PyTorch BatchSampler still loads from Dataset one-by-one
### Describe the bug

In [the docs here](https://huggingface.co/docs/datasets/use_with_pytorch#use-a-batchsampler), it mentions the issue of the Dataset being read one-by-one, then states that using a BatchSampler resolves the issue.

I'm not sure if this is a mistake in the docs or the code, but it seems that the only way for a Dataset to be passed a list of indexes  by PyTorch (instead of one index at a time) is to define a `__getitems__` method (note the plural) on the Dataset object, and since the HF Dataset doesn't have this, PyTorch executes [this line of code](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/master/torch/utils/data/_utils/fetch.py#L58), reverting to fetching one-by-one.

### Steps to reproduce the bug

You can put a breakpoint in `Dataset.__getitem__()` or just print the args from there and see that it's called multiple times for a single `next(iter(dataloader))`, even when using the code from the docs:
```py
from torch.utils.data.sampler import BatchSampler, RandomSampler
batch_sampler = BatchSampler(RandomSampler(ds), batch_size=32, drop_last=False)
dataloader = DataLoader(ds, batch_sampler=batch_sampler)
```



### Expected behavior

The expected behaviour would be for it to fetch batches from the dataset, rather than one-by-one.

To demonstrate that there is room for improvement: once I have a HF dataset `ds`, if I just add this line:
```py
ds.__getitems__ = ds.__getitem__
```
...then the time taken to loop over the dataset improves considerably (for wikitext-103, from one minute to 13 seconds with batch size 32). Probably not a big deal in the grand scheme of things, but seems like an easy win.

### Environment info

- `datasets` version: 2.9.0
- Platform: Linux-5.10.102.1-microsoft-standard-WSL2-x86_64-with-glibc2.31
- Python version: 3.10.8
- PyArrow version: 10.0.1
- Pandas version: 1.5.3