was very scary though\n" ]
terrified
About a month ago i found an old family photo album that i hadn't seen in a while.
[ "Bob: About a month ago i found an old family photo album that i hadn't seen in a while\nJen: That's really nice. Did it make you recall any memories you had forgotten about?\nBob: It did actually. A ton. It made me miss a lot of them.\nJen: I'm glad you have something to remind you of them!\n" ]
nostalgic
About a month ago, I went and got my mail like I always do, and there was a weird looking envalope that looked like a check. I figured it was bogus and set it on the counter. My fiance got home and opened it and said it was not bogus, it was actually a settlement check for $500 from a company I worked for 5 years ago that did not comp overtime correctly!
[ "Bob: So I get bogus mail all the time including fake checks and all that jazz. Anyway, I thought one I got the other day was bogus too and left it on my counter.\nJen: Why would you always get fake checks? That would drive me crazy.\nBob: Well its like work at home scams, and they want you to cash the check and send back a money order and then the check bounces leaving them with money and you in a bad situation. It actually wasn't bogus. It was a $500 settlement check from a lawsuit against my employer from 5 years ago!\nJen: Well that was a surprise I bet.\n" ]
surprised
About a week ago, i bought myself a brand new Samsung Galaxy S9. The phone is amazing and has met all my expectations
[ "Bob: A week ago, i bought a brand new Samsung Galaxy S9 for myself. Phone is incredible and all my expectations about it was met\nJen: Awesome! So you'd recommend it if I were looking for a new phone?\nBob: Indeed. For $700, this phone is above expectations. Latest iPhone versions are becoming so overrated with inflated prices\nJen: I've never been a phone of Apple anyway. I had the first iPhone and wasn't impressed so I never tried again.\n" ]
excited
About a year ago I lost my grandmother to cancer. I was really close to her.
[ "Bob: About a year ago I lost my grandmother to cancer. I was really close to her.\nJen: I'm so sorry. I recently just lost both of my grandparents within a year. I know how you feel.\nBob: I'm sorry. It's really tough sometimes even thinking about it.\nJen: It really is. Getting older is not fun.\n" ]
devastated
About a year ago, I was about to run my first 50 mile race. I had broken my toe a few weeks prior and was very nervous that it wasn't going to hold up through the race.
[ "Bob: Last year I was about to run my first 50 mile race. I had broken my toes a few weeks before and wasn't sure I was going to make it.\nJen: Ouch, that's unfortunate. Hopefully it turned out okay though?\nBob: It did, thankfully I had listened to my doctor's recommendations and it healed up just enough. It was still a pretty nerve wracking start though.\nJen: I can imagine, talk about bad timing injuring your toes!\n" ]
apprehensive
About a year ago, my doctor asked me about an unusual mole on my shoulder. She got out this special light and said she didn't like the look of it. She sent me down to a dermatologist and I waited around for a couple hours. He took a biopsy and I had to wait a week for the results. It was a long wait.
[ "Bob: I had a cancer scare last year. My doctor found a strange mole. I had to wait a week for the biopsy to come back. It was a long wait!\nJen: I can't imagine what that must have felt like. What helped you get through it?\nBob: Xanax! Just kidding. I didn't have much help dealing with it because I didn't tell anyone.\nJen: At least you kept your sense of humor!\nBob: In retrospect! I was pretty freaked out. My family was mad at me for not telling them, but I didn't want them to worry.\n" ]
apprehensive
About four years ago, my apartment was robbed. I discovered the state of my apartment. Everything turn over, any object that had some value was taken. I was totaly destroyed.
[ "Bob: About four years ago, my apartment was robbed. I discovered the state of my apartment. Everything turn over, any object that had some value was taken. I was totaly destroyed.\nJen: Holy moly, that must've been a very depressing sight. Did the police end up finding the culprit?\nBob: The police were useless. They came once then I never heard from them again.\nJen: I do hope nothing of value was stolen. I would be frantic if someone stole my family heirlooms.\n" ]
devastated
About to get off work, I think I got a lot done so future me won't have to stress out.
[ "Bob: About to get off work, I think I got a lot done so future me won't have to stress out.\nJen: thats great its always good to plan ahead\nBob: I know. I'm usually a wing it kind of person, but this was a lot of work.\nJen: im the same way\n" ]
content
About to open a restaurant with my friend. I hope it goes well.
