Row indexing a dataset with numpy integers
### Feature request

Allow indexing datasets with a scalar numpy integer type.

### Motivation

Indexing a dataset with a scalar numpy.int* object raises a TypeError. This is due to the test in `datasets/formatting/formatting.py:key_to_query_type`

``` python
def key_to_query_type(key: Union[int, slice, range, str, Iterable]) -> str:
    if isinstance(key, int):
        return "row"
    elif isinstance(key, str):
        return "column"
    elif isinstance(key, (slice, range, Iterable)):
        return "batch"
    _raise_bad_key_type(key)
```

In the row case, it checks if key is an int, which returns false when key is integer like but not a builtin python integer type. This is counterintuitive because a numpy array of np.int64s can be used for the batch case.

For example:

``` python
import numpy as np

import datasets

dataset = datasets.Dataset.from_dict({"a": [1, 2, 3, 4], "b": [5, 6, 7, 8]})

# Regular indexing
dataset[0]
dataset[:2]

# Indexing with numpy data types (expect same results)
idx = np.asarray([0, 1])
dataset[idx]  # Succeeds when using an array of np.int64 values
dataset[idx[0]]  # Fails with TypeError when using scalar np.int64
```

For the user, this can be solved by wrapping `idx[0]` in `int` but the test could also be changed in `key_to_query_type` to accept a less strict definition of int.

``` diff
+import numbers
+
def key_to_query_type(key: Union[int, slice, range, str, Iterable]) -> str:
+   if isinstance(key, numbers.Integral):
-   if isinstance(key, int):
        return "row"
    elif isinstance(key, str):
        return "column"
    elif isinstance(key, (slice, range, Iterable)):
        return "batch"
    _raise_bad_key_type(key)
```

Looking at how others do it, pandas has an `is_integer` definition that it checks which uses `is_integer_object` defined in `pandas/_libs/utils.pxd`:

``` cython
cdef inline bint is_integer_object(object obj) noexcept:
    """
    Cython equivalent of

    `isinstance(val, (int, np.integer)) and not isinstance(val, (bool, np.timedelta64))`

    Parameters
    ----------
    val : object

    Returns
    -------
    is_integer : bool

    Notes
    -----
    This counts np.timedelta64 objects as integers.
    """
    return (not PyBool_Check(obj) and isinstance(obj, (int, cnp.integer))
            and not is_timedelta64_object(obj))
```

This would be less flexible as it explicitly checks for numpy integer, but worth noting that they had the need to ensure the key is not a bool.

### Your contribution

I can submit a pull request with the above changes after checking that indexing succeeds with the numpy integer type. Or if there is a different integer check that would be preferred I could add that.

If there is a reason not to want this behavior that is fine too.
