`load_from_disk` vs `load_dataset` performance.
### Describe the bug

I have downloaded `openwebtext` (~12GB) and filtered out a small amount of junk (it's still huge). Now, I would like to use this filtered version for future work. It seems I have two choices:
1. Use `load_dataset` each time, relying on the cache mechanism, and re-run my filtering.
2. `save_to_disk` and then use `load_from_disk` to load the filtered version.

The performance of these two approaches is wildly different:
* Using `load_dataset` takes about 20 seconds to load the dataset, and a few seconds to re-filter (thanks to the brilliant filter/map caching)
* Using `load_from_disk` takes 14 minutes! And the second time I tried, the session just crashed (on a machine with 32GB of RAM)

I don't know if you'd call this a bug, but it seems like there shouldn't need to be two methods to load from disk, or that they should  not take such wildly different amounts of time, or that one should not crash. Or maybe that the docs could offer some guidance about when to pick which method and why two methods exist, or just how do most people do it?

Something I couldn't work out from reading the docs was this: can I modify a dataset from the hub, save it (locally) and use `load_dataset` to load it? This [post seemed to suggest that the answer is no](https://discuss.huggingface.co/t/save-and-load-datasets/9260).

### Steps to reproduce the bug

See above

### Expected behavior

Load times should be about the same.

### Environment info

- `datasets` version: 2.9.0
- Platform: Linux-5.10.102.1-microsoft-standard-WSL2-x86_64-with-glibc2.31
- Python version: 3.10.8
- PyArrow version: 11.0.0
- Pandas version: 1.5.3