[ "Bob: About to open a restaurant with my friend. I hope it goes well.\nJen: Oh yeah? What is going to be your hallmark meal?\nBob: Probably the sushi and steak special.\nJen: Can't go wrong the sushi and steak special. A classic in Alaska.\n" ]
excited
About to take my driver's license test in a few days. Been practicing for a while now. I know I'm about to smash it
[ "Bob: About to take my driver's license test in a few days. Been practicing for a while now. I know I'm about to smash it\nJen: Good to hear you're confident! I'm sure you'll do well if you've been studying.\nBob: Yeah, been getting a lot of practice in behind the wheel. That way my adrenaline doesn't spike too high. Wish I could tell you how it goes, but that's alright\nJen: You don't have to tell me, I know you'll ace it! You sound well prepared.\n" ]
confident
About two month ago, i broke up with my partner of 2 years. I have never felt so sad about myself
[ "Bob: I broke up with my partner of 2 years about two month ago. I think loneliness is the worst that could happen to a human being\nJen: Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. The only thing that helps is time unfortunately.\nBob: Indeed. I think time is the only heal to emotional wounds\nJen: After some time passes though, you'll wonder why you were so sad.\n" ]
lonely
Afraid of my dog dying
[ "Bob: My dog is 6 years old. He's my little boy. I don't know what I would do if I lost him.\nJen: I feel the same about my dog. They really are like family members.\nBob: lol. I know right? What are we gonna do when we lose them?\nJen: I will just think they are happily watching down over us and try to go on one day at a time.\nBob: That's a good way to think. I love that.\n" ]
afraid
Afraid to drive my car to florida
[ "Bob: Going to Florida in less than a month\nJen: Florida is so nice. Are you going for work or pleasure?\nBob: Pleasure. I just hope my car makes the 9 hour drive. she has about 167k miles on her :/\nJen: Thats a lot of miles, but they make cars good these days.\nBob: Yeah.. I hope she does okay\n" ]
afraid
After 30 years, I have finally kicked the smoking habit. No more cigarettes for me.
[ "Bob: I recently stopped smoking after having done so for 30 years.\nJen: Wow! Congrats! I've heard that's very difficult to do.\nBob: It was hard the first few times but this time it was oddly very easy. I think i have finally quit for good.\nJen: Good for you. Do you feel any different health wise?\n" ]
proud
After 4 months of going on interviews. Today I finally got a job!
[ "Bob: I have been going on interviews for 4 months and today I finally got a job! I am so happy!\nJen: Congratulations. You finally did it. What is your occupation now?\nBob: I am going to be a teacher at a high school for kids who have dropped out and went back to finish.\nJen: That is a very noble that you have taken. I wish you successful career with full of joy\nBob: Thank you! I am very excited about it and glad I don't have to keep looking and looking and looking for a job!\n" ]
joyful
After 40k in credit card bills and a mortgage, I finally paid it all off.
[ "Bob: After 40k in credit card bills and a mortgage, I finally paid it all off\nJen: That's great. True freedom!\nBob: Absolutely, it feels like so much weight has been lifted off.\nJen: I will get there one day.\n" ]
content
After 8 years of dating, we're getting married.
[ "Bob: After 8 years of dating, we're getting married.\nJen: thats awesome news! congrats\nBob: Thank you! I'm really happy and hopeful for what's ahead of us.\nJen: is it going to be a big wedding or small?\n" ]
content
After ;long time played soccer, i could neither run nor kick the ball as i used to be
[ "Bob: After long time i played soccer. Am so bad at it now, i used to be good\nJen: Sometimes that happens when you take a break from something for too long, but with some practice you might be able to pick it back up again\nBob: hopefully, i was really really bad though infront of friends\nJen: if they are really your friends, they wont care if you were bad\n" ]
embarrassed
After Hurricane Irma hit my town, I walked through the empty streets and saw windows shattered, trees on the floor, and debris everywhere
[ "Bob: After Hurricane Irma hit my town, I walked through the empty streets and saw windows shattered, trees on the floor, and debris everywhere\nJen: Yeah were i live he had roads closed for weeks trying to fix everything\nBob: The hurricane hit you as well? It was awful.\nJen: Yeah i hope we dont get another one of those again\nBob: Me too. So far we haven't seen any hurricanes forming but we are in the midst of the season, so let's hope for the best!\n" ]
devastated
After I applied for a job and had an interview, I was hopeful that I would get an offer as I really wanted the job.
