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t3_1hxu8s | relationships | I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting | Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try.
Backstory:
When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ... | I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him? |
t3_33lz18 | loseit | SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. | 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219
I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ... | Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors. |
t3_38a85h | relationships | Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? | What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide?
I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin... | My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues? |
t3_2as12n | personalfinance | Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? | I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t... | $14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two? |
t3_2bzi1g | relationships | My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) | Throwaway
I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer!
She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h... | GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do? |
t3_552pxf | relationships | Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? | I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com... | I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy. |
t3_fss6j | relationships | Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? | The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall... | Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her. |
t3_3mcrjk | relationships | I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) | Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec... | Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior. |
t3_38mtrj | relationships | Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) | So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin... | I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college? |
t3_4gbnkb | relationships | Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive | My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible.
Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week.
I'm asking for advice because I ... | how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him? |
t3_1e42z5 | offmychest | I'm just really tired right now... | I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point.
I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough... | I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all. |
t3_12n77s | relationship_advice | How to deal with questioning everything? | 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months.
My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term.
Their... | Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something |
t3_29gdvm | relationships | Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. | So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these past few months. I recently started a new job, and don't get to see my bf as often as I would like to anymore. And on top of that I've found myself attracted ... | I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings? |
t3_2pzfya | relationships | Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to | Hello fellow redditors,
we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :)
She is sitting here with me and we will both provide our perspectives.
We are enrolled in a similar business administration program, but at different universities and I'm one year ahead. She is struggling right now with... | My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post. |
t3_q3sop | dating_advice | I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. | I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit and left as early friends.
Then, I entered college (the same where she studies) and we started to connect faster; we have a lot in common, we're both... | I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed? |
t3_506j75 | relationships | I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. | I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would have stayed there longer just to be with her if I could have.
I met with her again a few months later In london. We spent another 3 days t... | Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel. |
t3_4q1ipr | dogs | [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup | I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old maltese mix. The four of them get along just fine, Rome and the Frenchie are best best best best frie... | HOW do I introduce new people? HOW do I introduce new dogs? WHAT do I do about 4th of July?? |
t3_3uf4g1 | relationships | I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do? | I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still talk quite a bit. She doesn't really take anything that seriously; she's always making a joke.
It was a fairly normal ... | Saw a friend had self-harm scars and want to know what I can do to help, or at least make her feel more comfortable. |
t3_2b7zgh | legaladvice | [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them | I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here.
So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was verbally and sexually abusive and often threatened me so I would send explicit photos, which I foolishly did.
Ever s... | dated a guy for two years, crazy destructive ex still has pictures of me and I'm not legal. What can I do? |
t3_16h35a | relationships | My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response. | I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question.
We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically to see each other and meet up in hotels or my house, sexting etc. I asked him several times if he is single, lives alone before any 'bene... | turns out my ex-fwb was married, lied to me about it, I found out, do I tell him I know? |
t3_gp1ty | AskReddit | Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that? | *First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.*
For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reaction to depression, I did get pretty angry for awhile, and lashed out at people close to me. I'll call that my "batshit crazy" perio... | Was depressed. Got crazy angry. Messed up life. Fixing life. Would like to hear from others how they fixed their life after possibly messing it up. |
t3_4c2yj8 | legaladvice | Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington] | I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera.
When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she decided he would be the right fit for many reasons. He ended up harassing her by constantly calling her work/showing up at her house. My mom ... | My mom hid me from my dad by falsifying DNA test when I was born. I want to meet him now (19 years later) but am lost of what I should do in legal/moral terms? |
t3_2l3yy4 | relationships | I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing. | So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clicked. We exchanged numbers and continued talking.
Fast forward a weekend and I actually start texting her (during orientation week we were i... | Been seeing/talking to girl for more than 3 months. Have taken her out twice and have lunch weekly. How do I ask her to get official/serious? |
t3_46d53t | relationships | I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family. | So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are divorced), even though the bf was rarely around--we had a LDR where he went to college 5 hours away on a sports scholarship.
Last sum... | made the mistake of breaking up, got back together, bf's Dad and Stepmom are completely stonewalling me. |
t3_4q289h | relationships | I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now... | I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problems with mental illness). But she had been relentlessly trying to contact me after I cut off contact without giving her a reason.