[ "Bob: I hope you get it? Was the interview good?\nJen: I didnt have an interview. did you?\nBob: Oh yes, I did. I hope I get the job. I really want it.\nJen: I hope you get it too. Goodluck\n" ]
hopeful
After I bought my house I felt happy about my life.
[ "Bob: After I bought my house I felt happy about my life.\nJen: It's a big step for anyone, and can really make you feel like you have something tangible you worked for.\nBob: That is exactly how it went. Do you own a home?\nJen: No, Where I live in Colorado , it would be the size of a match box for way too much money.\n" ]
content
After I moved out of state I lost contact with a very good friend. When they tried to reconnect I felt bad about not staying in touch.
[ "Bob: After I moved out of state I lost contact with a very good friend. When they tried to reconnect I felt bad about not staying in touch.\nJen: I understand how you feel\nBob: My guilt over this kept us apart for awhile. But because she is such a kind person she didn't give up and we are as close as we were.\nJen: I bet you will be able to mend the fences after this meeting\n" ]
ashamed
After I performed at school, so many girls are hitting me up, but I've got a girlfriend.
[ "Bob: After I performed at school, so many girls are hitting me up, but I've got a girlfriend.\nJen: OH man! I bet you were overwhelmed! did you stay faithful to her?\nBob: Of course, these girls don't know me like my girlfriend does.\nJen: Thats good! I would of been anxious to get out of that place if that happend.\n" ]
faithful
After a good gym sesh I'm usually rushing to the store for a protein shake so I don't miss the anabolic window. But now I come ready with a premade shake in my bag and get all them gains bruh
[ "Bob: I'm usually rushing to the store for a protein shake after a good pump at the gym, so I don't miss the infamous \"anabolic window\"...but these days I come with a premade drink and get to take my time still getting all them gains bruh\nJen: wow sound serious. you do this everyday?\nBob: I try. 6 days a week\nJen: thats a nice committment you got there. congrats\n" ]
prepared
After a long day at work yesterday, I was quite surprised by a visit by my daughter last night.
[ "Bob: I had a rough day at work yesterday but the day ended on a high note when I got home.\nJen: Glad to hear it. Did you get to relax at home?\nBob: I did. My daughter had come over to visit.\nJen: Oh that must have been nice. It always cheers me up when my kids visit from college.\n" ]
surprised
After a long week at work, it is so nice to just be relaxing at home tonight.
[ "Bob: Well its been a long week of work for me, no vacation like you. However, it is so very nice just to be relaxing at home this evening.\nJen: To have some rest after working so hard, it is very important.\nBob: Yes it is. I am just fine sitting at home this evening with a book.\nJen: It is a perfect leisure activity.\n" ]
content
After a long, grueling day at work, it is nice to just kick up the feet and watch some Netflix.
[ "Bob: Today was pretty stressful at work but now its time to unwind with some binge watching of Netflix.\nJen: I enjoy doing that after a hard day at work as well. I hope it relaxes you!\nBob: I just finished one series and about to start another....the mind and body are relaxed for sure now.\nJen: Now I am in the mood for Netflix! Enjoy the new series now that you are relaxed!\n" ]
content
After a week of long practice, I managed to win the golf tournament I was preparing for!
[ "Bob: After a week of long practice, I managed to win the golf tournament I was preparing for!\nJen: Congratulations, thats awesome\nBob: Hard work does pay off sometimes I suppose, do you play any sports?\nJen: I do play basketball sometimes\n" ]
joyful
After all the extra credit and hard work, I still failed the class.
[ "Bob: I checked my grade and was astonished, After everything I did, still a failing grade.\nJen: Really?\nBob: yes, I did all the extra credit, I did all the homework.\nJen: Ok\n" ]
annoyed
After all this physical therapy I still didnt have my foot strength.
[ "Bob: After all of this training, I still cant use my leg\nJen: Oh no my dear, what happened to your leg?\nBob: I broke it in a car wreck!\nJen: Oh wow. Was it a bad car wreck?\n" ]
disappointed
After been beaten by a mosquito last night, I am very scared of sleeping in my room
[ "Bob: After been beaten by a mosquito last night, I am very scared of sleeping in my room\nJen: I hate how itchy you get after being bitten.\nBob: Exactly, i'm glad someone understands how i feel\nJen: The bites take forever to go away, too!\n" ]
afraid
After being on this Earth for 32 years. I can honestly say that I'm finally happy with the person I've become. THrough jobs, divorce, kids ettc...I'm happy.
[ "Bob: I can honeslty say for the first time in my life, I'm 100% comfortable with who I am.\nJen: Its good to feel good about yourself\nBob: Oh yeah, I've never felt like it before\nJen: Its a very confident attitude\n" ]
content
After college I was having so much trouble finding a job. A friend of my dad who owns a business decided to give me a chance. I was so thankful for the opportunity from him.
[ "Bob: After graduating college I was having so much trouble finding a job. A friend of my dad's decided to give me a chance at his business. I was so thankful for the opportunity from him!\nJen: That is great! How did it turn out?\nBob: He says I'm one of his best employees. I'm hoping he gives me a raise soon though because it's gotten pretty stagnant.\nJen: I'm sure it won't be long until your hard work is rewarded\n" ]
grateful
After coming home from vacation, there was a horrible smell in the house. I realized I had forgotten to take the trash out before leaving and food had been rotting in my house
[ "Bob: I just got home from vacation and there was an awful stench in my house. Turns out I forgot to take the trash out before I left\nJen: Oh that's not fun! I hope it cleared when you took it out!\nBob: When I finally realized what it was, I took out the trash then lit every candle I have and opened the windows\nJen: It should have cleared it. I once left bread for two weeks when I went home for winter vacation.\n" ]
disgusted
After dating my girlfriend for 3 years she still won't accept my marriage proposal, I am so furious
[ "Bob: After dating my girlfriend for 3 years she still won't accept my marriage proposal, I am so angry with her\nJen: Ouch that's rough. Maybe she just isn't ready.\nBob: I think she is secretly cheating on me :(\nJen: Do you have any proof? If so you should bring it up to her.\nBob: She has been quite demanding lately, she wants to eat out in the most expensive resturants, she wants the most expensive cloths and jewelleris\n" ]
angry
After going from foster home to foster home, my buddy won a full ride scholarship to our state college.
[ "Bob: After going from foster home to foster home, my buddy won a full ride scholarship to our state college\nJen: Wow, that's incredible! Good for him.\nBob: Yea, I'm pretty happy for him. I'm sure he'll do a lot for society.\nJen: I think so too, he knows what it's like to be down and out and to work hard for his own success.\n" ]
impressed
After killing all those people I am now having second thoughts.
[ "Bob: I killed some people and fed them to pigs.\nJen: nice\nBob: But now I'm having second thoughts\nJen: a bit late for that\nBob: Yeah - but I'm worried about getting caught.\n" ]
guilty
After learning my husband of only 4 weeks was cheating on me I did the same to him. Not only was it before our marriage but I had found texts of him contacting her for sex after. To make it worse I slept with a close family friend of his.
[ "Bob: I was only married for 4 weeks when I learned my husband was having an affair and ongoing after the wedding. I got him back by sleeping with a close family friend. I felt guilty and ashamed because it was out of character.\nJen: Yeah that sounds really sad. I am sorry for what you went through.\nBob: Well I choose to stay and work it out, but I never told him. It has been 3 years.\nJen: Yeah maybe that was a good decision that you made.\nBob: Well I thought I would be feel better but because I am not the cheating kind, I still feel guilty.\n" ]
guilty
After living in my home for 19 years, I'm remodeling my kitchen! It's so much fun to pick everything out!
[ "Bob: I've lived in my house for 19 years and I'm finally remodeling my kitchen!\nJen: I can relate - we've been in our house 18 years and have yet to do anything. What style are you doing it in?\nBob: We are picking out stainless steel appliances, white cabinets and quartz countertops. It's so much fun to pick everything out!\nJen: I bet you are having a blast!!! How long do you think the renovations will take until you are done?\n" ]
excited
After many years of depression, it looks like I am beginning to get better.
[ "Bob: After many years of depression, it looks like I am beginning to get better.\nJen: That's wonderful news. I have also battled depression and am feeling better now. That is a real big deal.\nBob: Thanks, I am hopeful that I can now restart my life where I left off before my depression. I will be completing my BA in a few months.\nJen: Wow! congrats and keep it up. I know it helps me to stay really busy.\n" ]
hopeful
After my divorce I have no one.