So today I emailed her detailin... | Confronted borderline mother, now feel guilty. Would like to hear others' stories of similar confrontations with borderline people. |
t3_3peoig | relationships | [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed. | My previous post can be seen here:
We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I understand is the relationship being somewhat abusive in nature. We met again on Friday and I thoroughly enjoyed the encounter of ours. I'... | The aforementioned "Alberta guy" from the last post is now the out of the picture. I feel like I connect with her on a more emotional level since our second meeting so I was wondering what I should do from here. |
t3_1y50rt | relationships | I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly. | I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything long term, but gradually I have started to appreciate every little thing about her. I have started to picture us together in the future, travelling together, starting a family.
The pr... | In a relationship with a wonderful girl but afraid to commit cause of my lack of dating experience. And the fact that she is not very good looking. |
t3_2brbyp | relationships | How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend | My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out with friends or going out and they have randomly said yes a few times. What is the best way for me to convince them for me to go? I'm... | How can I convince my strict parents to let me take a trip with my best friend? My parents have known my best friend for over 10 years. |
t3_2i1pb6 | relationships | My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level. | We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are and it's good so far.
One small hiccup: our presence on social media. By nature I'm a pretty private person and keep a... | GF's comments on IG are a bit too much for my personal comfort. How do I tell her to be mindful? |
t3_2vx54g | relationships | Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today? | He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends.
He hasn't texted me a lot recently. I have to text him first or he won't text me all day. This has been going on for a week now.
Recently I've stop... | LDR boyfriend has been texting less and less, now waiting until late evening to initiate contact. Do I have any right to be upset for not hearing from him on today of all days? |
t3_13f1ol | relationship_advice | [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question? | We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything serious. We went out on brunch and other stuff afterwards and sex just happened along the way. i have been going out on dates... | 7 months since we first dated, never defined what we are. he did stop seeing someone in March, that's all i know about his past ;) |
t3_2jceac | relationships | Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go. | So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we met. I worked through a terrible depression which has been persistent for the past few years. I isolated myself so now I a... | If I break up with my boyfriend I will be homeless. Should I pretend like everything is okay until I can leave? |
t3_yxymu | running | Blood blisters and weird sized feet | Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal blisters on the big toe and underneath. I'm not sure if I should leave them as... | blood blisters on my 2 different sized feet. What can I do to combat this? Am I doomed to spend ridiculous money on shoes and orthotics? |
t3_3cp277 | tifu | TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower | So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I didn't know what he was talking about. This is about what happened next:
... | i left my lube in the shower for a couple days and my roommate mistook it for hair conditioner. To this day he doesn't know. |
t3_2b77t2 | relationships | My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable. | "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past decade (despite living together and going to the same school) have we even spoken to each other without it turning violent, or at least becoming a sc... | I want my mom to stop tricking me and my sister, who hate each other, into meeting in the hope that we will suddenly get along after two decades. |
t3_12ax1j | dating_advice | Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17) | So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we got on really well.
The only problem was she then started talking to her friend about h... | A girl who I only know a little has said yes to seeing a film with me, which we both really want to see, and suggested we have coffee before, is it a date, or just as friends? |
t3_242sbp | relationships | F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way. | The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through everything, I always admitted when I was wrong and we seemed so good at fixing problems. I couldn't make him happy. He was depressed, but in a way that he hid from me. I didn't mind when he wa... | He loved me, then realized he didn't. Then he told me he could love me, and as soon as he saw me he told me he couldn't. |
t3_4sx055 | relationships | Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? | Hi all!
Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past few months!
I [19f] have started a new summer job and will be transferring to a university... | I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle? |
t3_4bvotl | relationships | I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up. | I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just par for the course. This date was different. We always had something to talk about, and more over we were on the same page. We'd e... | Met an amazing girl. Had an amazing connection. Problem is she looks better with clothes on than off. I'm in conflict about how to proceed. |
t3_53uht0 | needadvice | Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy! | My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high school, has straight A's and is a professional artist. She will have her pick at whateve... | I have an adopted 18 year old sister without social skills and I need advice on how to help her attain social skills for college. |
t3_2n1rcv | relationships | I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him | We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a lot of time with John, and it's not because I'm interested in John romantically or anything. I've become John'... | Hang out with new male friend who needs my help very often, don't want boyfriend getting the wrong idea, but can't tell him why I'm gone |
t3_o1mey | AskReddit | Reddit, what makes you insanely mad? | Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a short film. They recently asked me to edit their work. I am okay with this, do ... | Guy gets me to do job for him, tells me that he never wanted me to do it in the first place, hours of work lost. |
t3_493u87 | relationships | Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight | My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems with (although I am insecure) She just messaged me telling me that he's sleeping at her house tonight in the same room.