[ "Bob: After my divorce I have no one.\nJen: You may have more than you know but sometimes meeting new people will give you the fresh start you need\nBob: Where do I go to meet them?\nJen: Neighbors, co-workers. Try and get involved in local sports or comunity groups. How about volunteering. That is a good way to meet people that are positive\n" ]
lonely
After my fiances PTO days are over that he likes to use almost two weeks in a row, and things get back to the usual grind, it stinks because I feel so alone in the house trying to control my child.
[ "Bob: After my fiances PTO days are over that he likes to use almost two weeks in a row, and things get back to the usual grind, it stinks because I feel so alone in the house trying to control my child.\nJen: Thats no good\nBob: Yeah its hard, and having no other adults around me for a while feels isolating\nJen: i know that feelingh\n" ]
lonely
After my grandma died, there was so much stuff of hers to go through. It was so fun to go through her old photo albums.
[ "Bob: After my grandma died, we had so much stuff of hers to sort through.\nJen: I can imagine. Was she a hoarder of some type?\nBob: It was actually kind of fun going through her old photo albums.\nJen: Did you see anything interesting?\n" ]
nostalgic
After my mom spent hours making dinner for us, I didn't really like it.
[ "Bob: After my mom spent hours making dinner for us, I didn't really like it.\nJen: Reminds me of when I was younger, but I always acted like I liked it to make her happy.\nBob: That's sweet of you. I've been doing that, but I think it's time to be honest.\nJen: Just make sure you drop the hint in a nice way!\n" ]
ashamed
After my recent break up with my partner of 2 years, i do not know whom to share my feelings with
[ "Bob: Loneliness is worst that can happen to a human being. After a break up with my partner, i am feeling desperate for emotional coddling\nJen: oh my gosh i completely agree on the loneliness thing\nBob: How do you cope with these feelings\nJen: i dont to be honest just try to get through the day but ive never been in a relationship so it gets bad\n" ]
lonely
After my recent break up, i feel so lonely and desperate. I can't stand it anymore
[ "Bob: It is so hard to cope with loneliness. Especially after my break up\nJen: I am sorry to heard that.How long were you together.\nBob: For about 3 years since college. Loneliness is the worst that could happen to a human being\nJen: I agree with you.I was lonely for a whole year.\n" ]
lonely
After my two best friends moved away, I felt pretty depressed and miss them a lot.
[ "Bob: Two of my best friends moved away recently not far apart from one another. Left me feeling a bit empty.\nJen: Dang, that's rough. Like a double-dose of sadness. My girlfriend and I are long distance, so I know how that goes. Is there any way you can still keep in touch with them?\nBob: Oh yeah, knowing that they left for positive reasons and having social media to keep in contact helps a lot.\nJen: Yeah, she and I don't use social media, but I can imagine that'd be really helpful in your case. Well, I'm glad you at least have that. And maybe it will open up the possibility for you to meet new people, too.\nBob: How come you guys don't use social media? I guess I kind of get it, but I feel in your case it could be a huge positive!\nJen: Well, we don't like unnecessary attention, and we don't like talking about ourselves. We just like skyping between each other, and that's it. And talking on the phone, of course.\nBob: Well that's good. Skype is actually even better than having to deal with all the extra nastiness of social media.\n" ]
lonely
After one of the longest days of work i had i was so happy that i didn't have to work for 2 weeks after. I am so happy with myself.
[ "Bob: I had the longest day of work in my life.\nJen: Oh no.. why what happened?\nBob: Well it's not a bad thing. I was up for 48 hours and i get 2 weeks of paid days off now though.\nJen: Thats awesome! I am tired too I had to be up early today.\n" ]
content
After saving for months, finally i am able to buy a new smartphone.
[ "Bob: After saving for several month and cutting on spending, I have now saved enough to buy an iPhone X without any debt or credit\nJen: Good, credit and debt are bad things.\nBob: Indeed. I do not want to waste my money on paying interest. It feels like paying for nothing in return\nJen: What you are saying is true. Me too, I hate paying fpr interests.\n" ]
proud
After spending so much on my brother's tuition fees overseas, he still ended up becoming a musician without popularity :(
[ "Bob: After spending so much on my brother's tuition fees overseas, he still ended up becoming a musician without popularity\nJen: Oh no, that is too bad. I am sorry for your unneeded expenditures.\nBob: I just take it that I did something for God, I hope he rewards me\nJen: That is a good attitude to have. I am proud of your maturity.\n" ]
disappointed
After taking my test, completing the application and getting letters of recommendation, I am ready to submit my law school application for the fall.
[ "Bob: I have been approved for law school after a long arduous process.\nJen: That is outstanding! I bet you are excited!\nBob: I am. It took several weeks to get everything together for the application but I am ready to start school now.\nJen: That is great news and a lot to be proud of!\n" ]
prepared
After the first team meeting under new management I felt very sure that i can depend on my team
[ "Bob: After the first team meeting under new management I felt very sure that i can depend on my team\nJen: That's great. Sometimes co-workers can be hit or miss. When you get good ones, it's awesome.\nBob: It actually really helps to do team building exercises and group outings\nJen: Is that something your work arranges?\n" ]
trusting
After the house fire we had last year I took me and my family a long time to get back to normal, it was a very trying time
[ "Bob: We had a house fire last year that destroyed everything , it was very tough on my family\nJen: I am so sorry to hear that, it must have been heartbreaking. How did your family cope?\nBob: My family was strong through it all but my kids lost all their favorite possessions, but no one was hurt and thats all that really matters\nJen: Well that's good to hear. Possessions can be replaced but your family is all that really matters in the end!\n" ]
devastated
After trying to lose weight for years, I finally got to goal weight.
[ "Bob: After trying to lose weight for years, I finally got to goal weight\nJen: Woo hoo! Thats awesome. Losing weight can be so hard!\nBob: It is. Stopped doing those fad diets and just went slow and steady.\nJen: Thats the way to do it! keto has helped me a lot. Yes a lifestyle change versus a diet.\n" ]
proud
After weeks of studying im ready for my math test
[ "Bob: After weeks of studying im ready for my math test\nJen: I hope you do well on it.\nBob: i think im prepared enough\nJen: Give it all of your best.\n" ]
confident
After working at my job for over 2 decades, they're closing down.
[ "Bob: After working at my job for over 2 decades, they're closing down.\nJen: That's too bad. Do you have a new job lined up?\nBob: Not yet. I'm just too sad.\nJen: I hope you find one soon. If you don't, you are more than welcome to come work in my sweatshop in Siberia.\n" ]
devastated
Aliens landed in my back yard
[ "Bob: Something weird just happened\nJen: What happened?\nBob: I was sitting here playing games and heard a loud crash in my backyard. I went out to look and it was the aliens!!! Did not expect that!\nJen: Did you take a photo of them?\nBob: No not yet. He's sitting here playing Battlefield with me. He's pretty good!\n" ]
surprised
All my friends are getting married and I don't even have a partner. I wish I was like them
[ "Bob: All my friends are getting married and I don't even have a partner\nJen: A lot of marriages also end in divorce, when they go into it too soon.\nBob: That's true, but they've all been high school sweethearts. So it's unlikely. I wish I found someone back then\nJen: You'll find someone. You sound like a good person.\n" ]
jealous
All my friends got married. I have no one to hang out with now.
[ "Bob: All my friends got married. I have no one to hang out with now.\nJen: Oh no! That's a tough change, but I suppose you'll have to try to join clubs and make new ones!\nBob: Yes but I don't know where to find new friends.\nJen: It's harder as an adult, but you can make some by joining some adult clubs that focus on sports or recreation. Or, if you have a neighborhood club, joining that!\n" ]
lonely
All my friends got to go on vacation, but I'm stuck here doing work because I have a tight job deadline. It really gets me down
[ "Bob: All my friends got to go on vacation, but I'm stuck here doing work because I have a tight job deadline\nJen: Thats a bummer! I hope you guys can plan something together once the deadline is over!\nBob: Maybe, but I'm not sure when another opportunity like this will come. It really gets me down\nJen: I know :/ ...just make sure you do something fun when you have a chance!\n" ]
lonely
All my friends have moved out of state after college and I'm the only one left. I miss them and am trying to decide if it's worth it to move.