This is my first real relationship but she's als... | gf sleeping in the same room with her friend who loves her, feel I'm overreacting by being upset/angry about it |
t3_3x4k80 | personalfinance | Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off? | I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane.
This school would be an investment for my side business in woodworking.
My question though is that I have a full-time job in healthcare. I've talked to ... | I want to go to school for a 6 month program out of area as an investment for my business and self. |
t3_cp6ig | AskReddit | What are some good motorcycles for a beginner? | Hey guys,
I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV.
That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the road. Which leads me to the pickle I'm in - I don't really know very much about motor... | new biker in SF bay-area needs advice on what kinds of standard/cruiser motorcycles are good for around-the-town driving |
t3_2076bt | relationships | I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again. | So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her at all over the Christmas period and I sort of stopped fancying her. Was thinking of calling it off but thought it'd be a bit harsh given the time and didn't want it to be awkward for ... | Was seeing a girl a few months ago, left it when I stopped fancying her but saw her recently and I think I still do. How do I play it? |
t3_gfp7y | AskReddit | Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché | This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in turn, causing you not to give a shit about it.
My predicament is as follows.
... | I used to like my job, now not so much. Need help to stay motivated and actually do work so i don't get fired for being shit. |
t3_18xe9f | relationships | Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her? | My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her. He told me that she's been hiding some things that have happened in the past four months (he wouldn't give me details) and that he was really worried about me get... | Friend knows something about my girlfriend and he's worried it will cause trouble between my girlfriend and I. Should I bring this up with her and if so, how? |
t3_4qazoz | relationships | My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her | Hello r/relationships,
I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am from city A where I live but I work all week in city B. She is also from city B, and that's why have a common ground. (the distances ... | Girlfriend is about to get a job in a different city and I am thinking to follow her. Opinions? |
t3_1pcley | personalfinance | Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids? | My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans together will come to around $1,780/month, once I am out of deferment (I just finished school a couple months ago).
My income is $100... | Wife staying home for the next 6-8 years, should I reduce our student loan repayments for that period to give us more breathing room? |
t3_2bzh12 | relationships | How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive? | (Throwaway account)
My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship transition). He is very, very attractive. I say this not only because I love him and of course I would think that, but ... | Boyfriend doesn't think of himself as very attractive - how do I get him to see himself the way I see him? |
t3_1ji4ql | relationships | My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it? | So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great.
However, she always goes through my phone while I am asleep at her house. It started before we were even official, and she woke me up at 5 in the morning crying about ... | Girlfriend constantly goes through my phone while I'm asleep, makes wild assumptions that I'm cheating on her, and starts fights over things that aren't there. Is it time to drop this relationship? |
t3_2n825b | relationships | I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F] | Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time.
This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I have a crush on appeared in my life 6 months ago. I met her or a classical concert I went with some of my fri... | Been rejected countless times, Really like this girl, Afraid of expressing my feelings, don't know how to do it. (English isn't my main language so I'm sorry for any grammatical errors ) |
t3_hjftj | AskReddit | I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do? | I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got an insurance check for around $20,000.
Now, my dad is not a poor guy. He makes about $30 an hour full time, and ... | he hit me and I moved out (about a month and a half ago). I'm now living with my grandmother. I believe he gives her about $100-200 for food a month. |
t3_mr748 | AskReddit | Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"? | So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semester, I did it on a band I pulled out of a hat (seriously, I just hit shuffle on iTunes and picke... | I found out I was good at writing papers on a band that isn't my favourite band but I found it nets me the best grades. Does this make me obsessed with that band? |
t3_k9q6b | cats | Acquired cat! Now a question.. | So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for ventilation. They've got child bars, but because Luna is so sma... | I live on the 5th floor and my cat just walked out on my window ledge and came back in. Should I be nervous she's going to explore too far out and fall to her kitty death? |
t3_30l1ug | tifu | TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5. | As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5.
I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did suck being hated by so many, but things were a lot worse for the 2nd tier dorks.... | tried to make a weird kid feel better and ended up being attacked by him because he was hungry. I not only had a sore arm but I felt horrible for the kids living conditions at home, double whammy. |
t3_259u9r | relationships | Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt. | I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical mushy, emotional, lovey dovey girl. She never speaks about her feelings, she never tells me whats wrong and she never told me she loved me wit... | Me emotional guy, gf unemotional. Broke up, wanting to know if most girls actually like romance and guys caring and shit, or if this unemotional, uncommunicative bullshit is the norm. |
t3_3kbx9e | relationships | Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me | Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault.
Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/skyping/etc with my girlfriend i'm worrying that i did something wrong and that she is weirded out or mad at me and just isn't telling me. It doesn't help that this is a long distan... | I constantly worry that I've done something to weird out or upset my girlfriend and can't help it - it's having detrimental affects on me as a person.. |
t3_u4qrv | AskReddit | Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me. | I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but with friends i didn't think of it. We agreed to not tell anyone about it. Howeve... | Girl had a nip slip at prom, photo was taken (not on purpose) and it was blamed on me. |
t3_sxbg4 | relationships | Pride only hurts, it never helps. | Me 26 Her 28
Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years. There's been ups and downs recently and ... | Girlfriend on break sleeps with another guy (after promising not to), lots of remorse, trying to figure out if I should take her back. |
t3_nxx5g | AskReddit | confused. | I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us, or if we are space farts; fact of the matter is... | I try not to give fucks, but eventually fucks are given. Can fucks be ungiven? Help. |
t3_1kl4sz | tifu | TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning. | Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the couple who run this home has had a litter of puppies. Out of the 8, 7 survived and 1 of those is the sec... | I attempted an incognito social experiment to estimate to see how many bronies live in my area and got it blown wide open by way of discussion of video games. |
t3_3zm7ca | relationships | There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do. | I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky for me and the baby. If I were to get pregnant, I would have to take a shot of heparin (blood thinner) in my stomach twice a day to reduce the risk of miscarriage, and thrombosis.
So basically, i... | I probably can't have kids, but boyfriend wants kids and doesn't really want to adopt. I want to be able to have children for him, but also want him to respect me. |
t3_39evy6 | relationships | I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. | So I had met this girl when I started this new job. She worked there for a few months after I got hired, then moved onto a different career path. But was still a part of the social circle I was a part of. I had a huge crush on her soon after, she did not reciprocate that feeling. I was a little sour about it, but decid... | Did I take the easy way out? Or did I make a wise choice by realizing that this was not going anywhere? |
t3_1yu5q3 | cats | really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this | So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt even notice until he started screaming I mean SCREEAMMINGG like if you had just cut your self rea... | MY BRO GOT FUCKED UP BY MY CAT, I ALMOST GOT FUCKED UP BY HIM. CAT IS NEVER LIKE THAT AND IS EXTREMELY LOVABLE |
t3_4yyvu1 | relationships | I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him... | My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with him.
Yesterday he asked me to move in with him. I'm graduating college this fall, and am looking for a job in the same are... | I don't want to move in with my boyfriend because I like visiting my family without him, want to move my parents into my home in the future, and just like being alone. Does this mean anything? |
t3_47vfuj | relationships | Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls | So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many.