[ "Bob: All of my friends moved out of state after college, so I'm really the only one left\nJen: That can be sad, but luckily you can plan to visit them in the future.\nBob: I do! But, for now, I do miss them and it makes me feel sad that they aren't around in person. Social media does help, though\nJen: Yes, using social media really helps us connect with friends and family so much better.\n" ]
lonely
All my friends signed up for horse back riding lessons but I had never been before. I wasn't sure I wanted to go with them but they convinced me to sign up and go even though I was very scared!
[ "Bob: All my friends signed up for horse back riding lessons but I'd never been before and was scared. They convinced me to sign up and take them!\nJen: It does sound like fun, though. Did you have a good time?\nBob: I wouldn't say it was a good time but I'm glad I tried it!\nJen: Are you ever going to do it again or are you done? I went when I was a child.\n" ]
apprehensive
All my friends went away to colleges. I am the only one that is still here. It is very different.
[ "Bob: All my friends have went away to college.\nJen: I'm in college, so i'll be your friend.\nBob: I am the only one still here. It is very different.\nJen: I wish I could be with you and not in school\n" ]
lonely
All my money in my bank got stolen due to fraud and I am so mad...
[ "Bob: All my money in my bank got stolen due to fraud and I am so mad...\nJen: That's terrible. Will you be able to get it back?\nBob: I hope so. I am so furious that it's taking so long though\nJen: Well at least you will get it back though.\n" ]
furious
All my neighbors constantly want to get together to gossip and talk bad about the people who live across the street. I'm sick of it!
[ "Bob: Lately, my neighbors want to sit around and gossip about the family across the street. They love to talk bad about them even though it's clear this family is struggling. I'm sick of it\nJen: I am sure you are, that sounds bad\nBob: It's awful! How are people okay with being so cruel?\nJen: There are just bad people out there\n" ]
angry
All of kids are going to go to college. I just know it!
[ "Bob: My kids are only 4 and 5 now but ther are so smart!\nJen: that's great! I bet you are very proud of them!\nBob: I am. I know they will all want to go to college. I hope Im not jinxing it lol\nJen: you're not! :) I'm sure they will go to college and end up being very successfull\nBob: Cool!\n" ]
confident
All of my friends are away for the summer so I have no one to spend time with right now. It's quite upsetting.
[ "Bob: All of my friends are taking summer vacations. I've stayed home and have nothing to do because nobody I know is around.\nJen: why arent you taking a vacation with them?\nBob: I didn't have money or time to plan anything.\nJen: perhaps you could invite someone over to your place and watch a cool movie with them over a pizza?\n" ]
lonely
All of my friends are married now. I am the only single one
[ "Bob: All of my friends are married now\nJen: Are you married too?\nBob: Nope. I am the only single one\nJen: Well you're the smart one, make sure you wait for the right person before you get married!\nBob: Maybe I am the smart one\n" ]
sad
All of my friends are married. I can't even get a decent boyfriend.
[ "Bob: I am still single and all of my friends are married or engaged.\nJen: Being single isn't all that bad. Are you looking for someone?\nBob: I am. It never goes past the first date though. I attract weirdos lol\nJen: Better to be single than be with weirdos.\nBob: Or maybe I'm destined to marry one of them.\n" ]
jealous
All of my friends aren't speaking to me and I don't know why.
[ "Bob: I don't know why I did but my friends aren't speaking to me and It feels very isolating.\nJen: have you asked them?\nBob: They ignored me when I did.\nJen: they seem like not very nice people! im sorry\n" ]
lonely
All of my friends have lost weight except for me. I used to be the skinny one.
[ "Bob: I used to be the skinny one in my friend group.\nJen: What happened?\nBob: They lost weight and I gained some lol\nJen: You can lose weight too.\nBob: If I could I wouldnt be having this conversation\nJen: Have you tried?\nBob: Yes but I am failing miserably\n" ]
jealous
All of my friends have nicer cars than I do. I think its because they are married. I want new friends
[ "Bob: I am a bit envious of my friends\nJen: How come?\nBob: They have nicer homes and cars than I do. Plus they are all married. I work just as hard and I have nothing\nJen: Everyone blooms on their own time, you'll get there, I promise.\nBob: My mom said that too lol\n" ]
jealous
All of my friends have these great jobs and travel so often, it isn't fair.