She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, because she was texting, snapchatting and calling another guy who was either a fuck buddy, or used her for sex, or something along those lines... | GF talks to guys from her past, but gets mad when I talk to old female friends. What should I do? |
t3_10do9r | Advice | Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair... | So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem solved, right? Wrong. Today my dad came and bitched me out about "Respecting other peop... | sepmom put time blocks on wifi, all i want to do is watch netflix at night... Can i put myself as admin without being caught? (Are my lying skills good enough) |
t3_52qe0z | dogs | [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen | So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a dog got out and attacked Willie (my dog). He wrapped his teeth around his neck and pushed him to the ground and r... | My dog was attacked and I'm scared he's going to die. I'm really not ready to say goodbye to him. |
t3_3c5lsl | relationships | My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish? | We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (and fiance) originate. Despite wanting to be there for her special day, there's several reasons why I don't want to go:
1) She has cheated ... | Friend wants to get married to guy she cheated on in Morocco. Don't wanna go cos I hate the place from bad experience and disagree with infidelity. |
t3_152lhf | relationships | I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified? | I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and have expressed this to my boyfriend. I have a well paying part time job and also am a full time student. He works ful... | My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to help me with anything, even when he sees I'm clearly stressed out. What actions do I need to take to change his behavior? Or is it too late? |
t3_nwu8y | AskReddit | Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party? | I only think it is fair I should begin.
So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These parties were usually thrown by really rich kids with massive houses and tons of money to throw away and what was my favo... | Got super drunk, passed out, had to take emergency piss and pee'd on the furnace causing the smell of stinky urine to permeate the house. |
t3_1ebk9u | offmychest | I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. | We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of drifted away after I moved out. But we still were kind and respectful to each other. I think of... | I'm conflicted about my ex because seeing him made me realize that sometimes what you think you want isn't what's good for you. |
t3_43ti13 | relationships | I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral.. | Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice.
Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attractive, great personality, respectful job etc. Things have been good so far, however, we've had sex 10 times s... | Seeing girl for a month, I go down on her every time, having great sex, she still hasn't gone down on me.. |
t3_30b633 | relationships | Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife? | I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well , he would only talk to me in "baby talk" about everything. He would speak to me like I was an actual infant. I hated that and told him to stop like 1,000 t... | ex got married, proposed to girl with used ring. Still won't leave me alone. Do I tell his wife?? |
t3_1juaz7 | relationships | Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it | Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we communicate wonderfully and everything has been great. We talk about our future a lot and can honestly see ourselves getting married once we are out of school in two+ ye... | Me and my SO who is the man of my dreams are going to be long distance for two+ years, not sure what we should do |
t3_36rr3e | relationships | I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. | Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never seen him smoke. It's not a secret that I absolutely hate the habit (cigarettes). I just think it's disgusting and I personally don't (usually) date guys... | I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed. |
t3_2l3mf0 | relationships | Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work? | I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break:
We have a lease together until August 2015. We are wanting to take a 1-month break in order to re-evaluate our relationship, decide what our needs are, and try to "fall back in love" with eachother. The siz... | BF and I taking a break to re-evaluate our relationship, but I'm not sure how to go through with a meaningful break if we are still living together and seeing eachother every day. |
t3_13eshb | relationships | I *Might* be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M] | I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant and she is saying I am the father. I don't know if I believe her since our "relationship" was very casual. I don'... | Had a fling for a month. Apparently the girl I had the fling with is pregnant and says its mine. I'm married and have a family of my own already. Not sure what to do. |
t3_4umtkx | relationships | I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions.. | I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that.
We work in different departments and see each other pretty regularly but theres always customers or coworkers around. I've known h... | How do you ask out a coworker that you almost never are alone with? Is it okay to ask a girl on a date in front of people? |
t3_34b5gw | relationships | I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline) | Heyooo,
So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of messages to each other. It was gradual at first and in the beginning of our online friendship he said that I was easy to talk to because of t... | Met a guy online and am getting feelings for him. I am leaving the country to meet him and need some advice on whether the feeling could be mutual or not. |
t3_4tkukx | relationships | I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice. | My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on.
She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a couple hours. One day recently when she was leaving she said goodbye and then I heard her phone start giving her GP... | I suspect my wife may be unfaithful but have 0 proof. I genuinely appreciate any help or advice. Thanks. |
t3_43y3dy | relationships | Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it | We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was definite affection towards each other. Both of us cared for each other deeply without question.
Yet I felt like something was missi... | I initiated a breakup due to lack of passion in the relationship even though everything else about the relationship was just fine. I feel horrible about it. Any words of advice? |
t3_ssxdb | relationships | Frustrated with these people... | So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back.
The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hide the fact they were back together. Frustrated me pretty badly. I've asked... | Girl broke up with guy, guy asks to get back together and they. I like her, don't know what to do. |
t3_14e2an | relationships | My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24] | This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years.