[ "Bob: All of my friends have these great jobs and they get to travel to awesome places so often. It's not fair, having to watch them jetset and have a blast while I'm stuck working all the time.\nJen: I get that, I am not sure how some of these people can afford the places they go!\nBob: It's ridiculous, everyone has to be so showy.\nJen: Yeah, that is not me at all, I barely post anything to people online\n" ]
jealous
All of my online packages finally were delivered.
[ "Bob: I came home to find all of my online shopping at my front door.\nJen: Were you excited or annoyed that the driver left them there?\nBob: Very happy1\nJen: I know the feeling when you get the items you ordered. I think the anticipation os more exciting then actually having them.\n" ]
excited
All of the good shows are ending. It really ruins tv for me.
[ "Bob: Every good show on tv is ending or has already ended.\nJen: What shows are you thinking of specifically?\nBob: Game of thrones is the top one. I want it to last forever\nJen: I didn't realize it was ending? You must be disappointed.\nBob: I am. It better end well because there wasnt even a season this year.\n" ]
sad
All of the people at my office have decided to leave all at once. I'm one of the only few that are staying.
[ "Bob: All of the people at my office have decided to quit all at once.\nJen: Oh no! Did you quit too?\nBob: No, I'm staying put, they've been with me through a lot and have really helped me out.\nJen: Well that's very loyal of you. I'm sure your boss will appreciate it. Maybe you'll get a promotion!\n" ]
faithful
All packed and ready to go
[ "Bob: Got my suitcase packed. So ready to go!\nJen: How exciting! Do you know what your destination will be?\nBob: Yep! Going to panama city in florida. Taking a week off work!\nJen: Nice! It will be a good time to relax and enjoy the beach and nightlife!\nBob: Exactly! I can't wait!!! I hope you have a wonderful day :D\n" ]
prepared
All the family members of my house left to visit grandparents. No one is home with me.
[ "Bob: All the family members of my house left to visit grandma. No one is home with me.\nJen: Why didn't you go\nBob: I had work and couldn't get the time off. Now it's just me and the four walls.\nJen: Or it could be you and a dope house party\nBob: Ah now you are giving me ideas. Thank you.\nJen: Or it could be you and a dope house party\nBob: Great idea but I don't want anything bad to happen.\n" ]
lonely
All the lights in my neighborhood has gone out except my home. People are looking at my home weird now.
[ "Bob: All the lights in my neighborhood has gone out except my home. People are looking at my home weird now.\nJen: Wow that's a strange thing. Any idea why that happened?\nBob: I have no idea. Somehow we lucked out, and now the neighbors are expecting stuff from us now.\nJen: Haha must think you guys are the luckiest on the block.\n" ]
afraid
All the rain storms that have been blowing through lately has saturated my garden which I've been working on all summer. This is a big month for pulling veggies so I'm at a a loss.
[ "Bob: So it's been raining a lot lately after being relatively dry. I wanted it at first but now its destroying my garden.\nJen: That's awesome rain is good\nBob: Rain would be good at first, but like I said it's oversaturated my crops and mold and mildew has set in.\nJen: oh no. so what do you do in such instance?\nBob: I have to just salvage what I can and move on to the next season.\n" ]
angry
All these days I was struggled commuting by public transport. Recently, my spouse gifted me a motor bike. Now I feel peaceful and relaxed while travelling.
[ "Bob: I struggled to use public transport to commute to office.\nJen: What was it that gave you problems?\nBob: While commuting in public transport I was unable to keep punctuality. But now I'm on time to office since my husband gifted me a motor bike.\nJen: That was generous of him. But continue to work on your punctuality.\n" ]
content
Almost every night, something keeps dumping over my big trash can outdoors. I keep watching for animals but the way its propped up on a board, I don't see how an animal can do it.
[ "Bob: Almost every night, something keeps dumping over my big trash can outdoors. I keep watching for animals but the way its propped up on a board, I don't see how an animal can do it.\nJen: I HATE when that happens. In my case it was a dog, I caught him on camera! Maybe you should invest in a security cam?\nBob: I was thinking of that because having to clean up the mess every time is ridiculous! I've already tried repellents but only natural ones since I don't like spraying chemicals. I will have to price out some cameras.\nJen: I hear if you sprinkle red pepper all over your trash area it can help ward off some animals.\n" ]
annoyed