We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun things, together or with friends, we respect eachothers boundaries, and do what we want ... | I tought my gf drank too much, build up resentment, exploded in her face. This happened 2 times before, now she wants explenation that it won't happen again. |
t3_rutrl | AskReddit | Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that *anyone* won, and none of us could say a thing about it. | I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that the outcome told to us can have no correlation whatsoever to how people actually voted?
We, the millions of individuals who voted, have no real recourse for saying what the outcome *should have* been because we are all so disconnec... | There is no way for us, as individual voters, to really comprehend the logistics of a national election. So... IMO there is an element of faith involved, because we can be told any outcome. |
t3_3fre3a | relationships | Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there. | I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this:
*I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months.
*I stay at his house (and he has 2 housemates) for *most* nights of the week
and somehow this justifies me paying for rent and bills.
However: ... | BF's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just because I stay over a lot. Bills have not increased and I don't use water or electricity anyway. Thoughts? |
t3_vyq1k | BreakUps | So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us? | We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me b/c he loves when we are together but when we aren't he doesn't see it working. The thing is when we aren't together, he is with his mother, his mother who hates... | How do I get over a break-up and talk to people about it when the one person I want to talk to is my best friend, being the guy that dumped me. |
t3_ic8j7 | AskReddit | I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen? | Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both school (which means they are coming from all over the state) and from home. However, since it's summer, I know that a lot of people won't show.... | How do I throw a kick ass party with a bunch of people who don't really know each other and my house is still standing in the morning? |
t3_1jh4fh | relationships | Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it? | So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just recently started talking to a really great guy, who really cares about me and likes me. So everythings cool and gravy and dandy so why do I not like myself so m... | Hate myself for no reason, don't know why, and don't know how to get past it. Makes me sad that I can't seem to really love myself |
t3_38momy | offmychest | I'm worried. | I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country for a while. I'm not even sure if they know yet.
I s... | My uncle killed himself today, leaving behind his ex-wife and two children who struggle with depression and coping with their parents divorce. I need help. |
t3_3823i0 | tifu | TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends | So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Charlie pencil game (if you don't know what it is then go on youtube). We all tr... | Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow. |
t3_2au7ub | relationships | I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do? | We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with it.
He said: "tell me you don't like me talking dirty to you and mean it and I'll stop."
Me: "we both have someone. Regardless of whether or not I like it, its ... | ex and I have been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago. He tried to sext me last night, even though we both have partners. Advice on what to do. |
t3_2vplfm | Advice | I think I suck at my job. | Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working.
I just came out of a meeting where I was told that mistakes were not ... | Should human error be expected sometimes in the workplace? Is a manager with "no tolerance" for error being unfair or simply having healthy standards for his company? |
t3_4le58z | relationships | My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses? | My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year.
We both make a similar salary. He makes about $2K more than I do. We have been discussing how to share expenses and split the bills. We are both open to communication and discussion on this ... | Boyfriend and I are considering moving into the home I own. We have almost identical salaries. What is reasonable for splitting the expenses? |
t3_1jhf23 | relationships | Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship) | So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada.
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Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital for a couple of nights. She became slightly unwell during this time and was unable to visit me which is fine.
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H... | GF of 5 years hasn't come to visit me in 2 weeks (nearly 3) of being bed ridden, should I be mad? |
t3_1d26n0 | relationships | Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]? | Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different schools 5 hours apart. It was rough in the beginning because of the distance, but everything is great now. We text throughout the day and talk on the phone/skype every night. We see each other anywhere ... | Boyfriend would rather have family members he is not close with attend his graduation rather than me, his girlfriend. It makes me sad. |
t3_2e8zan | relationships | My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had. | I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (even though I always tell him that isn't so. He is one of the only people I've been to orgasm with, and it's the best sex I've ever had) because I'... | Dating a crazy guy who thinks I don't pay enough attention to him and can't handle the fact that I've slept with so many people. I should break up with him, right? |
t3_2fumiw | relationships | Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help | We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of your life. And then we got even closer. She fell in love with me, I couldnt hurt her so we started to evolve into a c... | Got into a relationship with my best friend, but I feel that it has a deadline - looking for help cause I don't want to lose her. |
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